Remembering TG&Y: The Store That Had It All

TG&Y Store Fronts

Growing up in the 70s and 80s, some of my best memories were from when my mom or dad would take my sister and me shopping. One of our favorite places was TG&Y, a beloved variety store. This "five and dime" was a staple in many communities across the United States, catering to people who weren't exactly well-off or just enjoyed an all-in-one shop. It predated the expansion of Wal-Mart and it's only rival at the time seemed to be K-Mart. I've heard it called Toys, Games & Yarn, Turtles, Girdles & Yo-Yos, and other variations because of its diverse departments.

TG&Y was founded in 1935 by Rawdon E. Tomlinson, Enoch L. “Les” Gosselin, and Raymond A. Young, whose initials formed the store’s name. The chain quickly grew, reaching its peak in the 1970s and 1980s with nearly 1,000 stores in 29 states. Known for its slogan, “Your best buy is at TG&Y,” the store aimed to provide a wide range of products at affordable prices. Walking into a TG&Y store was like stepping into a treasure trove of goods. The store was divided into several departments, each offering a unique shopping experience:

Toys: The toy section was a paradise for kids and for kids like me who weren't really taken to toy stores, it was THE toy store. From classic board games to the latest action figures (hello Masters of the Universe), TG&Y had it all. Popular items included yo-yos, dolls, and model kits. My sister spent hours in her preteen years gluing together and painting model cars with Testors glue and paint from TG&Y. Prices were incredibly reasonable, with many toys costing less than a dollar. Towards the end, I racked up on Masters of the Universe action figures because clearance prices were around a dollar.

Yarn and Crafts: For the crafty shopper like my mom, TG&Y’s yarn and crafts department was heaven. You could find a wide variety of yarns in different colors and textures, perfect for knitting and crocheting projects. A skein of yarn typically cost around 50 cents to a dollar. Unfortunately, my mom gravitated to budget-friendly acrylic yarns in orange, brown, mustard, white, and dusty rose that usually felt a little itchy. She enjoyed crocheting, and the prices were right for her, so that's what mattered.

Pets: TG&Y had a pet section where you could buy small pets like goldfish, hamsters, and parakeets. Pet supplies, including food and cages, were also available at budget-friendly prices. I always wanted a hamster, but my cousin Lynda put a nail in the coffin when it came to my mom deciding to get one for me after hers escaped several times. I honestly don't think my mom would have bought one anyway; she wasn't much of an animal person and was good at using other people's examples, no matter if the story happened or not.

Household Goods: From kitchenware to cleaning supplies, TG&Y offered a range of household items. You could find everything from pots and pans to brooms and mops, all at prices that wouldn’t break the bank. My mom's cleaning supply list was definitely fulfilled by TG&Y: Dutch Cleanser, 409, Lemon Joy, and Windex were her go-to products.

Clothing: The clothing department featured affordable fashion for the whole family. Whether you needed a new pair of jeans or a cozy sweater, TG&Y had you covered whether you wanted them or not. What you wore wasn't a big deal during elementary school unless it was dirty or stinky, and by the time I was in middle school, when kids began to worry about impressing others and not wanting to wear cheap clothes, TG&Y was already on the way out and not offering up-to-date clothing.

Hardware: They sold motor oil, tools, pesticides, bug killers, garden implements, and lawnmowers. My dad bought a riding lawnmower from TG&Y, and it worked for years.

Electronics & Records: The electronics section featured various brands and sizes of TVs, as well as different brands of stereos and record players. I don't remember if they carried high-end stuff, but I know they carried lower-priced brands like Soundesign, Emerson, and their own store-branded transistor radios. The record section covered top 40 pop, rock, country, soundtracks, and compilations. They carried records, tapes, and up until the early 80s, 8-tracks. TG&Y also carried 45 records but always seemed to be a week or two behind the new release selection at K-Mart, although they were a dime or so cheaper. I remember when my dad bought me Van Halen's Jump, my first "grown up" 45 at the TG&Y in Schillinger Road in Mobile, Alabama. I played it on my hand me down Emerson Disco 80 record player until the grooves were worn to the point where it sounded like it was being played on a radio station that wasn't quite getting full reception. I was so proud of it and I always looked forward to looking at the records in TG&Y. 

One of the most memorable aspects of TG&Y was its affordability. The store’s philosophy was to "have what people want at a price they can afford to pay," meaning shoppers could find great deals on a wide range of products. For example, a toy might cost 25 cents, a skein of yarn 50 cents, and a goldfish just a few dimes. This made TG&Y a popular destination for families looking to stretch their dollars.

Shopping at TG&Y was more than just a trip to the store; it was an experience. Entering TG&Y involved passing by a kid's merry-go-round and a car ride that took a quarter per ride, a few gumball and candy machines, and a couple of arcade games like Pac-Man and Galaga. The friendly staff, wide variety of products, and unbeatable prices created a welcoming atmosphere that kept customers coming back. Whether you were a child eagerly picking out a new toy or an adult stocking up on household essentials, TG&Y had something for everyone. Some stores had their own lunch counters. One in Mobile, Alabama, had one, and I obsessed over the fruit punch in the JetSpray Beverage Dispenser because something about it looked refreshing. Can't remember what the food was like, but I feel it might have been similar to the K-Mart restaurant or Woolworth lunch counter. The checkout experience was just like all the other stores at the time, with simple cash registers, credit card imprinters with slips, and flat paper bags that sounded super crinkly, which would get folded closed and the receipt stapled to by the cashier.

