Saturday, October 19, 2024

Saturday Wrestling Spotlight: Tulsa’s Triumph: The Legacy of Jody Haselbarth in GLOW and Beyond

This week's GLOWING Saturday Spotlight is all about Tulsa, played by Jody Haselbarth. This blog entry was a special collaboration with Jody Haselbarth. A big THANK YOU to Tulsa! Not only did she help co-write this piece, but she also shared some fantastic photos from her rodeo days. Enjoy the trip down memory lane!

Jody as Tulsa

This week's GLOWING Saturday Spotlight is all about Tulsa, played by Jody Haselbarth. Tulsa joined GLOW in the third season and stayed until the show's end, standing out with her cowgirl persona, charming Southern accent, and a whole lot of spunk. Initially seen as a replacement for Dallas from previous seasons, Tulsa carved out her own niche as the Yellow Rose of GLOW. She was one of the "country" girls, alongside Babe and Sally the Farmer's Daughters, but she truly stood on her own, especially with her authentic Texan accent. Tulsa wasn't just another pretty face; she was fearless in the ring, from surviving Beastie shoving raw meat prepped with the potty brush in her mouth during a match to Hollywood performing an iconic flying scissor takedown on her, which can be seen in the opening credits during the season 3 and 4 episodes of GLOW. Her impeccable timing and delivery during skits, as well as her fun raps, made her an even more memorable character. Tulsa connected with the audience, winning their hearts whether she was trash-talking her opponents or performing high-flying moves.


When Matt Cimber was considering her character, Jody told him that all she knew how to be was a cowgirl and that since Dallas left, GLOW needed another one. He actually listened, something he rarely did. Jody was a real rodeo cowgirl; barrel racing, break-away calf roping, and goat tying. She even rode bulls and bareback broncs in all-girl rodeos. Jody said she was horrified that Matt gave her the name Tulsa because it is north of the Red River and because she is a native Texan. Later, her momma told her that she lived in Oklahoma when she was a little girl, so that made everything alright. I loved hearing her say that because my own mom was from Tulsa, Oklahoma, and lived many years in Texas. In her words, "Our sweet mommas are both OK and TX, what a great combination!" Her ring entrance with a lasso became iconic, and though her fans would have loved to see her use it in the ring, she was a clean fighter who earned her victories fairly. She embodied the spirit of a true rodeo cowgirl because she WAS one. Although she wasn’t allowed to use her lasso in the ring (it was considered a weapon), she wouldn’t rope a person anyway since it is a real calf rope that she used in break-away calf roping. She made an exception for Beastie because she considered her livestock.


After the television series was canceled, Jody Haselbarth continued to wrestle as Tulsa independently and was lucky enough to work around the world, wrestling in Malaysia, Hong Kong, Jordan, Panama, England, Japan, and several tours to Hawaii with other ladies of GLOW such as Hollywood, Lightning, Mt. Fiji, Dementia, Tiffany, Dallas, Beastie, and a few others. Officially, Jody made one final televised GLOW appearance as Tulsa, wrestling Hollywood during the 1993 GLOW pay-per-view event. But that wasn't the last we saw of Jody. She went on to become a much sought-after stunt performer, known for her work in movies like Transformers: Age of Extinction, Arlington Road, and Idiocracy. She's also appeared in other popular films and TV shows, proving her versatility and dedication to her craft. Some of her best stunts were in The Texas Chainsaw Massacre as Renee Zellweger’s stunt double and Matthew McConaughey set her on fire. Jody's work has earned her recognition and respect among her peers in the entertainment industry. She's an absolute sweetheart and super fan-friendly, a rare quality among the "Good Girls" from GLOW. Jody is active on Facebook, and along with many of the other ladies of the original GLOW series, she proudly carries the torch, dedicated to preserving the legacy of Tulsa and GLOW for the fans.

Tulsa’s legacy in GLOW is a testament to the impact Jody had on fans and the world of women’s wrestling. Whether you're a long-time fan or discovering GLOW for the first time, Tulsa’s matches are definitely worth revisiting. They capture the essence of what made GLOW such a groundbreaking and entertaining show.

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Friday, October 18, 2024

Carnival Thrills and Fairground Nostalgia: 1992, the year Reithoffer took over the Pensacola Interstate Fair

Reithoffer's Kroon Dutch Wheel

Back in October 1992, I briefly returned from New York after spending a year hitting up Six Flags Over Georgia, Six Flags Great Adventure, and Coney Island. To be honest, I was a bit jaded and felt like no fair could compare to those experiences, even though I'd always loved fairs. The buzz around the Pensacola Interstate Fair that year was off the charts, especially with WEAR-3 showcasing Reithoffer Shows rolling into town for the first time. The fair was set to run from October 22 through October 31. My parents had split up, so I was staying with my mom, but my dad came in from Mobile, and we met up with my sister and brother-in-law at the fair. Reithoffer was like a carnival on steroids, with rides and attractions straight out of a dream, some even featured in the film "BIG". As soon as we arrived, we were greeted by a sea of bright colors, the irresistible smell of fair food, and the sound of excited screams from the rides. It was sensory overload in the best way possible.


In previous years, Goodings Million Dollar Midways had the contract, claiming 85 rides and attractions, but with Reithoffer, there were over 120. After a closer look, it turned out there were around 45 rides in past years, and with the new contract, there were about 60 rides. The higher numbers included games, food, and other fairgoer interests. The rides are the heart of the fair, with the Kroon Dutch Wheel on one end and the Sky Wheel (aka Double Ferris Wheel) towering over everything on the other end, both offering breathtaking views of the fairgrounds and the city beyond. The lineup was a good mix of kiddie, family, and adrenaline-pumping thrill rides. Reithoffer owned most of the rides but also booked some from other carnival companies. Unlike Goodings' lineup, everything on the midway looked well-kept and clean. An old ride that had never appeared at the fair before, the Bayren Kurve, became one of my favorites that year, unfortunately it never made another appearance. Classics like the Enterprise, Sky Diver, Tilt-a-Whirl, Spider, Zipper, Kamikaze, and a similar ride called the Tomahawk were also present. The Tilt-a-Whirl and Spider were regular fixtures, spinning riders in every direction and leaving them dizzy. I learned my lesson the first time I rode them: never again. The Zipper had been a favorite for many years, and I often rode it alone at Coney Island despite the no single rider rule. This one was much more colorful than the Coney Island version.

