Saturday, December 7, 2024
Saturday GLOWcase: The Unforgettable Tiffany Mellon of GLOW
Friday, December 6, 2024
A Movie Night to Cherish: 'Home Alone' and Motherly Love
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| Home Alone |
Growing up, going to the movies was a rare treat for me. My parents preferred the comfort of home, where TV shows were free and movies often aired without the need for a ticket purchase. At the time "Home Alone" was released, my mom worked during the day at Hackbarth Delivery Service, and she had her evenings free. My dad, on the other hand, worked with Team, Inc. and spent his evenings at Murphy's Lounge on the Pensacola side of Escambia River. Their relationship was strained, their marriage on the brink, and their disagreements frequent.
During this tumultuous period, I was dealing with my own struggles. I found myself in the midst of a complicated friendship, wanting for it to be more. My friend, who I'd known since a bullying incident in the 6th grade, only wanted to keep things casual and secret due to fears of being "out" in our conservative area. I also suspected that he might have been embarrassed for people to know we were boyfriends, let alone friends. This added to my emotional turmoil, leaving me feeling isolated and misunderstood. My mom, in a misguided effort to help, had me attending Alateen meetings and counseling sessions, but all I wanted was to be left alone or to be comforted by my best friend.
In the midst of our constant bickering, my mom decided to treat me to a night at the movies. She went to the bank and withdrew money for our tickets and whatever snacks we wanted at the concession stand. We drove to Cordova Mall, parked near the cinema and bought tickets for "Home Alone," the new Christmas movie everyone was raving about. Despite our troubles, that night, something magical happened.
"Home Alone" was a breath of fresh air. It was entirely different from the other Christmas classic we loved, "A Miracle on 34th Street," but it brought us joy and laughter. Kevin McCallister's antics, as he defended his home from bumbling burglars, struck a chord with us. We laughed together, forgot our worries for a couple of hours, and simply enjoyed the film. After the movie, we wandered around the mall, savoring the rare moment of peace between us. For the first time in a long while, we didn't argue. The next day, we returned to our usual disagreements, but something good had come from that movie night. We had found another Christmas movie to cherish, and it gave us a memory of shared laughter during a time of unhappiness.
"Home Alone" remains a beloved holiday classic for many. Its blend of comedy, heart, and the timeless theme of family makes it an enduring favorite. The film's portrayal of a young boy cleverly outwitting would-be thieves while learning the importance of family resonates with audiences year after year. For me, it will always remind me of that special night with my mom, a night when we found common ground and shared a much-needed laugh.
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Thursday, December 5, 2024
A Review of "A Christmas Carol" Original Manuscript Edition
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| A Christmas Carol Charles Dickens |
Returning to work in a bookstore brought with it a slew of unexpected delights, and none more captivating than the moment I stumbled upon "A Christmas Carol: The Original Manuscript Edition." As someone who has always adored the timeless tale, its various film adaptations, and the book itself, this edition instantly caught my eye.
Flipping through its pages, I was enthralled by the unique format. On one page, you have the familiar printed text, and on the opposite page, the handwritten manuscript by Charles Dickens himself. This pairing offers a rare glimpse into the author's creative process, allowing readers to see Dickens' original scribbles and notes. It brings a tangible connection to the story and its creator, making this edition stand out as the one to own for any true fan.
What truly makes this version of "A Christmas Carol" exceptional is its historical significance. A Rare copy of the book was aboard the RMS Lusitania when it tragically sank in 1915, adding a layer of historical intrigue to the already rich narrative. This fact not only underscores the enduring legacy of Dickens' work but also adds a poignant reminder of the manuscript's journey through time.
Revisiting the story through this unique edition rekindled my love for "A Christmas Carol." It reminded me why this classic tale has resonated with readers for generations. Scrooge's transformation from a miserly old man to a figure of redemption and generosity is a narrative that never loses its charm. The manuscript edition enhances this experience by offering a deeper, more intimate understanding of the story.
If you're a fan of "A Christmas Carol" or simply appreciate literary history, this original manuscript edition is a must-have. It's more than just a book; it's a piece of history that brings you closer to Dickens and his timeless tale. Whether you're discovering the story for the first time or returning to it as an old friend, this edition offers something truly special.
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Wednesday, December 4, 2024
A Secret Date at 13: National Lampoon's Christmas Vacation at University Mall
One of my all-time favorite holiday movies is National Lampoon's Christmas Vacation. Every holiday season, I make sure to watch this 1989 classic. It perfectly blends the chaos of the holidays with family fun, and it never fails to make me laugh.