My last memory of an actual TG&Y, before McCrory's converted them to the short lived concepts of even cheaper dollar store concepts like Dollar Zone, was the Gulf Breeze, Florida location which always had pool and water floats fully inflated and stored just outside the front doors. I always wanted my parents to stop there to buy a float on the way to Pensacola Beach.

Though TG&Y stores have long since closed their doors, the memories of shopping there remain vivid for me. It was a place where my parents could find just about anything they needed while entertaining their kids, all at prices that made you smile. TG&Y may be gone, but its legacy as a beloved variety store lives on in the hearts of those who shopped there. For anyone looking for a similar shopping experience, minus the pets, records, lawnmowers, and crafting sections, the closest thing in modern times would be stores like Roses or perhaps a Walmart that hasn’t been converted to a Supercenter.

Surviving the Chaos: My Experience at the Old National (Nasty) Ramada Plaza Trap House Hotel

Working at the Ramada Plaza Hotel on Old National Highway in College Park, Georgia, was probably the most challenging experience of my life. To call this hotel rundown is an understatement. The owner, an Indian man named Arman, whose business, Blue Lagoon, also owns a few franchised Popeyes chicken locations. Arman was a master at playing games with the employees, treating us more like servants. As a front desk agent, most of us made $12 an hour with absolutely NO benefits other than deep discounts at Wyndham hotels, which none of the employees could take advantage of due to our low pay. One significant issue was the high turnover rate among staff, not just because of low pay. This constant change led to a lack of cohesion and teamwork, making it difficult to maintain consistent standards. New employees often found themselves overwhelmed due to being undertrained, which contributed to a stressful work environment. Training was confusing, and management relied on a couple of employees who thought they were being replaced to train new hires, leading to incorrect training. Arman had a rule where our checks would be docked for any cash mistakes. During my tenure, some employees had their paychecks docked for incorrectly checking in guests or not checking rooms for damage or smoking before returning the $150 security deposit.

The Entrance to the Hotel

Another major downside was the hotel’s location. While being close to the airport might seem convenient, it also meant dealing with a high volume of transient guests. I'm not talking about the standard homeless person; I’m talking about drug addicts, pimps, hookers, and even drag queen hookers who wouldn’t tell their clients they were actually men. Many times, I would watch the security cameras and see someone running down the hall, chased by a naked man. Usually, the hooker would run out the door with the man's clothes and wallet, escaping onto Old National. This less-than-savory clientele led to various issues, from noise complaints to security concerns. The area around the hotel wasn’t the safest, and employees often felt uneasy, especially during late-night shifts. When they Super-8 Hotel was shut down for violations including running without a business license, the number of really horrible guests ramped up.

I was the only white person working there at the time and received threats during all my shifts just for following job guidelines. Aside from housekeeping, who worked from 8 a.m. to 5 p.m., the only employee on the premises was the front desk agent. Many of my shifts were as night audit, from 10 p.m. to 7 a.m., by myself. We did have a security officer who came in at midnight and left by 6 a.m., leaving me alone to protect myself. A few months in, I started bringing a retractable baton, then a taser, and eventually my Ruger LCP-Max holstered to my hip so problematic guests could see I could defend myself. This sense of insecurity was just a fraction of the drawbacks of working at the hotel. I saved video footage of guests abusing employees, and although we were told to ignore it, we fought back because otherwise management would dismiss it as typical for the neighborhood.

Things guests do in the rooms

The working conditions at the Ramada Plaza Hotel left much to be desired. The facilities were outdated and in need of repair, making daily tasks difficult and frustrating. For the first two months of working there, we had no hot water. Imagine housekeeping cleaning and washing bedding with no hot water, or trying to shower in cold water during November and December. Shockingly, many guests were okay with it when told there was no hot water. The housekeeping department was problematic, sometimes just straightening things up and remaking beds upon guest checkout rather than properly cleaning the room and changing the sheets and pillowcases. It was not uncommon for guests to find socks, hats, and dirty underwear in the bed after turning down the sheets. Each housekeeper was required to clean at least 16 rooms during their shift, leading to cut corners and dissatisfied guests. I encountered many bizarre situations, like a guest calling to inform me there was poop under her bed. She was okay with it but wanted to let someone know so she wouldn’t be blamed. Housekeeping didn’t use bleach to clean surfaces, sinks, or toilets; instead, they used Fabuloso.

The lack of proper maintenance contributed to the unpleasant working environment. The maintenance man, Arman's brother-in-law Nick, was not up to code or sanitary standards. He also co-managed housekeeping, limiting their Fabuloso use to a gallon a week for a 271-room hotel. Mold was an issue, and instead of proper remediation, Nick would spray bleach cleaner, often leaving bleach stains on the red dirty carpet. Some ceiling tiles were wet and covered in black mold, dripping on me at times. When guests complained about bed bugs, we inspected the rooms ourselves, put them out of service, and moved the guests. Oddly, when pest control was called, the woman spent no more than five minutes, collected her cash envelope, signed a book, and declared no bed bugs. During ice storms, the owner told us we could stay in a room rather than go out in the weather, but there was NO chance I was staying in one of those rooms.

