So, there I was, at the bookstore in the B concourse. It was just minutes before closing time, and I was laser-focused on getting my register counted and heading out. Overtime is a no-no right now, so efficiency was the name of the game. Then, this guy walks in. He starts browsing, taking his time with the different sections, but he seems particularly drawn to the religious books on the display from Choice Books. He was probably in his 20s, cute and definitely wearing his faith on his sleeve – literally, he had a cross necklace. Honestly, I did think he was adorable, and he even reminded me of a boy I went to school with who I had a crush on, someone who was also similar in character.
We got to talking and he asked about why we didn't have bibles. I explained that we're a smaller store and specialize in mainstream genres, but we do carry the inspirational books that Choice Books provides. It turned into quite the chat about religion and beliefs. Then, he asked if he could pray for me. I tried to be polite, but I'm pretty agnostic and really prefer to keep to myself in that regard. I mentioned how where I grew up, religion was sometimes used to control people. I was trying to set some boundaries, but I'm not sure he really got it.
Before he left, he asked again to pray for me. I just said I was good and appreciated his thoughts. Honestly, I wish I had been a little more eloquent. I was thinking I should have said something like, “I truly appreciate the thought, but I’d prefer to pass on that. Thank you for your kindness,” or “I really value your support, but I have my own way of processing things. Thank you for understanding,” or “I appreciate the sentiment, but I’m not comfortable with prayers at this time. I do hope for good things ahead, though.”
As he was heading out, I realized he still had a book in his hand! I called out to him to ask if he wanted to pay for the book and he was super apologetic and I told him I completely understand as travel can wear on someone’s mind, it really can. He paid for it and even asked one more time if I was sure I didn't need a prayer. I'm not the best at reading people, you know? In the past, I have actually had people come on like that and they're actually trying to pick me up. And though I’m certain this was not the case but if it were, I am not that kind of guy. But if he was sincere, I genuinely hope I didn't offend him.
This is my open letter to Tyler from Phoenix, who was traveling all day and stuck in Atlanta until midnight. I appreciate your kindness and concern. In another life, maybe we could be friends. I wish you safe travels and thank you for being such a caring person. We need more people like you in the world. But, please understand, religion isn't for everyone.
It's funny how a quick interaction with a stranger can really get you thinking. I’m curious, have you ever had a moment like this at work or while traveling? I’d love to hear your stories in the comments! Also, if you enjoyed this little story, maybe consider supporting my writing journey by leaving a tip. Every little bit helps me keep sharing these experiences. Safe travels to you all, and thanks for reading!
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