For those preferring more leisurely rides, there was a carousel with beautifully painted horses, a smaller ferris wheel called the Aristocrat Wheel, a Round Up, and a couple of Gravitrons. Another new ride to the fair that year was the Huss Rainbow, a regular fixture at the Mobile fair and one of my favorites. It’s very rare in the US now, and despite the movement, it was huge, smooth, and didn’t involve restrictive restraints. Reithoffer seemed genuinely proud of their equipment, with almost all rides featuring signage with stats and insights about their origin. This added a special touch, making typical rides on this midway feel unique. Reithoffer showcased a Himalaya from France, a German-built ride called the Raupen Bahn with a canopy that covered the seats, and another German ride called See Sturm Bahn, which had boat-shaped cars that spun on their own during the ride cycle as well as a decorative water feature in the center. Compared to previous years, Reithoffer offered substance and power, with fewer filler attractions like funhouses, dark rides, and mirror mazes, though they did have a few. Game booths lined the paths, offering chances to win giant stuffed animals or quirky prizes. The 4-H animals were a hit with families, allowing kids to get up close and personal with friendly goats, sheep, and even llamas. I noticed fewer freak shows compared to previous years, but there was still one set up at the corner of the midway. I never really took an interest in freak shows, thinking it was rude to stare at people with defects. The food was impossible to resist, with corn dogs, Polish and Italian sausages, carnival pizza, funnel cakes, giant turkey legs, candy apples, and cotton candy. Reithoffer Shows didn't just bring rides and games; they brought a sense of excitement and wonder, creating an atmosphere that was magical and unforgettable. The debut of Reithoffer Shows at the Pensacola Interstate Fair was a game-changer, setting the bar high for future fairs and leaving everyone eagerly anticipating the next year's extravaganza. For those who were there, it was an unforgettable experience that left cherished memories and a sense of community. Thirty-one years later, they still hold that contract.

Thursday, October 17, 2024

Embracing Eccentricity: A Dive into David Sedaris's Naked a book review

Naked by David Sedaris Front Cover

David Sedaris is one of my all time favorite authors. His quirky stories and style of writing is not only entertaining and light, it offers insight to the life of a not so typical family. “Naked” by David Sedaris is a rollicking collection of autobiographical essays that delve into the absurdities and eccentricities of Sedaris’s life. From his unconventional childhood to his adult misadventures, each essay is a blend of humor, wit, and deeply personal reflections. The book kicks off with “Chipped Beef,” where Sedaris sets the tone for his storytelling style—sharp, sardonic, and unflinchingly honest. He doesn’t shy away from exposing the oddities of his family dynamics, making you laugh out loud while also feeling a pang of empathy.

One standout essay, "Get Your Ya-Ya's Out!", paints a vivid picture of Sedaris’s eccentric Greek grandmother. Through his narrative, he manages to capture the complexity of familial relationships with a balance of humor and tenderness. Sedaris’s ability to find comedy in the mundane and the bizarre is what makes this book so compelling. His encounters and observations are quirky yet relatable, creating a connection with readers who see fragments of their own lives in his stories.

As the book progresses, Sedaris continues to unravel the fabric of his life with essays like “Next of Kin” and “Cyclops,” where he reflects on his experiences with an unfiltered lens. His storytelling is infused with a kind of vulnerable honesty that’s both disarming and engaging. The titular essay “Naked” is a particularly candid exploration of his time at a nudist colony, where his trademark humor and self-deprecation shine. Sedaris masterfully turns his personal discomfort into comedic gold, offering readers a glimpse into his psyche while keeping them thoroughly entertained.

In essence, “Naked” is a testament to David Sedaris’s talent for blending humor with introspection. His essays are not just funny anecdotes but insightful commentaries on human nature and the quirks that define us. It’s a book that will make you laugh, think, and perhaps even see the oddities in your own life through a more humorous lens. Whether you’re a long-time fan or new to Sedaris’s work, “Naked” is a must-read for anyone who appreciates sharp wit and genuine storytelling.

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Wednesday, October 16, 2024

An easy way to knit, without needles!!!

Many people who’ve seen my knitted scarves and hats often ask how I made them and why I chose loom knitting over crochet or needle knitting. Loom knitting is such a fun and easy way to get into knitting, especially if traditional needles aren’t your thing. Even if you become advanced, you can make the jump to needles, but I never saw the need—I love the looms.

While I was homeless in New York, I used to spend time shopping at Woolworth, a store with a ton of useful, practical, and sometimes quirky items at affordable prices. One day, I stumbled upon a knitting set with plastic gadgets called knitting looms instead of the usual needles, along with some yarn. I bought the set and took it back to my place in New Jersey. It was in the toy department, but it was definitely not for children or anyone expecting instant results. After reading the poorly written directions and a few starts and restarts, I got the hang of knitting and purling and created my first scarf with the bright pink and turquoise yarn included in the set. Within a few days of wearing it, it was stolen from me after I took it off and sat it in the seat next to me on the subway. One moment it was in the seat and the next it was gone, lesson learned and I hope the person who took it appreciated it's warmth and extreme itchiness.

A recreation of my first knitted scarf, complete with the mistakes I made when I first learned.