I have a really special memory associated with this movie. It was one of the first movies I went to on an actual date. I was 13, and he was 12. The funny part is, it was a daytime date with the son of one of my mom's co-workers. Our moms had no idea it was a date—they just thought it was two kids going to see a movie. My mom drove us to University Mall in Pensacola, dropped us off, and went shopping.
We watched National Lampoon's Christmas Vacation, and I remember laughing so much at all the crazy things happening to the Griswold family. After the movie, his mom picked us up in her little Yugo. We were sitting in the back seat, still giggling about the movie. I often wonder if his mom saw us sneak a kiss back there. It's one of those sweet, innocent memories that makes me smile every time I think about it.
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| A blue Yugo just like the one his mom drove |
And while Christmas Vacation is my holiday go-to, I also love Vegas Vacation. It was filmed not long after I worked in Las Vegas, so it always reminds me of my time there and brings back great memories.
Thinking about all this just makes me appreciate the movie even more. It’s not just about the laughs, but the memories tied to it. So, if you haven’t seen it in a while, or if you’ve never seen it, National Lampoon's Christmas Vacation is definitely worth a watch. It’s sure to bring some holiday cheer and maybe even remind you of your own special memories.
Tuesday, December 3, 2024
A Nostalgic Christmas with Elvis
I still remember the time my dad took me to K-Mart in Milton, Florida. The holiday season of 1985 was just beginning, and the store was filled with the typical festive K-Mart decorations and the sound of Christmas music. As we walked through the aisles, I spotted a record with Elvis Presley on the cover. He told me he didn't really like Elvis, but a couple of my cousins were part of an old gospel group that Elvis loved, and he became good friends with them. Despite his reservations, he bought the record for me. I honestly knew nothing other than the names of the songs, but I loved the color and picture of Elvis on the cover.
When we got home, I eagerly put the record on my old hand-me-down Emerson Disco 80 record player. As the first notes of "Blue Christmas" filled the room, I was instantly captivated by Elvis's voice. It was soulful and full of emotion, something I hadn't expected. I listened to the entire album, which included classics like "White Christmas," "Here Comes Santa Claus," and "Silent Night." Each song transported me to a different world, filled with holiday cheer and nostalgia.
Elvis's Christmas Album, released in 1957, was a mix of secular and gospel songs. It featured six popular Christmas songs, two traditional carols, and four gospel tracks. The album was a hit, spending four weeks at No. 1 on the Billboard Top Pop Albums chart and becoming the best-selling Christmas album of all time in the United States. Elvis's rendition of "Blue Christmas" became a holiday classic, capturing the bittersweet feeling of spending Christmas without a loved one. Though Elvis only recorded a handful of holiday songs, they have been re-released and repackaged in many different ways over the years. My album was one of the various re-releases.
That record became a cherished part of my holiday tradition. Every year around the holidays, and once in a while throughout the year, I would play it just because. It reminded me of that special day at K-Mart and the joy of discovering a new/old favorite artist. Even though my dad didn't like Elvis, he gave me a gift that brought me so much happiness. It's a memory I'll always treasure.
Monday, December 2, 2024
The Childhood Christmas Play That Sparked My Passion for Acting
One of my most vivid childhood memories is participating in a Christmas play at our local church, the Pleasant View Baptist Church in Mobile, AL. This performance took place when I was in kindergarten, and it stands out for several reasons, not least of which was my role and the experience that came with it.
I was chosen to play the grandson of a man who read a Christmas story to the congregation. This might sound like a simple part, but for a five-year-old, it was quite a responsibility. My primary task was to sit on his lap for a significant portion of the performance, and while that might seem easy, it presented its own unique challenges.
Firstly, his breath was not exactly what a child would enjoy—a blend of menthol, peppermint, cigarettes, and whiskey, probably to take the edge off his own nerves—something that I distinctly remember to this day. Maintaining a starry-eyed, attentive expression while dealing with this was no small feat for my young self. Additionally, I had to stay awake and engaged throughout the entire reading, which lasted about 35 minutes. For a kindergartner, this felt like an eternity.
Despite these hurdles, though I was not exactly into "church," the play was a significant part of my early Christmas experiences. It embodied the spirit of community and the festive season, bringing together families and friends to celebrate the holiday in a meaningful way. The traditional decorations, the familiar faces of the congregation, and the excitement of being part of a performance all contributed to a memorable occasion.
Since I didn’t really have a grandfather in my life, I thought of the man as being my real grandfather during those moments and beyond. I would seek him out before church services just so I could sit with him. I can't remember his name, but he was a good sport and went along with it to the point that I think some of the church members truly believed we were family. This experience sparked my interest in wanting to be an actor, and perhaps even a singing actor. The support and encouragement from the congregation and my mama helped build my confidence and appreciation for the traditions that make the holiday season special.