The ceiling tile that dripped on me

Amenities listed on booking sites were unavailable. Arman forced us to lie, telling guests the hotel was under renovation, which it was not. The pool was cleaned only when a production company rented the hotel to film scenes for the miniseries "Candy" starring Jessica Biel. After filming, the pool was never available, and within a week, it was green again with a diaper swirling around the middle. There was no breakfast, in spite of the websites touting free breakfast, not that normal people would want to consume food inside the building.

Doesn't that look refreshing?

There was also another point of their business, airport parking. They mostly did it through a website called Way but when Way was slow to send the check to the owner, he would cut off the Way customers and they would take out their frustration on us. The owner would instruct us to tell them they can stay in our lot for $10 a day if they chose but it had to be paid up front directly to us. Several times, Collage Park Police would come in issuing fines for illegally running an airport park and ride. Whoever was there at the time would be issued the ticket and would be required to show up at court and the owner felt this was OK. I refused to partake in this practice. It's a parking lot that I would never use for my own vehicle due to the fact that the lot was not monitored or patrols during the day or most of the night. I had many upset park and ride people come in shoving their phones in my face with photos of their broken windows and car damage and the only thing I could point out to them was the "Not responsible for damage" signs. Airport parking was a pain, not only because of all that but also the fact that they offered shuttle service between the hotel and airport from 6am till 11pm, supposed to be every half hour but many times the shuttle drivers would do things on their own schedule, leaving us to receive phone calls from upset people cussing us out. The daytime and afternoon employees told me the best thing to do was not answer the phone. What really sucked about the shuttle were the people who didn't realize there was no service between 11pm and 6am, leaving them to their own devices. I can't count how many times I was threatened over the shuttle service and expected to reimburse the person for their transportation cost, which NEVER happened. After a while, I adopted a fake name as the rest of the staff did for complaint purposes. There's a parking lady that is still threatening to sue the hotel and "Tito" to this very day because her car was towed for non-payment of her extended parking fees. The parking situation was really horrible because they would let it get overbooked to the point where the guests of the hotel would have no parking or we were having to turn away people who prepaid. If they ran over and wanted to extend, they had to do it through us on the phone or they would be towed within hours of the clock striking midnight. Even if the person tried to extend through the Way app, they would still get towed. Nice way to do business huh?

Housekeeping considers this "CLEAN"

Management practices were another point of contention. Many employees felt their concerns and suggestions weren’t taken seriously, leading to frustration and disengagement. Clear communication from management was often lacking, resulting in misunderstandings and mistakes. This disconnect made it challenging to foster a positive and productive work atmosphere.

At Thanksgiving, the owner catered a dinner for the employees, acting as if it was good compensation for what we dealt with throughout the year. Our Christmas bonus was a $20 gift card from Wal-Mart, proving the owner didn’t care about the employees. If he treated us this way, I can't imagine how he treated his employees at the Popeyes Chicken locations he owned.

Lastly, the compensation and benefits at the Ramada Plaza Hotel were inadequate. Many employees felt their hard work wasn’t fairly rewarded, leading to low job satisfaction and motivation. The lack of competitive wages and benefits made it difficult to attract and retain quality staff, further exacerbating the issues mentioned above. Overall, working at the Ramada Plaza Hotel on Old National Highway had its moments, but the numerous challenges made it a tough place to work. I had already told the manager I wouldn’t work overnight, but she still scheduled me for a couple of overnight shifts. I worked one because I needed the hours, but at 1 a.m., I received a death threat call. I immediately called her and the owner, but they dismissed it as a hoax. I didn’t see it that way. That night, I spent a good part of the night taking as many pictures of the property as well as the employee communication notebook pages and some of the illegal paperwork that we were given as terms of our employment which I still have saved to this day. The following night, I was scheduled at 11 p.m. I took my Ambien at 10:45 p.m., told Terry I wouldn’t be returning, and he agreed it was for the best. At 10:59 p.m., I left the work group chat and blocked the phone numbers for the owner, manager, and hotel, then went to bed.

What I find mindboggling is the number of horrible reviews on Google and other sites, including the booking sites, but yet people continue to book rooms there. The owner doesn't even bother to reply because, I mean what would be your reply knowing the truth is spoken? The ones that leave good reviews are either confused or consider anything not a cardboard box as a luxury. Not one of the employees understands how Wyndham would allow this or the hotels around it be allowed to operate under their brand names but I guess that's one of those things between corporate and the people paying for the name rights.

If you are ever driving through Atlanta and you see a hotel in disrepair, keep driving down the interstate until you get to a place that looks like the Bates Motel, you'll have a better experience.

Whataburger my favorite burger spot since as far as I can remember

Whataburger is a classic Texas staple that stretched into Louisiana, Mississippi, Alabama and northwest Florida and has never failed to hit the spot every single time I walked through their doors. Imagine cruising through the parking lot, greeted by the iconic orange and white logo, knowing you’re about to dig into something truly satisfying. What really sets Whataburger apart for me is the attention to detail with toppings and sauces. You don't get a pathetic handful of shredded or a lone leaf of lettuce, you get real chopped lettuce. There's no reconstituted or sliced onions like other burger places, they have real onions chopped in chunks, so you actually taste what you are eating. They don’t just give you a standard ketchup—they have Spicy Ketchup and Fancy Ketchup. The Spicy Ketchup has this kick that’s perfect for those who like a bit of heat, while the Fancy Ketchup is a bit sweeter and richer, making your fries taste even better.