I knitted a few scarves and hats with the set, using the cheap yarn I found at Woolworth—sometimes itchy, sometimes smooth and comfortable. Loom knitting became a fun and useful skill for me and helped pass time during long nights when I had nothing to do. I would start working on a scarf when the sun went down and by the time it rose, I had another scarf finished.

A Typical Loom Knitting Set

If you’re looking for a great yarn to start with, some go for Red Heart Super Saver because of the color choices and price point but I highly recommend Red Heart With Love it is a fantastic choice for anyone looking for comfort as they work. It’s super soft, comes in tons of vibrant colors, and is perfect for making cozy scarves, hats, and blankets. Plus, it’s machine washable, which is always a win. The best part? You don’t need to be a pro to get started. With a knitting loom and a skein of yarn, you can create beautiful, even stitches with minimal effort.

The Wonder Woman scarf I knitted a few years ago.

Speaking of looms, if you’re in the market for one, eBay is a great place to find knitting loom sets. You can score some awesome deals on both new and used looms. Whether you need a simple round loom for hats or a long loom for blankets, eBay has got you covered. Just make sure to check the seller’s ratings and reviews to ensure you’re getting a good quality product. It’s also a good idea to look for sets that include different sizes of looms, so you have the flexibility to tackle various projects. I highly recommend purchasing a set of long looms, perfect for scarves and blankets as well as a set of round looms which are the most versatile as you can create round projects such as hats but also flat panels for blankets and also scarves. Knifty Knitter was once the gold standard but Provocraft discontinued the line and companies such as Boye and Simplicity began making looms that were similar. You can also find them in stores such as Michaels branded Loops and Threads and Yarnology by Hobby Lobby but the no name brands are just as functional and do the exact same thing, no need to spend a lot on them. A few years back, I reviewed the Martha Stewart Knit and Weave Kit. I hated it at first, but it eventually grew on me. It does take a bit more effort to use, but it’s super convenient since it comes with pieces you can assemble into whatever loom you need.

Martha Stewart Knit and Weave Kit

If you’re looking for more yarn options, Lion Brand has some great recommendations. Their Wool-Ease Thick & Quick yarn is perfect for loom knitting. It’s a super bulky yarn that works up quickly and provides excellent stitch definition and texture. Another great option is the I Love This Yarn from Hobby Lobby. It’s incredibly soft and comes in a variety of beautiful colors, making it perfect for any project you have in mind.

For those who need a little direction or ideas for knitting creations, I recommend checking out some "Loom Knitting Primer" by Isela Phelps as well as "Loom Knitting for Beginners" by Jennifer Finn. I love the fact that you don't need to count stitches or pay much attention to what you are doing. It's easy enough that you can watch television, listen to music or even an audiobook while you knit.

Overall, loom knitting is a fun and rewarding hobby and you may find that you are able to sell some of your creations to people who, like yourself, love handmade creations. It’s perfect for beginners and experienced knitters alike, offering a relaxing way to create beautiful handmade items that are functional and very useful. And with the convenience of purchasing loom sets on eBay and exploring yarn options from Lion Brand and Hobby Lobby, you can easily find everything you need to get started. So grab some yarn, find a comfy spot, and start loom knitting your next masterpiece!

If you're not interested in creating your own but would to purchase a hand knitted scarf, hat or both from me, let me know and I can create something for you, while not cheap, I do try and stay reasonable with my prices.

Tuesday, October 15, 2024

Debra Dejean: A Disco Diva's Journey

Debra Dejean's self titled album cover

Debra Dejean might not be a household name today, but back in the early 80s, she was a disco queen with a flair for catchy dance tracks. Born in New Orleans and raised in Memphis, Dejean made a splash with her debut album "Debra Dejean" in 1981. Her biggest hits, "Goosebumps" and "Are You Lovin' Somebody," climbed the Billboard Hot Dance Club Play chart, making her a staple in the dance clubs of the time. Her music had that perfect mix of infectious beats and soulful vocals that got people moving.


When it came to live shows, Debra Dejean knew how to work the stage. Her performances were all about high energy and connecting with the crowd. Whether she was belting out "Goosebumps" or getting the audience to sing along to "Are You Lovin' Somebody," Dejean had a way of making every show feel personal and electrifying. Fans loved her for her charisma and the way she could bring her disco anthems to life.


Her record, though short-lived, left a lasting impression on the disco scene. The album received positive reviews for its vibrant energy and Dejean's soulful delivery. Critics praised her for bringing a fresh yet authentic sound to the genre, with her unique voice and danceable beats creating a standout listening experience. Even though she only released one album, her impact on the dance music genre was significant. Dejean passed away in 2015, but her music continues to be celebrated by disco enthusiasts and those who appreciate a good dance track.

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Monday, October 14, 2024

Remembering TG&Y: The Store That Had It All

TG&Y Store Fronts

Growing up in the 70s and 80s, some of my best memories were from when my mom or dad would take my sister and me shopping. One of our favorite places was TG&Y, a beloved variety store. This "five and dime" was a staple in many communities across the United States, catering to people who weren't exactly well-off or just enjoyed an all-in-one shop. It predated the expansion of Wal-Mart and it's only rival at the time seemed to be K-Mart. I've heard it called Toys, Games & Yarn, Turtles, Girdles & Yo-Yos, and other variations because of its diverse departments.

TG&Y was founded in 1935 by Rawdon E. Tomlinson, Enoch L. “Les” Gosselin, and Raymond A. Young, whose initials formed the store’s name. The chain quickly grew, reaching its peak in the 1970s and 1980s with nearly 1,000 stores in 29 states. Known for its slogan, “Your best buy is at TG&Y,” the store aimed to provide a wide range of products at affordable prices. Walking into a TG&Y store was like stepping into a treasure trove of goods. The store was divided into several departments, each offering a unique shopping experience:

Toys: The toy section was a paradise for kids and for kids like me who weren't really taken to toy stores, it was THE toy store. From classic board games to the latest action figures (hello Masters of the Universe), TG&Y had it all. Popular items included yo-yos, dolls, and model kits. My sister spent hours in her preteen years gluing together and painting model cars with Testors glue and paint from TG&Y. Prices were incredibly reasonable, with many toys costing less than a dollar. Towards the end, I racked up on Masters of the Universe action figures because clearance prices were around a dollar.