Later in life, when I began performing in singing and acting, I would always think back to this experience and thank my "fake grandfather" for going the distance with his role. Looking back, I realize that this early experience was not just about the performance itself, but also about the confidence it instilled in me. The support and encouragement from the congregation and my mama helped build my confidence on stage, many years later. Every time I stepped into the spotlight, I carried with me the lessons learned and the sense of belonging fostered during that memorable Christmas play.
Sunday, December 1, 2024
Defunct Heavenly Ham's Legendary Turkey Salad Recipe
Turkey Salad Recipe
Ingredients:
16 oz package of Smoked Turkey Breast (lunch meat slices)
1 9oz jar Major Grey Chutney (located in the ketchup aisle; like the photos above)
1 1/2 cups of Mayo (NOT Miracle Whip or Mayo Dressing)
2 to 3 Scallion Stalks
1/2 tbsp Black Pepper
Instructions:
Empty the jar of chutney and scallions into a food processor or Cuisinart and puree. Use a spatula to pour the mixture into a mixing bowl. Don't worry about rinsing the processor between steps; it all gets mixed together anyway.
Chop the turkey in the food processor (almost to a ground texture) and pour it into the mixing bowl.
Add the mayo and black pepper, mix well, and refrigerate until ready to serve.
This turkey salad is especially tasty on sandwiches made with croissants, lettuce, Havarti cheese slices, and tomato. It also makes a great alternative protein in salads or served with crackers.
Saturday, November 30, 2024
Saturday GLOWcase: The Unforgettable Journey of Tina Ferrari
I first discovered GLOW towards the end of season two and quickly became a fan of several characters, including Hollywood, Vine, and Tina Ferrari. When the show moved to a different station for season three, almost the entire cast changed, and Tina was no longer part of it. This was disappointing, but I enjoyed the matches I had on VHS tapes and thought Tina was one of the most amazing ladies of GLOW.
Lisa Moretti, known to us as Tina Ferrari, graduated from USC in 1984 and had cheered for the L.A. Express in the United States Football League. Between jobs, her friend Nadine convinced her to join a boxing gym in Watts, where Mando Guerrero was training young actresses in wrestling. Despite the grueling training, they were invited back and eventually headed to Las Vegas to shoot a pilot for GLOW. Lisa was super nervous for her first wrestling match and felt completely unprepared, but watching the pilot episode, you'd never know. GLOW's mix of quirky characters, fun costumes, and comedy sketches allowed everyone to get creative. Lisa as Tina fit right in alongside Nadine, who became Ashley Cartier.
Matt Cimber named their tag team "T&A" (Tina & Ashley) as a cheeky nod to their most obvious assets. David McLane and most of the original cast stayed at the Riviera Hotel for nine months to finish two seasons of GLOW. Tina roomed with Ashley and reconnected with their friend Annette from cheerleading, who became GLOW’s Jungle Woman. Even without professional training, the ladies of GLOW made their characters memorable, crafting their own rap lyrics and designing their costumes. Tina credits the other performers for making her look good and acknowledges David McLane's continuous support for women's wrestling.
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| Me, Ashley Cartier, Pedro & Tina Ferrari |
In 2017, I had the incredible opportunity to cruise with Tina Ferrari and her partner Ashley Cartier on the Norwegian Dawn, where I learned that after wrestling, Lisa transitioned to running a small pet services business. She found fulfillment in caring for her four-legged clients, providing a safe and loving environment. We had an amazing time in Mexico, Honduras, and Belize, and Tina was every bit the superstar I had hoped she would be. While in Cozumel, she and I raced on waterslides and played in a human-sized hamster wheel, where I inadvertently knocked her over, and she accidentally kicked me in the chest, leaving me with a huge bruise for a few days. It was AWESOME.
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| Tina and I in Costa Maya |
One of the most amazing facts I learned about Lisa that week was that she had been taking singing lessons and became active in regional theatre. She was preparing to take on the role of Velma in a production of Chicago and treated a few of us to an impromptu performance of a full-on belted version of "All That Jazz." If I didn't already love Tina Ferrari during her wrestling days, hearing her sing a random show tune like that was enough to make me a fan all over again.
Friday, November 29, 2024
Embracing the Quirky Charm: My Lifelong Love for 'A Christmas Story'
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| A Christmas Story Poster |
As the holiday season approaches, I find myself revisiting one of my all-time favorite Christmas movies: "A Christmas Story." This 1983 classic, based on the book by Jean Shepherd, holds a special place in my heart. Despite its silliness and quirky humor, it never fails to bring a smile to my face.