Now, let's talk burgers. They live up to their name with juicy, generously-sized patties that you can customize with a range of toppings with an oversized 5 inch bun. Whether you're grabbing a classic Whataburger or branching out to a Monterey Melt or Honey BBQ Chicken Strip Sandwich, the flavors are consistently on point. They even offer an array of sides like onion rings, my personal favorite, and taquitos that keep things interesting. The overall vibe of Whataburger is this chill, laid-back place where you can get good food without any pretense, and that's a rare find these days.

Since I moved to Atlanta almost 30 years ago, there was never any burger places that actually hit the spot for me and I just settled for whatever though I do love me some McDonalds. During the occasional trip to visit my family, I would treat myself to a few Whataburgers but it didn't happen too often. For years, there was just one lonely location in south Georgia but the closest to Atlanta was about 120 miles to the west, until locations began to pop up around the suburbs of Atlanta. I watched the building and progress of the location in Fayetteville, Georgia, patiently waiting for it to open. I was there opening day and it was so very worth it and now that they deliver, I am in some serious trouble, especially being allergic to beef but still loving beef.

Though it's a burger place, one can't sleep on their breakfast menu, either. If you’re an early bird (or a late-night owl), they’ve got you covered with options like the Honey Butter Chicken Biscuit and their Breakfast on a Bun. The honey butter is just the right mix of sweet and savory, a little piece of breakfast heaven. And if you’re a fan of classic breakfast flavors, their taquitos with egg, cheese, and sausage wrapped in a warm tortilla are a solid choice. Whataburger doesn't just serve food; it serves up nostalgia, comfort, and a sense of home with every bite.

Remembering Doo-Dads Snack Mix: A Nostalgic Treat with a Copycat Recipe

If you're a fan of classic snack mixes, you might remember Doo-Dads, a beloved treat from the 70s and 80s. This nostalgic snack, originally produced by Nabisco, was a delightful blend of crispy corn cereal, mini pretzels, mixed nuts, and cheese-flavored crackers, all coated in a savory mix of butter, Worcestershire sauce, and spices. Though it's no longer available on the market, its memory lives on in the hearts of snack enthusiasts who yearn for its unique flavor combination. I remember the first time I had doo-dads, I was visiting my Aunt Joan and she offered me some doo-dads in a Dixie Cup. I was obsessed with them. My mom bought them for years, until she switched to Chex-Mix, which were slightly similar but NOT at all the same thing.

For those who want to relive the magic of Doo-Dads, here's a copycat recipe that I found in a long out of print book at the library that captures the essence of this classic snack mix:

**Copycat Doo-Dads Recipe:**

- 2 cups crispy corn cereal

- 2 cups mini pretzels

- 1 cup mixed nuts

- 1 cup cheese-flavored crackers

- 1/2 cup melted butter

- 1 tablespoon Worcestershire sauce

- 1 teaspoon garlic powder

- 1 teaspoon onion powder

- 1 teaspoon seasoned salt

**Instructions:**

1. Preheat your oven to 250°F (120°C).

2. In a large bowl, combine the corn cereal, pretzels, nuts, and crackers.

3. In a small saucepan, melt the butter over low heat. Add the Worcestershire sauce, garlic powder, onion powder, and seasoned salt, stirring until well combined.

4. Pour the butter mixture over the snack mix, tossing to coat evenly

5. Spread the mixture on a baking sheet and bake for 30-40 minutes, stirring occasionally, until everything is evenly coated and crispy

6. Allow to cool completely before serving.

This homemade version of Doo-Dads is perfect for parties, movie nights, or just satisfying those snack cravings. Enjoy!

Revisiting 'Grey Gardens': Nostalgia, Eccentricity, and Unexpected Connections

Grey Gardens Criterion Collection DVD Cover

I love reflecting on elements of my past, and "Grey Gardens" holds a special place in my heart. I first saw the film with my middle and high school friend, Terry Kelly, later known as Lindon Hawk. Honestly, I didn’t pay much attention at the time because if you ever met Terry, you'd know his charisma and personality was a complete distraction. Many years later, I stumbled upon a VHS copy of the film and decided to rewatch it. Feeling nostalgic and curious about Terry's fascination with it, I was eager to relive the moments with him.

"Grey Gardens" is a documentary that's as much about the lives of its subjects as it is about the visual storytelling. Picture this: a crumbling East Hampton mansion, once a symbol of grandeur, now home to the enigmatic duo of "Big" Edith Beale and her daughter, Edith "Little Edie" Bouvier Beale. These two women, former socialites and relatives of Jacqueline Kennedy Onassis, live in a world of their own making, surrounded by cats, raccoons and memories of bygone days. The film, shot in 1975, offers a raw and unfiltered look at their eccentric existence, capturing the blend of humor, sadness and resilience that defines their lives.

"Grey Gardens" doesn't just tell a story; it invites us into the world of Big and Little Edie with an intimacy that's both fascinating and, at times, uncomfortable. The Beales' relationship is a compelling mix of dependency, love, and frustration, vividly painted through their candid conversations and the stark reality of their surroundings. Then there's Jerry Torre, the gardener-cum-handyman affectionately dubbed "The Marble Faun." His presence adds another layer of warmth and quirkiness to the already colorful tapestry of Grey Gardens. Jerry, with his youthful energy and genuine affection for the Beales, becomes an unlikely yet indispensable part of their lives. The moment I saw him on my little TV screen, the hair on the back of my neck stood up and I shouted, "I know him!!!" During my time in New York back in 1992, our paths crossed. As good as my memory is, I can’t remember where we met or who introduced us. I feel like my sorta-BF at the time, Erik Harden, may have been our mutual friend. Erik knew everyone and their dad, especially if there was something a little artsy or quirky about them. I met Tab Hunter, Lou Reed, and Quentin Crisp through him, so it wouldn’t surprise me that he and Jerry were acquaintances.