Yarn and Crafts: For the crafty shopper like my mom, TG&Y’s yarn and crafts department was heaven. You could find a wide variety of yarns in different colors and textures, perfect for knitting and crocheting projects. A skein of yarn typically cost around 50 cents to a dollar. Unfortunately, my mom gravitated to budget-friendly acrylic yarns in orange, brown, mustard, white, and dusty rose that usually felt a little itchy. She enjoyed crocheting, and the prices were right for her, so that's what mattered.

Pets: TG&Y had a pet section where you could buy small pets like goldfish, hamsters, and parakeets. Pet supplies, including food and cages, were also available at budget-friendly prices. I always wanted a hamster, but my cousin Lynda put a nail in the coffin when it came to my mom deciding to get one for me after hers escaped several times. I honestly don't think my mom would have bought one anyway; she wasn't much of an animal person and was good at using other people's examples, no matter if the story happened or not.

Household Goods: From kitchenware to cleaning supplies, TG&Y offered a range of household items. You could find everything from pots and pans to brooms and mops, all at prices that wouldn’t break the bank. My mom's cleaning supply list was definitely fulfilled by TG&Y: Dutch Cleanser, 409, Lemon Joy, and Windex were her go-to products.

Clothing: The clothing department featured affordable fashion for the whole family. Whether you needed a new pair of jeans or a cozy sweater, TG&Y had you covered whether you wanted them or not. What you wore wasn't a big deal during elementary school unless it was dirty or stinky, and by the time I was in middle school, when kids began to worry about impressing others and not wanting to wear cheap clothes, TG&Y was already on the way out and not offering up-to-date clothing.

Hardware: They sold motor oil, tools, pesticides, bug killers, garden implements, and lawnmowers. My dad bought a riding lawnmower from TG&Y, and it worked for years.

Electronics & Records: The electronics section featured various brands and sizes of TVs, as well as different brands of stereos and record players. I don't remember if they carried high-end stuff, but I know they carried lower-priced brands like Soundesign, Emerson, and their own store-branded transistor radios. The record section covered top 40 pop, rock, country, soundtracks, and compilations. They carried records, tapes, and up until the early 80s, 8-tracks. TG&Y also carried 45 records but always seemed to be a week or two behind the new release selection at K-Mart, although they were a dime or so cheaper. I remember when my dad bought me Van Halen's Jump, my first "grown up" 45 at the TG&Y in Schillinger Road in Mobile, Alabama. I played it on my hand me down Emerson Disco 80 record player until the grooves were worn to the point where it sounded like it was being played on a radio station that wasn't quite getting full reception. I was so proud of it and I always looked forward to looking at the records in TG&Y. 

One of the most memorable aspects of TG&Y was its affordability. The store’s philosophy was to "have what people want at a price they can afford to pay," meaning shoppers could find great deals on a wide range of products. For example, a toy might cost 25 cents, a skein of yarn 50 cents, and a goldfish just a few dimes. This made TG&Y a popular destination for families looking to stretch their dollars.

Shopping at TG&Y was more than just a trip to the store; it was an experience. Entering TG&Y involved passing by a kid's merry-go-round and a car ride that took a quarter per ride, a few gumball and candy machines, and a couple of arcade games like Pac-Man and Galaga. The friendly staff, wide variety of products, and unbeatable prices created a welcoming atmosphere that kept customers coming back. Whether you were a child eagerly picking out a new toy or an adult stocking up on household essentials, TG&Y had something for everyone. Some stores had their own lunch counters. One in Mobile, Alabama, had one, and I obsessed over the fruit punch in the JetSpray Beverage Dispenser because something about it looked refreshing. Can't remember what the food was like, but I feel it might have been similar to the K-Mart restaurant or Woolworth lunch counter. The checkout experience was just like all the other stores at the time, with simple cash registers, credit card imprinters with slips, and flat paper bags that sounded super crinkly, which would get folded closed and the receipt stapled to by the cashier.

My last memory of an actual TG&Y, before McCrory's converted them to the short lived concepts of even cheaper dollar store concepts like Dollar Zone, was the Gulf Breeze, Florida location which always had pool and water floats fully inflated and stored just outside the front doors. I always wanted my parents to stop there to buy a float on the way to Pensacola Beach.

Though TG&Y stores have long since closed their doors, the memories of shopping there remain vivid for me. It was a place where my parents could find just about anything they needed while entertaining their kids, all at prices that made you smile. TG&Y may be gone, but its legacy as a beloved variety store lives on in the hearts of those who shopped there. For anyone looking for a similar shopping experience, minus the pets, records, lawnmowers, and crafting sections, the closest thing in modern times would be stores like Roses or perhaps a Walmart that hasn’t been converted to a Supercenter.

Sunday, October 13, 2024

Surviving the Chaos: My Experience at the Old National (Nasty) Ramada Plaza Trap House Hotel

Working at the Ramada Plaza Hotel on Old National Highway in College Park, Georgia, was probably the most challenging experience of my life. To call this hotel rundown is an understatement. The owner, an Indian man named Arman, whose business, Blue Lagoon, also owns a few franchised Popeyes chicken locations. Arman was a master at playing games with the employees, treating us more like servants. As a front desk agent, most of us made $12 an hour with absolutely NO benefits other than deep discounts at Wyndham hotels, which none of the employees could take advantage of due to our low pay. One significant issue was the high turnover rate among staff, not just because of low pay. This constant change led to a lack of cohesion and teamwork, making it difficult to maintain consistent standards. New employees often found themselves overwhelmed due to being undertrained, which contributed to a stressful work environment. Training was confusing, and management relied on a couple of employees who thought they were being replaced to train new hires, leading to incorrect training. Arman had a rule where our checks would be docked for any cash mistakes. During my tenure, some employees had their paychecks docked for incorrectly checking in guests or not checking rooms for damage or smoking before returning the $150 security deposit.