When I was a kid, I loved watching "A Christmas Story" on TV. I would eagerly wait for it to air during the holiday season, relishing in Ralphie's misadventures and the iconic leg lamp, which I wanted for myself. My family, much like my partner Terry, didn't quite share my enthusiasm. They found the movie's silliness a bit too much, but that never stopped me from enjoying every minute of it. There's something endearing about its over-the-top moments and the nostalgic charm that transports me back to a simpler time, even though it was set in a completely different setting and years before I was born.
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| Three Lives & Company, New York, NY |
During my time in New York in 1992, I discovered the book that inspired the movie written by Jean Shepherd while shopping in the Greenwich Village bookstore across from Julius' called Three Lives & Company. I spent a couple of nights reading "In God We Trust: All Others Pay Cash" and it gave me a deeper appreciation for the film's whimsical storytelling. Shepherd's writing captured the essence of childhood wonder and holiday magic, and I fell in love with it. Ever since, it's become a tradition for me to read the book each year around the holidays, adding another layer of joy to my Christmas celebrations.
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| In God We Trust All Others Pay Cash by Jean Shepherd |
While Terry may not be a fan of "A Christmas Story," he tolerates it as I embrace its quirky humor and heartwarming moments. The film's depiction of a Midwestern Christmas in the 1940s, with all its eccentricities, reminds me of the importance of embracing the silly and joyful aspects of life. It may not be everyone's cup of eggnog, but for me, it's a cherished holiday tradition that never gets old.
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Thursday, November 28, 2024
My Journey to Mastering the Thanksgiving Turkey, my very first time
Learning how to cook a turkey was something I never thought I could do as a kid. Though my mom's turkey was always dry, I liked it because I knew no different. I thought turkey was supposed to be that way. My teen years were spent shuffling between leaving home and brief stints back at home living with my dad. My dad was not exactly what I would call a cook; he mostly ate what my sister would bring him, fast food or cooked chili, using his special ingredients added to Chili-O mix—ketchup.
After I returned to stay with him for a few months in 1996, I knew Daddy wasn't going to have much of a Thanksgiving. So, I went out to Delchamps on my bicycle and bought a turkey, along with Stove Top stuffing (which I stopped using after learning how to make my mom's dressing) and a few other fixings that would fit into my backpack. I really had no clue what I was doing in the kitchen, but I remembered little things from recipe books from the '50s and '60s that I had read at the library in Milton, Florida, while looking for things to talk about on the radio show my friend Charlie and I did.
When my dad returned home from work the night before Thanksgiving, he shook his head and told me I wasted my money on all of that and might as well just order us a pizza or wait for my sister Becki to bring us a few plates from her husband's family's get-together, which I knew she would do for him as she had done before. I was determined to make this work.
I got up early Thanksgiving morning, just as my mom did when I was a kid, and fired up the oven. I went to work using the knowledge from those ancient recipe books. I put a lot of the tips together, and though each one seemed odd and dated and was never mentioned in the cooking instructions of that Butterball turkey, they somehow made sense. Some of the cooking tips included using margarine rather than butter on the skin, as it would allow the skin to hold the juices in without burning as quickly. I also baked the turkey upside down for two-thirds of the cooking time and then flipped it over for the last third, figuring out the logistics without burning myself or tearing the turkey apart was a challenge in itself. Another tip was to forgo basting and pour two cartons of chicken or vegetable broth into the bottom of the pan, allowing it to steam the turkey. I then reused the broth to make gravy and add flavor to the dressing. By noon, I pulled out the turkey one final time and took my chance at cutting it open to serve it alongside brown-and-serve rolls, cream-style corn, Stove Top stuffing, mashed potatoes, and gravy that I had prepared.
I was very proud of myself, and Daddy seemed to be very impressed that I proved him wrong. To this day, I can still hear his voice when he told me that for as long as he knew my mom, she couldn't manage to master cooking a turkey, but here I was, a pro on my very first try. Years later, my Thanksgiving meals have grown. Though I still only cook for two, I cook enough for myself and Terry to eat on throughout the week, including his favorite (and not mine), Green Bean Casserole. I use the leftover turkey to make broth, which I freeze to use for other dishes throughout the year. Thank you for hanging out with me today and reading this memory and I hope you all have a wonderful Thanksgiving today while I am working, the airport never closes.