Edie and Mrs. Beale and the Marble Faun, Jerry

What makes "Grey Gardens" truly special is its authenticity. There are no scripts, no actors—just the Beales, Jerry, the filmmakers and a few others being themselves. This unscripted nature allows the documentary to resonate on a deeper level, reminding us of the strength of the human spirit in the face of adversity. It’s a film that captures the essence of its subjects, preserving their story in a way that’s both touching and thought-provoking.

Whether you’re a fan of documentaries or simply looking for a unique viewing experience, "Grey Gardens" offers a glimpse into a world that’s both alien and familiar. It’s a testament to the power of storytelling and the enduring appeal of real-life characters who, in their own way, leave an indelible mark on the fabric of history. So, grab some popcorn, settle in, and let the Beales take you on a journey you won’t soon forget.

Edie and Mrs. Edith Beale, the stars of Grey Gardens

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On Their Own! The Tour Band Behind KISS Legends Gene Simmons and Ace Frehley, Rock City Machine Co Album Review

RCMC Rock City Machine Co Front Cover

Released 2023 on the Lindsley Records Label

Rock City Machine Company's self-titled debut album is a pure rock and roll blast from start to finish. The band, featuring Ryan Spencer Cook on lead vocals and guitar, Jeremy Asbrock on guitar, and Philip Shouse on bass, brings a fresh yet familiar sound with modern elements to the rock scene. These guys are no strangers to rock royalty—they've toured with both Gene Simmons and Ace Frehley from KISS, which definitely shows in their tight musicianship and stage presence. The album kicks off with the high-energy track "Can't Stop the Train," which sets the tone for the rest of the record with its driving beat and catchy hooks. Each song delivers that classic rock vibe, with powerful riffs and infectious melodies that will have you rocking out in no time.

The standout tracks include "Ramblin' Gamblin' Man" and "All Aboard the Rock Train," which showcases the band's impressive chops and Cook's dynamic vocal range. The songs are packed with gritty guitar solos, pounding drums, and anthemic choruses that are sure to get stuck in your head. The production, handled by Marti Frederiksen, adds a polished yet raw edge to the music, making it sound both modern and timeless.

These guys know how to put on a show, thanks to their experience with rock legends. Whether you're a long-time rock fan or just getting into the genre, this album is worth checking out for its pure, unadulterated rock and roll energy.

Rock City Machine Co Back Cover

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Review of the Jesus Christ Superstar 20th Anniversary London Cast Recording 1992

Jesus Christ Superstar 20th Anniversary London Cast Recording

The 20th Anniversary London Cast Recording of Jesus Christ Superstar is a testament to the enduring power of Andrew Lloyd Webber and Tim Rice's masterpiece. With Paul Nicholas reprising his role as Jesus, his performance is nothing short of mesmerizing. Nicholas brings an air of vulnerability and strength to the character, navigating the complex emotions of the Messiah with deft precision. His rendition of "Gethsemane" is heart-wrenching, capturing the agony and doubt that define this pivotal moment in his narrative.

The late Keith Burns, as Judas, delivers a standout performance that is both chilling and deeply sympathetic. His portrayal is nuanced, showcasing the internal conflict and desperation that drive Judas to betrayal. Burns' vocal prowess shines in "Heaven on Their Minds," where he conveys a sense of urgency and forewarning that sets the tone for the tragic arc of his character.

Claire Moore, most famously known for her portrayal of Christine in The Phantom of the Opera, as Mary Magdalene is a revelation, bringing warmth and emotional depth to her role. Her voice is both tender and powerful, particularly in "I Don't Know How to Love Him," where she captures the confusion and intensity of her feelings for Jesus. Moore's performance provides a beautiful counterbalance to the turmoil of the central male characters, grounding the production in human vulnerability and compassion.

Jeff Shankley, playing Pontius Pilate, imbues the character with a haunting ambiguity. His portrayal is both authoritative and conflicted, reflecting Pilate's struggle with the weight of his decisions. The re-written version of "Could We Start Again Please" is a poignant addition, sang between Mary and Jesus. This version brings new emotional depth, highlighting the characters' yearning for redemption and a second chance. The only negative aspect of this song is the fact that it was tacked onto the end of the recording as a bonus track.

This recording is a must-have for any musical theatre aficionado, offering fresh interpretations while honoring the original's legacy.

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Nat Sherman Fantasia: A Taste of Luxury

Unofficially I am not a smoker. I do love me some sissy cigs though, Misty, Capri and Virginia Slims. I quit years ago but there was a brand that I always loved and unfortunately they seemed to have been discontinued. If you're looking for a premium smoking experience, Nat Sherman Fantasia cigarettes are a thing of the past. These luxury cigarettes, known for their high-quality tobacco and colorful packaging, offered a unique twist on the traditional smoking experience.

Produced in the USA, Nat Sherman Fantasia cigarettes came in various flavors and strengths, including Naturals Blue, Naturals Menthol, and the classic Original. Each pack features vibrant, colored paper that adds a touch of glamour to your smoke break.