The Entrance to the Hotel

Another major downside was the hotel’s location. While being close to the airport might seem convenient, it also meant dealing with a high volume of transient guests. I'm not talking about the standard homeless person; I’m talking about drug addicts, pimps, hookers, and even drag queen hookers who wouldn’t tell their clients they were actually men. Many times, I would watch the security cameras and see someone running down the hall, chased by a naked man. Usually, the hooker would run out the door with the man's clothes and wallet, escaping onto Old National. This less-than-savory clientele led to various issues, from noise complaints to security concerns. The area around the hotel wasn’t the safest, and employees often felt uneasy, especially during late-night shifts. When they Super-8 Hotel was shut down for violations including running without a business license, the number of really horrible guests ramped up.


I was the only white person working there at the time and received threats during all my shifts just for following job guidelines. Aside from housekeeping, who worked from 8 a.m. to 5 p.m., the only employee on the premises was the front desk agent. Many of my shifts were as night audit, from 10 p.m. to 7 a.m., by myself. We did have a security officer who came in at midnight and left by 6 a.m., leaving me alone to protect myself. A few months in, I started bringing a retractable baton, then a taser, and eventually my Ruger LCP-Max holstered to my hip so problematic guests could see I could defend myself. This sense of insecurity was just a fraction of the drawbacks of working at the hotel. I saved video footage of guests abusing employees, and although we were told to ignore it, we fought back because otherwise management would dismiss it as typical for the neighborhood.

Things guests do in the rooms

The working conditions at the Ramada Plaza Hotel left much to be desired. The facilities were outdated and in need of repair, making daily tasks difficult and frustrating. For the first two months of working there, we had no hot water. Imagine housekeeping cleaning and washing bedding with no hot water, or trying to shower in cold water during November and December. Shockingly, many guests were okay with it when told there was no hot water. The housekeeping department was problematic, sometimes just straightening things up and remaking beds upon guest checkout rather than properly cleaning the room and changing the sheets and pillowcases. It was not uncommon for guests to find socks, hats, and dirty underwear in the bed after turning down the sheets. Each housekeeper was required to clean at least 16 rooms during their shift, leading to cut corners and dissatisfied guests. I encountered many bizarre situations, like a guest calling to inform me there was poop under her bed. She was okay with it but wanted to let someone know so she wouldn’t be blamed. Housekeeping didn’t use bleach to clean surfaces, sinks, or toilets; instead, they used Fabuloso.

The lack of proper maintenance contributed to the unpleasant working environment. The maintenance man, Arman's brother-in-law Nick, was not up to code or sanitary standards. He also co-managed housekeeping, limiting their Fabuloso use to a gallon a week for a 271-room hotel. Mold was an issue, and instead of proper remediation, Nick would spray bleach cleaner, often leaving bleach stains on the red dirty carpet. Some ceiling tiles were wet and covered in black mold, dripping on me at times. When guests complained about bed bugs, we inspected the rooms ourselves, put them out of service, and moved the guests. Oddly, when pest control was called, the woman spent no more than five minutes, collected her cash envelope, signed a book, and declared no bed bugs. During ice storms, the owner told us we could stay in a room rather than go out in the weather, but there was NO chance I was staying in one of those rooms.

The ceiling tile that dripped on me

Amenities listed on booking sites were unavailable. Arman forced us to lie, telling guests the hotel was under renovation, which it was not. The pool was cleaned only when a production company rented the hotel to film scenes for the miniseries "Candy" starring Jessica Biel. After filming, the pool was never available, and within a week, it was green again with a diaper swirling around the middle. There was no breakfast, in spite of the websites touting free breakfast, not that normal people would want to consume food inside the building.

Doesn't that look refreshing?

There was also another point of their business, airport parking. They mostly did it through a website called Way but when Way was slow to send the check to the owner, he would cut off the Way customers and they would take out their frustration on us. The owner would instruct us to tell them they can stay in our lot for $10 a day if they chose but it had to be paid up front directly to us. Several times, Collage Park Police would come in issuing fines for illegally running an airport park and ride. Whoever was there at the time would be issued the ticket and would be required to show up at court and the owner felt this was OK. I refused to partake in this practice. It's a parking lot that I would never use for my own vehicle due to the fact that the lot was not monitored or patrols during the day or most of the night. I had many upset park and ride people come in shoving their phones in my face with photos of their broken windows and car damage and the only thing I could point out to them was the "Not responsible for damage" signs. Airport parking was a pain, not only because of all that but also the fact that they offered shuttle service between the hotel and airport from 6am till 11pm, supposed to be every half hour but many times the shuttle drivers would do things on their own schedule, leaving us to receive phone calls from upset people cussing us out. The daytime and afternoon employees told me the best thing to do was not answer the phone. What really sucked about the shuttle were the people who didn't realize there was no service between 11pm and 6am, leaving them to their own devices. I can't count how many times I was threatened over the shuttle service and expected to reimburse the person for their transportation cost, which NEVER happened. After a while, I adopted a fake name as the rest of the staff did for complaint purposes. There's a parking lady that is still threatening to sue the hotel and "Tito" to this very day because her car was towed for non-payment of her extended parking fees. The parking situation was really horrible because they would let it get overbooked to the point where the guests of the hotel would have no parking or we were having to turn away people who prepaid. If they ran over and wanted to extend, they had to do it through us on the phone or they would be towed within hours of the clock striking midnight. Even if the person tried to extend through the Way app, they would still get towed. Nice way to do business huh?