Wednesday, November 27, 2024
My Experience at Wicked at Atlanta Fox Theatre March 5, 2015 Matinee
Buying tickets turned into quite an ordeal. We waited a bit too long to purchase them, as I was waiting on my tax refund. Getting tickets for a popular show three weeks before the performance is not a good idea. Finding two seats together was a challenge. The Fox Theatre’s website charged a $20 fee on top of each ticket's cost. As a server, $40 is sometimes considered a "good lunch," and I'd rather not pay unnecessary fees. Plus, I'm super cheap. I decided to stop by the box office one morning on my way to work. Almost every show was sold out, and if they weren't, the only available seats were singles in different sections. The gentleman at the ticket booth told me the best option was the March 5th, 1 pm show, Orchestra Right, Row X, seats 18 and 20, at $98 per ticket. Knowing the balcony overhangs Row N, I figured these seats weren't bad at all. I've seen Phantom from every part of the Fox and can say that any further back in the orchestra, once you get into those double-letter seats, it's uncomfortable, and the views are obstructed. These seats were definitely a good choice, considering our best options. I bought those tickets and headed to work. Once I got to the restaurant, I requested the day off for the show. There was no way I was paying $98 per ticket and missing it for a possible $40 shift. I got the day off!
Terry started feeling bad the night before and was coughing, so we went to the pharmacy and stocked up on Alka-Seltzer Cold & Flu for daytime and nighttime. I loaded my shirt pockets with cough drops and a couple of Dayquil pills for when the Alka-Seltzer wore off. We headed towards Midtown by noon, and the temperature was around 65 degrees, a bit windy, and starting to look drizzly. Parking at the Fox is a complete cluster, especially during the day. You're competing for spots among cars parked for people at work and other theatergoers. T-minus 20 minutes before curtain, and Terry and I were still trying to park. We saw a lot with $20 parking, but it was full. I told Terry to head towards the Walgreens and Publix area, hoping we'd find paid parking. Nope, there was none. We decided to chance it and use the Publix parking lot, hoping we wouldn't get towed or booted.
We made it in about 10 minutes before the show started. We used to make mad dashes to buy t-shirts and programs but stopped the unnecessary spending years ago. Straight to our seats we went. Those seats weren't bad at all. I couldn't help but feel bad for those crammed into the first 20 rows on the right and left of the orchestra section because those were most definitely obstructed views. This was the fourth time Wicked played Atlanta, but the first time for the 2nd national tour. The official website stated there was no difference between the first and second national tours aside from the cast members. I knew this wasn't completely true, considering I had known since this production originated in Chicago that it had been scaled down a bit. Having seen the 1st national tour, I noticed differences in the staging and sets, such as the Flying Monkeys not climbing the proscenium, Morrible being off-stage during her announcement in "Defying Gravity," and no bridge above the stage. Despite the differences, the production value and spectacle of the show were just as enjoyable as before.
I filled Terry in on things to look for throughout the show but didn't give away key moments or spoil the twists at the end. He was completely shocked that I was so good at keeping all the spoilers to myself and letting him witness everything firsthand. When we opened our Encore Atlanta magazines (the Fox's version of a Playbill), we saw two "At This Performance" notices: Glinda would be played by Beka Burnham and Elphaba by Emily Koch. I LOVE watching understudies and standbys. While some see them as the villains who stole the starring role from the regular actor, I see them as unexpected stars deserving their chance to shine. As a former understudy myself, I understand the excitement of getting the chance to perform. Understudies are unique; they often morph the best parts of other performers into their own. Both Beka and Emily were amazing. I know I'd get flak for this, but I personally thought they were much better vocally than Idina and Kristin's performances on the Original Broadway Cast recording.
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| Emily Koch as Elphaba |
Back in the day, my top five musicals were "The Phantom of the Opera," "Miss Saigon," "Starlight Express," "RENT," and "CATS." Most people know that "The Phantom of the Opera" was at the top of that list. Having seen Wicked, I can honestly say that Wicked now rivals Phantom for my top pick. After the curtain call, John Davidson, Ashley Parker Angel, and Lee Slobotkin, acting as their model, explained that cast members in costume were taking donations and selling special items in the lobby, with proceeds going to Equity Fights AIDS. One of the items was a large showcard (poster) autographed by each cast member for $60. I usually don't buy showcards, but I definitely wanted this one. As I headed to the lobby, I made my purchase/donation, and Terry and I rushed out the front of the Fox, hoping to find the car where we left it.
It was about 4 pm, and the temperature had dropped at least 20 degrees from when we arrived. We had no jackets or hoodies, so I went into power-walk mode—six blocks of zigzagging across streets. We made it to the Publix parking lot, and the car was still there! We started the car, and the temperature read 39 degrees. I checked AccuWeather, and it was pretty accurate, except the windchill made it feel like 24 degrees.
On a side note, if you've ever wondered about the difference between seeing a matinee and an evening show at the Fox, there's not really a difference other than you enter and exit the show in daylight rather than darkness. The daytime crowd also seems more respectful and well-behaved, and I noticed no offensive old lady perfumes like Odyssey by Avon.