When it came to price, Nat Sherman Fantasia cigarettes were on the higher end of the spectrum. A carton of 10 packs (200 cigarettes) typically costs around $60 to $70, depending on where you bought them. While they might be a bit pricier than your average brand, the quality and taste made them a worthwhile splurge for those who appreciate a bit of luxury in their daily routine.

Overall, Nat Sherman Fantasia cigarettes delivered a satisfying smoking experience with their rich flavor and elegant presentation. Whether you're a long-time smoker or just looking to treat yourself, these cigarettes offer a taste of the finer things in life. And with many products I fall in love with they were unexpectedly discontinued,

If you've ever had them, what was your replacement? Or was nothing created to compare to the fun colored paper and smooth taste?

My Journey to Getting a GED at almost 50

Life has a funny way of throwing curveballs. I’m not shy about talking about my time leaving home and supporting myself as a street hustler, doing things a 16-year-old had no business doing. My real struggle came in high school. I never got to finish because of the homophobia I faced from my principal and guidance counselors. Their prejudice made an already tough time even harder. When I returned home after my journey and tried to resume my public education, I would have only been a year behind. But the principal, Frank Lay, told me I couldn’t come back because my ideas and the way I am would be like an infection within the student body. My dad sided with Frank Lay, not knowing the actual words spoken to me. When I told my dad that Frank Lay said I could not return to school and that I wanted to take it up with the school system, my dad’s reply was to leave it alone. He said they did well by my sister and it might be for the best that I don’t go back anyway. I was basically forced to leave school and give up my right to public education without a diploma. Years later, Frank Lay was the subject of not one but two lawsuits brought by the American Civil Liberties Union aka the ACLU. During my freshman and sophomore years, I had numerous run ins with Lay and the rest of the school staff. One day I will share a full account of my high school experience as well as stories regarding some things going on at school, no holds barred. The only person in the office who treated me fairly was a sweet secretary named Nita Reed, who also at times worked in the library. Fast forward to today, and here I am at 48, finally taking steps to get my GED.

One of the biggest blessings in this journey has been the company I currently work for. They’ve been incredibly supportive, not just emotionally but financially too. They’re covering the costs of my lessons and the tests, which has taken a huge weight off my shoulders and inspired me to finish high school, even though I’ve done well without a diploma. It’s amazing to work for a company that genuinely cares about personal growth and success.

So far, I’ve managed to pass the science, language arts, and social studies tests. Each one was a hurdle, but I got through them with a lot of hard work and a bit of luck. The feeling of passing those tests was incredible, like reclaiming a part of my life that I thought was lost forever. It’s been a mix of relief and pride, knowing that I’m capable of achieving this. For so many years, I felt like I shouldn’t bother investing the time, energy, and money.

Now, I’m staring down the final test: math. Math has always been my Achilles’ heel, and it’s even more daunting now because the curriculum has changed so much since I was in school. The thought of tackling it is terrifying, but I’m determined to push through. I’ve been putting in extra hours of study, and I’m hopeful that with enough preparation, I’ll be able to conquer this last challenge.

This journey has been a rollercoaster of emotions, but it’s also been incredibly rewarding. I’m grateful for the support I’ve received and proud of the progress I’ve made. If there’s one thing I’ve learned, it’s that it’s never too late to chase your dreams and make them a reality. Here’s to passing that math test and finally getting my GED!

My Book Review of Nightmare Before Kissmas by Sara Raasch

The Nightmare Before Kissmas American Cover

I finished this book last night and have been so excited to write this review since chapter three. It will be released October 8, 2024...just 5 days away from the time I post this. I honestly had a hard time putting it down. If you’re looking for a holiday read that perfectly blends the spooky vibes of Halloween with the festive cheer of Christmas, Nightmare Before Kissmas by Sara Raasch is your go-to book. This quirky rom-com introduces us to Nicholas “Coal” Claus, the Prince of Christmas, and Hex, the Prince of Halloween. Their worlds collide in the most delightful way, creating a story that’s both heartwarming and hilariously chaotic. Raasch’s writing is engaging and witty, making it hard to put the book down once you start.

Hex, the Prince of Halloween

One of the standout aspects of this book is the character development. Coal and Hex are not just charming leads; they have depth and personality that make their romance believable and endearing. Coal’s golden-hearted nature contrasts beautifully with Hex’s more rebellious spirit, and their chemistry is off the charts. The supporting characters also add a lot of flavor to the story, making the world feel rich and vibrant.

Coal, the Prince of Christmas

Raasch does a fantastic job of balancing humor and emotion. There are plenty of laugh-out-loud moments, especially when the cultural quirks of Christmas and Halloween clash. But the book also touches on deeper themes, like the commercialization of holidays and the importance of staying true to oneself. It’s a fun read that also makes you think, which is a rare and delightful combination.

Overall, Nightmare Before Kissmas is a must-read for fans of holiday romances and paranormal comedies. It’s a fresh take on the holiday genre that will leave you smiling long after you’ve turned the last page. Whether you’re a fan of Christmas, Halloween, or just a good love story, this book has something for everyone. So grab a cup of hot cocoa, curl up by the fire, and dive into this enchanting tale!