Housekeeping considers this "CLEAN"

Management practices were another point of contention. Many employees felt their concerns and suggestions weren’t taken seriously, leading to frustration and disengagement. Clear communication from management was often lacking, resulting in misunderstandings and mistakes. This disconnect made it challenging to foster a positive and productive work atmosphere.

At Thanksgiving, the owner catered a dinner for the employees, acting as if it was good compensation for what we dealt with throughout the year. Our Christmas bonus was a $20 gift card from Wal-Mart, proving the owner didn’t care about the employees. If he treated us this way, I can't imagine how he treated his employees at the Popeyes Chicken locations he owned.


Lastly, the compensation and benefits at the Ramada Plaza Hotel were inadequate. Many employees felt their hard work wasn’t fairly rewarded, leading to low job satisfaction and motivation. The lack of competitive wages and benefits made it difficult to attract and retain quality staff, further exacerbating the issues mentioned above. Overall, working at the Ramada Plaza Hotel on Old National Highway had its moments, but the numerous challenges made it a tough place to work. I had already told the manager I wouldn’t work overnight, but she still scheduled me for a couple of overnight shifts. I worked one because I needed the hours, but at 1 a.m., I received a death threat call. I immediately called her and the owner, but they dismissed it as a hoax. I didn’t see it that way. That night, I spent a good part of the night taking as many pictures of the property as well as the employee communication notebook pages and some of the illegal paperwork that we were given as terms of our employment which I still have saved to this day. The following night, I was scheduled at 11 p.m. I took my Ambien at 10:45 p.m., told Terry I wouldn’t be returning, and he agreed it was for the best. At 10:59 p.m., I left the work group chat and blocked the phone numbers for the owner, manager, and hotel, then went to bed.

What I find mindboggling is the number of horrible reviews on Google and other sites, including the booking sites, but yet people continue to book rooms there. The owner doesn't even bother to reply because, I mean what would be your reply knowing the truth is spoken? The ones that leave good reviews are either confused or consider anything not a cardboard box as a luxury. Not one of the employees understands how Wyndham would allow this or the hotels around it be allowed to operate under their brand names but I guess that's one of those things between corporate and the people paying for the name rights.

If you are ever driving through Atlanta and you see a hotel in disrepair, keep driving down the interstate until you get to a place that looks like the Bates Motel, you'll have a better experience.

Friday, October 11, 2024

Whataburger my favorite burger spot since as far as I can remember



Whataburger is a classic Texas staple that stretched into Louisiana, Mississippi, Alabama and northwest Florida and has never failed to hit the spot every single time I walked through their doors. Imagine cruising through the parking lot, greeted by the iconic orange and white logo, knowing you’re about to dig into something truly satisfying. What really sets Whataburger apart for me is the attention to detail with toppings and sauces. You don't get a pathetic handful of shredded or a lone leaf of lettuce, you get real chopped lettuce. There's no reconstituted or sliced onions like other burger places, they have real onions chopped in chunks, so you actually taste what you are eating. They don’t just give you a standard ketchup—they have Spicy Ketchup and Fancy Ketchup. The Spicy Ketchup has this kick that’s perfect for those who like a bit of heat, while the Fancy Ketchup is a bit sweeter and richer, making your fries taste even better.

Now, let's talk burgers. They live up to their name with juicy, generously-sized patties that you can customize with a range of toppings with an oversized 5 inch bun. Whether you're grabbing a classic Whataburger or branching out to a Monterey Melt or Honey BBQ Chicken Strip Sandwich, the flavors are consistently on point. They even offer an array of sides like onion rings, my personal favorite, and taquitos that keep things interesting. The overall vibe of Whataburger is this chill, laid-back place where you can get good food without any pretense, and that's a rare find these days.

Since I moved to Atlanta almost 30 years ago, there was never any burger places that actually hit the spot for me and I just settled for whatever though I do love me some McDonalds. During the occasional trip to visit my family, I would treat myself to a few Whataburgers but it didn't happen too often. For years, there was just one lonely location in south Georgia but the closest to Atlanta was about 120 miles to the west, until locations began to pop up around the suburbs of Atlanta. I watched the building and progress of the location in Fayetteville, Georgia, patiently waiting for it to open. I was there opening day and it was so very worth it and now that they deliver, I am in some serious trouble, especially being allergic to beef but still loving beef.


Though it's a burger place, one can't sleep on their breakfast menu, either. If you’re an early bird (or a late-night owl), they’ve got you covered with options like the Honey Butter Chicken Biscuit and their Breakfast on a Bun. The honey butter is just the right mix of sweet and savory, a little piece of breakfast heaven. And if you’re a fan of classic breakfast flavors, their taquitos with egg, cheese, and sausage wrapped in a warm tortilla are a solid choice. Whataburger doesn't just serve food; it serves up nostalgia, comfort, and a sense of home with every bite.

Thursday, October 10, 2024

Remembering Doo-Dads Snack Mix: A Nostalgic Treat with a Copycat Recipe

If you're a fan of classic snack mixes, you might remember Doo-Dads, a beloved treat from the 70s and 80s. This nostalgic snack, originally produced by Nabisco, was a delightful blend of crispy corn cereal, mini pretzels, mixed nuts, and cheese-flavored crackers, all coated in a savory mix of butter, Worcestershire sauce, and spices. Though it's no longer available on the market, its memory lives on in the hearts of snack enthusiasts who yearn for its unique flavor combination. I remember the first time I had doo-dads, I was visiting my Aunt Joan and she offered me some doo-dads in a Dixie Cup. I was obsessed with them. My mom bought them for years, until she switched to Chex-Mix, which were slightly similar but NOT at all the same thing.