Tuesday, November 26, 2024
Falling in Love with Annie Lennox's "A Christmas Cornucopia" Album Review
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| Annie Lennox A Christmas Cornucopia |
Annie Lennox's "A Christmas Cornucopia" is filled with beautifully arranged classic Christmas carols, each track highlighting her powerful, emotive voice. The album perfectly blends traditional holiday cheer with Annie's signature style, making it a must-listen every festive season. From "God Rest Ye Merry Gentlemen" and "Lullay Lullay (The Coventry Carol)" to "Silent Night," each song is given new life with her imaginative arrangements and heartfelt performances.
Though I knew her from the hit songs "Here Comes the Rain Again" and "Sweet Dreams" my love for Annie Lennox's voice began thanks to my friend Erik Harden. He was a huge fan and had tried to get me to become an androgynous singer like a young male version of Annie. Although I didn't quite take that path, I am eternally grateful to Erik for introducing me to Annie's incredible talent. Her voice never fails to captivate me, and "A Christmas Cornucopia" is a shining example of her versatility and artistry.
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Monday, November 25, 2024
Riding the Sky Wheel: Revisited



Sunday, November 24, 2024
Cherishing the Tradition: Writing Christmas Cards with Heart
Writing Christmas cards is one of those cherished holiday traditions that evokes fond memories of my childhood. I can vividly recall my mom sitting down at the dining table, the scent of pine filling the room, and classic Christmas music playing in the background. With a full box of cards from Woolworths, TG&Y or K-Mart and a Bic pen in hand, she would spend days writing heartfelt messages, often filling each card with entire letters. It usually took her two or three days to complete every card in the box before sending them out, ensuring that each one was a personal touch of holiday cheer.
I always admired my mom's ability to express so much in her Christmas cards. She had a talent for connecting with people through her letters, hopefully making every recipient feel special. In contrast, I found myself struggling to write more than a line or two. For years, I simply signed my name and Terry's name, feeling somewhat inadequate compared to my mom's eloquence. However, over the past few years, I've made a concerted effort to improve. While I may not yet match my mom's lengthy missives, I've started adding more personal touches to each card, hoping to capture some of that warmth and connection.
One thing I've noticed in recent years is a trend where people will only send a card if they receive one first, and some have stopped sending them altogether. It made me wonder if there's an unspoken obligation or need for reciprocation when it comes to holiday cards. Personally, I believe that writing Christmas cards should come from a place of genuine holiday spirit rather than a sense of duty. For me, it's about maintaining a tradition that I cherish, regardless of whether I receive a card in return. It's a way to reach out, share some joy, and let people know they're remembered during the festive season.
I continue to send Christmas cards to the same people each year because I love the tradition. It's a small, meaningful way to spread a bit of happiness and keep the holiday spirit alive. As I sit down to write my cards, I think of my mom and the care she put into each one. While I may never write entire letters within my cards, I hope that my efforts bring a smile to the faces of those who receive them. After all, it's the thought and the heartfelt intention behind each card that truly matters.
Saturday, November 23, 2024
Saturday GLOWcase: Melody Trouble Vixen (MTV) Played by Eileen O'Hara
This week's Saturday GLOWcase is all about Melody Trouble Vixen, better known as MTV, played by the incredibly talented Eileen O'Hara.
This week's Glowing Spotlight is all about Melody Trouble Vixen, better known as MTV, played by the incredibly talented Eileen O'Hara. MTV was a character who burst onto the scene with uncontained energy and a guitar in tow, becoming a memorable part of GLOW (Gorgeous Ladies of Wrestling). From her fearless debut in season three to her willingness to take on the most daring stunts, MTV quickly established herself as a force to be reckoned with, making her mark alongside GLOW legends and new additions alike. In the first episode of season three, MTV made her televised ring debut alongside GLOW legend Hollywood, taking on the new country girl additions to GLOW, Babe the Farmer's Daughter, and Cowgirl Tulsa. MTV was a trip—fearless and one of the few who seemed to take bumps that most wrestlers would rather avoid. Not many ladies would agree to having Mountain Fiji lift them up over her head and toss them, lovingly, out of the ring, but MTV was all in.
Eileen O'Hara was destined for storytelling, displaying her knack for character play from a young age. Fate led her to GLOW in a serendipitous twist, crashing an audition while heading to a commercial casting. Her meeting with Matt Cimber led to a grueling training period, during which her unique rock band persona captivated the creators, giving birth to the iconic MTV. Eileen's commitment and creativity in developing Melody Trouble Vixen made her a standout character, resonating with fans and adding a fresh, dynamic energy to the show.