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Discovering the Truth About My Middle & High School Bully

High school was a rough time for me, especially being gay in an environment that wasn’t always accepting. The administration, including the principal, Frank Lay, as well as counselors and other staff members at Pace High School, advised me and other queer students never to confirm our sexuality. I dealt with the same thing at Pace Middle School but on a more low-key level. I faced a lot of bullying and name-calling because I wasn’t exactly like the other boys. For years, I harbored resentment towards a kid in my grade named Kyle Norris, who I believed, and was led to believe by others, was the main culprit of a prank that went on for several weeks. The graffiti in the boys’ bathroom with my name on it and the love letters to Jason McBride, who I never even liked, were just a few of the humiliations I endured.

The graffiti was the start. Seeing my name scrawled on the bathroom wall with a sexual message directed at someone I had no interest in was like a punch to the gut when I walked in to see it. Kyle had come out of the bathroom and made a beeline directly to me to inform me that there was something in the bathroom that I needed to see. It felt like there was no escape from the constant ridicule. Shortly thereafter, there were the love letters to Jason McBride. Someone thought it would be funny to sign my name to them, making it look like I had a crush on him. It was mortifying, especially since I had no feelings for Jason at all. At one point, I was called into the office of Herb Cannon, our assistant principal. Herb presented himself as a bigoted judge with the assumption of guilt and threatened to get the police involved with the accusation of harassment. What really upset me was the fact that he mentioned he knew my family really well and knew they would be really ashamed of this situation. My sister was close with Herb; he was her basketball coach for a few years, taught her how to drive, and helped her get her driver’s license. I was mortified and never mentioned any of this to my family, though I now realize I should have. It’s interesting looking back, seeing the way that people who were in a position to help were blinded by their own bigotry.

For years, I blamed Kyle Norris for all of this. I was convinced he was the one behind the bullying because he always seemed to be the messenger when something would happen. I recently told my friend Jenny Reeves, who has remained friends with Kyle since high school, that every time I thought about high school, my anger towards him would flare up. Jenny decided it was time to clear the air between Kyle and me, and he and I chatted for hours, not only about the situation but our lives during and after school. The truth: Kyle was innocent. He wasn’t the person or connected to the people who tormented me. Kyle was simply the messenger or an individual who was in the wrong place at the wrong time. It was a shocking revelation that turned the way I thought of some of the people I went to school with upside down.

Finding out that Kyle wasn’t my bully was a mix of emotions. On one hand, I felt relief knowing that Kyle was innocent and I had wrongly accused him. On the other hand, I was angry at myself for holding onto that resentment for so long and letting it block my chance of a friendship that could have been. This shows how important it is to get the facts before jumping to conclusions.

This experience has taught me a lot about forgiveness and letting go of the past. It’s not easy to move on from the pain of bullying, but holding onto anger only hurts you in the long run. I’m still processing everything, but I’m hopeful that this new understanding will help me heal and move forward. Now that I’ve cleared the air with Kyle, we are actually friends. With all this said, some good things came out of the love letter situation. I became friends with Terry Kelly, another gay boy in middle school, and we shared each other’s secrets. I began to trust people less, which helped me become less gullible, and I learned how to see through people’s facades. Now that Kyle is no longer negatively living in my head rent-free, I wonder who the actual culprits were during my middle school years.

Expose Exposure Album Review

Exposé Exposure Album Cover

Exposure, the debut album by American girl group Exposé, was released on March 2, 1987, by Arista Records. I had heard Point of No Return on the radio as well as seen the video on MTV and VH1 and wanted this album badly and my parents were the "tape it off the radio" sort of people, not realizing there was much more to albums than what you hear on the radio. As a kid growing up in the 1980's, if we wanted physical copies of something, we more than likely found ourselves buying it from record stores like Turtles, Peaches and Record Bar or from places like TG&Y, K-Mart and *Zayre or as a lot of us really broke kids discovered, by creating fake names to get 12 free tapes from Columbia House or 6 free ones from RCA/BMG Music Service. Sometimes we had the good fortune of having a friend that has or at least has a sibling with the tape who allowed us to borrow theirs to make a copy of our own on a blank cassette tape, hopefully on brands like Sony, TDK, Maxell or at the very least, Memorex. Unfortunately, I had no friends that had this album and it always slipped my mind while I was creating fake name accounts with Columbia House. This album marked a significant moment in the late 80's dance-pop scene, reaching number 16 on the Billboard 200 and earning a double platinum certification by the RIAA in May 1990. The group, originally formed in 1984, consisted of members Sandra Casañas, Alejandra Lorenzo and Laurie Miller who were later replaced with Ann Curless, Jeanette Jurado, and Gioia Bruno. Exposure's release is sort of an odd one because the original release featured the 1984 version of Point of No Return with Alejandra Lorenzo on lead vocals but later printings and the compact disc featured the 1987 re-recording featuring Jeanette Jurado's vocals on lead. If you own this album, you may or may not realize the track Exposed to Love is the only number that featured the original lineup rather than being re-recorded by Ann, Jeanette and Gioia.

Celebrating my birthday with Gioia Bruno

The album features a mix of high-energy dance tracks and emotive ballads, showcasing the versatility of the three ladies known as Exposé. Among the standout tracks are Point of No Return, Come Go With Me, Seasons Change and my absolute favorite, Let Me Be the One which Gioia absolutely slays with her killer vocals. Each song on the album highlights the group’s ability to deliver catchy melodies and heartfelt lyrics, making “Exposure” a timeless piece in the pop and dance music genres.