For those who want to relive the magic of Doo-Dads, here's a copycat recipe that I found in a long out of print book at the library that captures the essence of this classic snack mix:

**Copycat Doo-Dads Recipe:**
- 2 cups crispy corn cereal
- 2 cups mini pretzels
- 1 cup mixed nuts
- 1 cup cheese-flavored crackers
- 1/2 cup melted butter
- 1 tablespoon Worcestershire sauce
- 1 teaspoon garlic powder
- 1 teaspoon onion powder
- 1 teaspoon seasoned salt

**Instructions:**
1. Preheat your oven to 250°F (120°C).
2. In a large bowl, combine the corn cereal, pretzels, nuts, and crackers.
3. In a small saucepan, melt the butter over low heat. Add the Worcestershire sauce, garlic powder, onion powder, and seasoned salt, stirring until well combined.
4. Pour the butter mixture over the snack mix, tossing to coat evenly
5. Spread the mixture on a baking sheet and bake for 30-40 minutes, stirring occasionally, until everything is evenly coated and crispy
6. Allow to cool completely before serving.

This homemade version of Doo-Dads is perfect for parties, movie nights, or just satisfying those snack cravings. Enjoy!

Wednesday, October 9, 2024

Revisiting 'Grey Gardens': Nostalgia, Eccentricity, and Unexpected Connections

Grey Gardens Criterion Collection DVD Cover

I love reflecting on elements of my past, and "Grey Gardens" holds a special place in my heart. I first saw the film with my middle and high school friend, Terry Kelly, later known as Lindon Hawk. Honestly, I didn’t pay much attention at the time because if you ever met Terry, you'd know his charisma and personality was a complete distraction. Many years later, I stumbled upon a VHS copy of the film and decided to rewatch it. Feeling nostalgic and curious about Terry's fascination with it, I was eager to relive the moments with him.

"Grey Gardens" is a documentary that's as much about the lives of its subjects as it is about the visual storytelling. Picture this: a crumbling East Hampton mansion, once a symbol of grandeur, now home to the enigmatic duo of "Big" Edith Beale and her daughter, Edith "Little Edie" Bouvier Beale. These two women, former socialites and relatives of Jacqueline Kennedy Onassis, live in a world of their own making, surrounded by cats, raccoons and memories of bygone days. The film, shot in 1975, offers a raw and unfiltered look at their eccentric existence, capturing the blend of humor, sadness and resilience that defines their lives.

"Grey Gardens" doesn't just tell a story; it invites us into the world of Big and Little Edie with an intimacy that's both fascinating and, at times, uncomfortable. The Beales' relationship is a compelling mix of dependency, love, and frustration, vividly painted through their candid conversations and the stark reality of their surroundings. Then there's Jerry Torre, the gardener-cum-handyman affectionately dubbed "The Marble Faun." His presence adds another layer of warmth and quirkiness to the already colorful tapestry of Grey Gardens. Jerry, with his youthful energy and genuine affection for the Beales, becomes an unlikely yet indispensable part of their lives. The moment I saw him on my little TV screen, the hair on the back of my neck stood up and I shouted, "I know him!!!" During my time in New York back in 1992, our paths crossed. As good as my memory is, I can’t remember where we met or who introduced us. I feel like my sorta-BF at the time, Erik Harden, may have been our mutual friend. Erik knew everyone and their dad, especially if there was something a little artsy or quirky about them. I met Tab Hunter, Lou Reed, and Quentin Crisp through him, so it wouldn’t surprise me that he and Jerry were acquaintances.

Edie and Mrs. Beale and the Marble Faun, Jerry

What makes "Grey Gardens" truly special is its authenticity. There are no scripts, no actors—just the Beales, Jerry, the filmmakers and a few others being themselves. This unscripted nature allows the documentary to resonate on a deeper level, reminding us of the strength of the human spirit in the face of adversity. It’s a film that captures the essence of its subjects, preserving their story in a way that’s both touching and thought-provoking.

Whether you’re a fan of documentaries or simply looking for a unique viewing experience, "Grey Gardens" offers a glimpse into a world that’s both alien and familiar. It’s a testament to the power of storytelling and the enduring appeal of real-life characters who, in their own way, leave an indelible mark on the fabric of history. So, grab some popcorn, settle in, and let the Beales take you on a journey you won’t soon forget.

Edie and Mrs. Edith Beale, the stars of Grey Gardens

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Tuesday, October 8, 2024

On Their Own! The Tour Band Behind KISS Legends Gene Simmons and Ace Frehley, Rock City Machine Co Album Review

RCMC Rock City Machine Co Front Cover

Released 2023 on the Lindsley Records Label

Rock City Machine Company's self-titled debut album is a pure rock and roll blast from start to finish. The band, featuring Ryan Spencer Cook on lead vocals and guitar, Jeremy Asbrock on guitar, and Philip Shouse on bass, brings a fresh yet familiar sound with modern elements to the rock scene. These guys are no strangers to rock royalty—they've toured with both Gene Simmons and Ace Frehley from KISS, which definitely shows in their tight musicianship and stage presence. The album kicks off with the high-energy track "Can't Stop the Train," which sets the tone for the rest of the record with its driving beat and catchy hooks. Each song delivers that classic rock vibe, with powerful riffs and infectious melodies that will have you rocking out in no time.


The standout tracks include "Ramblin' Gamblin' Man" and "All Aboard the Rock Train," which showcases the band's impressive chops and Cook's dynamic vocal range. The songs are packed with gritty guitar solos, pounding drums, and anthemic choruses that are sure to get stuck in your head. The production, handled by Marti Frederiksen, adds a polished yet raw edge to the music, making it sound both modern and timeless.


These guys know how to put on a show, thanks to their experience with rock legends. Whether you're a long-time rock fan or just getting into the genre, this album is worth checking out for its pure, unadulterated rock and roll energy.