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| Eileen's Book Banners of Avalon the Return of Ealauna |
Beyond GLOW, Eileen's talents extended into acting and innovation. She continued to pursue acting opportunities and even invented an e-publishing system for media artists, holding a U.S. patent for this groundbreaking technology. Eileen's passion for empowering artists and her dedication to her craft are evident in all her endeavors. She also penned a fantasy novel, "The Banners of Avalon, The Return of Ealauna," showcasing her storytelling abilities in another realm.
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| Terry, MTV and Myself |
Meeting Eileen in person, I discovered she was much more than her MTV persona. She is incredibly intelligent, charismatic, and considerate, with a unique charm that instantly forms connections. Whether sharing anecdotes from her wrestling days or engaging in new adventures, Eileen's warmth and enthusiasm are infectious. Her time on GLOW, featuring memorable matches and enduring friendships, reflects her gratitude for the fans and the positive impact of the show. Eileen O'Hara's journey is a testament to her multifaceted talent and her ability to inspire and connect with others.
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Friday, November 22, 2024
A Holiday Tradition and a Dream Come True: Miracle on 34th Street and Visiting Macy's
Every family has its cherished holiday traditions and every year around Thanksgiving, my mom and I had a cherished tradition of watching "Miracle on 34th Street" with Natalie Wood. It was our signal that the holiday season had officially begun. The film, with its timeless charm and heartwarming message, always brought us closer together. I would scour through the TV guide each week, looking for every time the movie would be on. One of the best parts of having cable, albeit basic cable, back in the 1980s was the fact that certain movies that would air once a year on network television would sometimes play on a cable channel more frequently. Each time it would air, we’d cover up in the living room with a few afghans she had crocheted, popcorn, and big glasses of lemonade, and lose ourselves in the magical world where Kris Kringle proves to everyone that he is the real Santa Claus. Natalie Wood’s portrayal of the skeptical little Susan added just the right amount of innocence and wonder, making the movie even more special for us.
The tradition of watching "Miracle on 34th Street" wasn’t just about the movie itself but also about the love that both of us shared for the film. We laughed, we cried, and we believed in the spirit of Christmas just a little bit more each year. It became one of those rare constants in life that I could always count on, no matter what else was happening. The scenes set in Macy's particularly captivated us, and we often talked about visiting the iconic store as well as Gimbels someday. We also tried watching the 1973 version of the movie, but it just didn’t have the same magic, and we didn't care for it at all.
That dream came true when I was 16, in the summer of 1992. After finally making my way to New York City, I marveled at the facade of the Majestic Theatre, the famous home of "The Phantom of the Opera." Then, I walked ten blocks to visit the real Macy's on 34th Street. Though my mom wasn't with me, the experience was magical. Macy's on 34th Street was much larger than I could have ever imagined. In the area where I grew up, the largest stores were the two-story anchor mall stores like Sears, DH Holmes, Gayfers, Montgomery Ward, McRae's, and JCPenney. Macy's vibe was incomparable to those stores, though DH Holmes, before being bought by Dillard's, seemed like a mini version of this great store. Even the Macy's locations in Atlanta paled in comparison. During my time in New York, I found myself in Macy's more often than any other store because it was so massive that you could spend an entire day there and still not see everything.
I would intentionally take the wooden escalators because they somehow made me feel more connected to the 1947 film than the modern escalators with metal stairs. Though Macy's prices were higher than what I was used to paying for clothes, I did a lot of shopping in their Young Men's section. Even now, almost 50, I find myself gravitating toward the same section in any store. Plus, it was well air-conditioned, which was a welcome relief during the hot summer days.
After I briefly left New York following my "accident" with Richard Rogers, being back in Florida felt so foreign to me, even though everything was exactly as I remembered. One thing I always loved as a kid was walking around the mall during Christmas. The two malls in Mobile, Bel Aire and Springdale, as well as University and Cordova in Pensacola, went all out in different ways to make their decorations more festive than the next. When I returned to New York in November of the same year, I wasn't prepared for the feeling I got while walking through the city, which had transformed into a Christmas wonderland. The moment I turned the corner and saw Macy's all decorated for Christmas, stepping into those grand doors with the store readied for the upcoming holiday season felt like stepping into the movie. The festive decorations, the hustle and bustle of shoppers, and the sheer size of the store were overwhelming in the best possible way. Regretfully, part of the wish my mom and I had could not be fulfilled completely, visiting Gimbels. Gimbels had gone out of business half a decade before I made it to New York. However, not all was lost, as the A&S Plaza, now called Manhattan Mall, was open for business on the original site where Gimbels once stood. While not the same, it was still very magical to me.
I couldn't pass up the chance to see the real-life Macy's Santa Claus either. I waited in line among children of different national backgrounds, which I absolutely loved, all with the same goal as me: to have a magical moment with the magical man, even if he was just an employee of the store. I declined a photo because I thought I would always remember the moment in my mind, but 32 years later, I wish I had gotten one to share the magic with you, my readers, my family, and everyone else I know. I couldn’t help but think back to all those years of watching the film and how it had sparked this moment of excitement and fulfillment.