The private concert Gioia did for us

I eventually purchased an actual CD copy of this album, in my late teens and have never parted with it. In 2017, it actually traveled with me from Atlanta to Mexico and Belize along with some of the original Gorgeous Ladies of Wrestling and none other than the lady I adored as a kid, Gioia Bruno. Gioia was an absolute sweetheart during the cruise and not only shared a lot of her personal life and struggles but also insight of her solo career as well as her career as a 3rd of one of the most iconic girl groups of the 1980s. She was a riot to party with and also gave 2 epic private concerts for our group, one of which she sang happy birthday to me. I haven't been starstruck too many times in my life but upon meeting Gioia, I felt as if I was in the presence of royalty at first but her humble and genuine demeanor eased my nerves, she was also gracious enough to autograph my CD copy of Exposure, something I will always treasure.

Riding an elevator with Gioia

Exposé’s success with “Exposure” not only solidified their place in music history but also paved the way for future girl groups in the industry. The album’s production, led by Lewis A. Martineé, combined with the trio’s dynamic performances, created a sound that resonated with a wide audience. Whether you’re revisiting the hits or discovering them for the first time, “Exposure” remains a quintessential album that captures the essence of 80s pop music.

I’ve loved this album for ages, so when I found out in 2015 that Cherry Pop, a British indie label, released a deluxe edition, I was thrilled. It not only had all the classic tracks I adored but also an expanded track list and a bonus disc with remixes and dub versions from singles and maxi-singles, some of which had never been on CD before. Plus, it featured songs by the original lineup and versions by Gioia, Jeanette, and Ann. No matter which version you have, you’ll definitely be tapping your foot, singing along, or even dancing your butt off.

Back cover of the Cherry Pop release of Exposure

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Madonna Blond Ambition World Tour 1990

Madonna Blond Ambition 1990 LaserDisc

The Blond Ambition World Tour is a gem for any Madonna enthusiast. Various performances were filmed throughout the tour, including the color musical footage used in the movie "Truth or Dare" which was filmed in Paris. The standalone performances that were officially released, filmed in Yokohama, Japan and Nice, France were only ever released on LaserDisc as Pioneer was the main sponsor of the tour. For a short time in the late 1990s, Madonna's fan club did offer a limited release of the Japanese performance on VHS. Rumors have circulated for years that either the Japanese or French shows would get a DVD release but it's never happened. Bootleg releases of performances in Houston, Texas as well as New Jersey have made it into the hands of collectors also. The Barcelona, Spain performance was filmed for Spanish television, in spite of technical issues and the fact that Madonna was miserable the entire time while putting on a top notch show and it has also made it's way into the hands of collectors. The 3 "official" recordings can be identified by Madonna's hairstyle and among fans the shows are known as: The One With the Ponytail (Yokohama) The One With the Poofy Hair (Barcelona) and then there's The One With the Curly Hair, also known as the Nice, France show. This review is drawn from the final show of Madonna's groundbreaking Blond Ambition World Tour in Nice, France, which aired on HBO a few hours after the tour wrapped up. While it's technically only available on LaserDisc, you can find DVD transfers on eBay as well as some brave souls periodically upload it to YouTube. No matter your viewing preference, it as a fun nostalgic trip back to 1990. The concert is a visual and auditory feast, featuring some of Madonna’s biggest hits like “Vogue” “Like a Prayer” “Express Yourself” and “Open Your Heart.” Each musical number is meticulously choreographed, blending provocative themes with high-energy dance routines.

Madonna with the iconic ponytail

Madonna’s costumes, designed by Jean-Paul Gaultier, are iconic. The most memorable is undoubtedly the cone bra corset, which has since become a symbol of pop culture. The stage sets are equally impressive, with elaborate backdrops and props that transform with each song, creating a dynamic and immersive experience.

The infamous Barcelona performance

However, the tour wasn’t without its challenges. Madonna faced criticism and controversy, particularly from religious groups, due to the provocative nature of her performances. The Vatican even condemned the tour, calling it blasphemous. Despite this, the tour was a commercial success and is often credited with redefining the modern pop concert.

Madonna during the European leg of the Blond Ambition Tour

Reviews at the time were mixed but leaned towards positive. The New York Times praised Madonna’s ability to blend spectacle with substance, noting that “her concerts are as much about theater as they are about music.” Rolling Stone highlighted the tour’s influence on future pop performances, stating that “Madonna has set a new standard for live shows.”

For years I had watched my VHS copies of The Virgin Tour as well as Ciao Italia aka The Who's That Girl Tour, the Virgin Tour being my favorite, until I saw this concert. This was the concert the brought my already obsessive fandom over the top. From Express Yourself to Open Your Heart, I was hooked. The arrangement of Like A Virgin, while not traditional, was naughty and unbelievable for the time but so very awesome. The arrangement of Like a Prayer was the remixed version found on the Immaculate Collection album which in my opinion is far superior to the original version on the Like A Prayer album. My absolute favorite number in the set list was the song she closed out the show with, Keep It Together, a minor hit from the Like A Prayer album. To this day, I am convinced if the live version, complete with the Family Affair intro, was released as a single in 1990, it would have made it into the top 10.

Overall, the Blond Ambition World Tour is a must-watch for anyone interested in the evolution of pop music and performance art. It captures a pivotal moment in Madonna’s career and showcases her as a trailblazer in the music industry.

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