Rock City Machine Co Back Cover

Monday, October 7, 2024

Review of the Jesus Christ Superstar 20th Anniversary London Cast Recording 1992

Jesus Christ Superstar 20th Anniversary London Cast Recording

The 20th Anniversary London Cast Recording of Jesus Christ Superstar is a testament to the enduring power of Andrew Lloyd Webber and Tim Rice's masterpiece. With Paul Nicholas reprising his role as Jesus, his performance is nothing short of mesmerizing. Nicholas brings an air of vulnerability and strength to the character, navigating the complex emotions of the Messiah with deft precision. His rendition of "Gethsemane" is heart-wrenching, capturing the agony and doubt that define this pivotal moment in his narrative.

The late Keith Burns, as Judas, delivers a standout performance that is both chilling and deeply sympathetic. His portrayal is nuanced, showcasing the internal conflict and desperation that drive Judas to betrayal. Burns' vocal prowess shines in "Heaven on Their Minds," where he conveys a sense of urgency and forewarning that sets the tone for the tragic arc of his character.

Claire Moore, most famously known for her portrayal of Christine in The Phantom of the Opera, as Mary Magdalene is a revelation, bringing warmth and emotional depth to her role. Her voice is both tender and powerful, particularly in "I Don't Know How to Love Him," where she captures the confusion and intensity of her feelings for Jesus. Moore's performance provides a beautiful counterbalance to the turmoil of the central male characters, grounding the production in human vulnerability and compassion.

Jeff Shankley, playing Pontius Pilate, imbues the character with a haunting ambiguity. His portrayal is both authoritative and conflicted, reflecting Pilate's struggle with the weight of his decisions. The re-written version of "Could We Start Again Please" is a poignant addition, sang between Mary and Jesus. This version brings new emotional depth, highlighting the characters' yearning for redemption and a second chance. The only negative aspect of this song is the fact that it was tacked onto the end of the recording as a bonus track.

This recording is a must-have for any musical theatre aficionado, offering fresh interpretations while honoring the original's legacy.

Sunday, October 6, 2024

Nat Sherman Fantasia: A Taste of Luxury


Unofficially I am not a smoker. I do love me some sissy cigs though, Misty, Capri and Virginia Slims. I quit years ago but there was a brand that I always loved and unfortunately they seemed to have been discontinued. If you're looking for a premium smoking experience, Nat Sherman Fantasia cigarettes are a thing of the past. These luxury cigarettes, known for their high-quality tobacco and colorful packaging, offered a unique twist on the traditional smoking experience.

Produced in the USA, Nat Sherman Fantasia cigarettes came in various flavors and strengths, including Naturals Blue, Naturals Menthol, and the classic Original. Each pack features vibrant, colored paper that adds a touch of glamour to your smoke break.

When it came to price, Nat Sherman Fantasia cigarettes were on the higher end of the spectrum. A carton of 10 packs (200 cigarettes) typically costs around $60 to $70, depending on where you bought them. While they might be a bit pricier than your average brand, the quality and taste made them a worthwhile splurge for those who appreciate a bit of luxury in their daily routine.

Overall, Nat Sherman Fantasia cigarettes delivered a satisfying smoking experience with their rich flavor and elegant presentation. Whether you're a long-time smoker or just looking to treat yourself, these cigarettes offer a taste of the finer things in life. And with many products I fall in love with they were unexpectedly discontinued,

If you've ever had them, what was your replacement? Or was nothing created to compare to the fun colored paper and smooth taste?

Saturday, October 5, 2024

My Journey to Getting a GED at almost 50


Life has a funny way of throwing curveballs. I’m not shy about talking about my time leaving home and supporting myself as a street hustler, doing things a 16-year-old had no business doing. My real struggle came in high school. I never got to finish because of the homophobia I faced from my principal and guidance counselors. Their prejudice made an already tough time even harder. When I returned home after my journey and tried to resume my public education, I would have only been a year behind. But the principal, Frank Lay, told me I couldn’t come back because my ideas and the way I am would be like an infection within the student body. My dad sided with Frank Lay, not knowing the actual words spoken to me. When I told my dad that Frank Lay said I could not return to school and that I wanted to take it up with the school system, my dad’s reply was to leave it alone. He said they did well by my sister and it might be for the best that I don’t go back anyway. I was basically forced to leave school and give up my right to public education without a diploma. Years later, Frank Lay was the subject of not one but two lawsuits brought by the American Civil Liberties Union aka the ACLU. During my freshman and sophomore years, I had numerous run ins with Lay and the rest of the school staff. One day I will share a full account of my high school experience as well as stories regarding some things going on at school, no holds barred. The only person in the office who treated me fairly was a sweet secretary named Nita Reed, who also at times worked in the library. Fast forward to today, and here I am at 48, finally taking steps to get my GED.

One of the biggest blessings in this journey has been the company I currently work for. They’ve been incredibly supportive, not just emotionally but financially too. They’re covering the costs of my lessons and the tests, which has taken a huge weight off my shoulders and inspired me to finish high school, even though I’ve done well without a diploma. It’s amazing to work for a company that genuinely cares about personal growth and success.

So far, I’ve managed to pass the science, language arts, and social studies tests. Each one was a hurdle, but I got through them with a lot of hard work and a bit of luck. The feeling of passing those tests was incredible, like reclaiming a part of my life that I thought was lost forever. It’s been a mix of relief and pride, knowing that I’m capable of achieving this. For so many years, I felt like I shouldn’t bother investing the time, energy, and money.

Now, I’m staring down the final test: math. Math has always been my Achilles’ heel, and it’s even more daunting now because the curriculum has changed so much since I was in school. The thought of tackling it is terrifying, but I’m determined to push through. I’ve been putting in extra hours of study, and I’m hopeful that with enough preparation, I’ll be able to conquer this last challenge.

This journey has been a rollercoaster of emotions, but it’s also been incredibly rewarding. I’m grateful for the support I’ve received and proud of the progress I’ve made. If there’s one thing I’ve learned, it’s that it’s never too late to chase your dreams and make them a reality. Here’s to passing that math test and finally getting my GED!

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