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| AI version of sort of me with "Macy's" |
Standing there in Macy's, I felt a deep sense of gratitude for the shared moments with my mom. The store was as magical as I had imagined, but the true magic lay in the memories we created together, both on screen and in real life. I wish I had shared this story with my mom before her passing; I feel she would have loved hearing about my visit to Macy's and how she contributed to the magic I feel each year during the holiday season and beyond. I also would love to hear her try to sing the tune the little Dutch girl sang with Santa Claus in the movie once more. Though my mom didn't know the words, she did her best to sing along to "Sinterklaas Kapoentje" and it always cracked me up. Visiting Macy's was the perfect culmination of our holiday tradition and remains one of my most treasured memories. "Miracle on 34th Street" continues to hold a special place in my heart, not just as a classic film, but as a symbol of the enduring bond between my mom and me.
Thursday, November 21, 2024
Memories of the Past: Christmas Tree Farms & Finding the Perfect Christmas Tree
Thanksgiving was a special time for my family, not only because of my mom's delicious Thanksgiving meal and her wonderful treats but also because it marked the beginning of our search for the perfect Christmas tree. My dad was adamant about having a real tree, detesting the thought of an artificial one. My grandmother had a silver aluminum tree with a color wheel that I was fascinated with, but my dad believed that the smell, look, and feel of a real tree could never be replicated. Of course, he never saw the two stunning artificial trees I own now, but artificial trees back then weren't made like they are today.
Our Thanksgiving dinner was typically served around lunchtime, and by dinner, we were making plates from the massive amount of leftovers. After our first "feeding," we would hang out watching TV for an hour or so before getting ready to head out to a Christmas tree farm. In Mobile, Alabama, my dad's favorite Christmas tree farm was Ramsey Farms in Grand Bay, though we sometimes ventured to one on Repoll Road. When we moved to Florida, Whispering Pines became our regular tree farm.
At the farm, my dad would park the car, grab a saw from an employee, and we would head out to the fields. We all had different ideas of the perfect tree. My sister liked them perfectly shaped, I preferred them tall, and my mom wanted them full enough to hold all our ornaments. Initially, I was enthusiastic about the selection process, but as time wore on, the temperature dropped, and the winds picked up, I became less interested. Eventually, I would have agreed to a tumbleweed. My dad's decision was final once he checked the base of the tree trunk to ensure it would fit into our stand and be easily watered. He would then saw the tree down himself because, in his words, why pay someone else to do it?
Tree farms provided more than just trees; they offered a full holiday experience. Unlike the pre-cut trees sold in parking lots, which often looked out of place, tree farms made the experience special. Sometimes Santa and Mrs. Claus were there, and one year, the farm had actual deer and animals associated with Nativity scenes, like donkeys and sheep. Every tree farm had crafts, wreaths, and Christmas-scented items for sale. Christmas-related food and beverages, such as cookies, sweets, apple cider, and my favorite, hot chocolate, were also readily available. My mom would usually walk with my sister and I to the refreshment stand to buy hot chocolate for the three of us while my dad cut down the tree.
Once we got our tree home, my dad would drill a hole into the middle of the trunk before putting it in the tree stand and setting it up in the living room. My favorite part of Christmas trees was always the lights. My parents had strands of mini colored lights with reflectors for years before switching to clear lights when I was in the 8th grade. I much preferred the colored lights, often laying on the floor with my head under the tree, squinting at the blue lights, which I thought were the prettiest. I didn't care if we had ornaments; the lights were enough for me. We would spend a few hours decorating the tree, and my mom would put the finishing touches on it after my sister and I went to bed.
I can't say we ever had an ugly Christmas tree, though a couple shed quickly and others had bare spots that went unnoticed until we set it up. My parents would turn the tree so the bare spot wouldn't be visible. Since leaving home, I've continued the live tree tradition for many years, even buying one for my friend Erik's apartment in New York when I was 16. In the early 2000s, Terry and I found a 9-foot artificial tree that looked as if it had been grown and cut rather than assembled in a factory. We used it for many years until I found a shorter pre-lit tree under the Martha Stewart brand that could be assembled in less than 10 minutes.
Terry and I used to decorate for Christmas on Thanksgiving, but over the years, our decoration schedule shifted earlier and earlier, usually a week or two before Thanksgiving. This allowed us to relax and enjoy Thanksgiving without stressing over decorations. The tradition of finding and decorating the perfect Christmas tree remains a cherished memory, full of warmth, love, and holiday spirit.
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