A random chapter from my Book: October 1992 Navigating High School Drama in Pace 2.0

An AI rendering of one of my outfits though my hair was different.

I thought I would share a chapter from the original draft of my book. I hope you enjoy a peek into the story of my life 32 years ago which has progressively been written and rewritten over the years. This chapter is drawn from my favorite version of my book.

OCTOBER 1992

The month of October was pretty much a blur. I remember being excited to be back in Pace, but in hindsight, my excitement was clouded but I needed to heal from my encounter with Richard Rogers and I knew I needed to conceal my wound so no one would freak out. When I arrived at the Pensacola airport after a flight from La Guardia with a layover in Nashville, I was thrilled to see my mom, sister, and dad, even though my dad had only driven over from Mobile to stay a few minutes, just to make sure I got home safe. It was hot and my mock turtleneck t-shirt was causing me to sweat. One would have expected we go to a restaurant to catch up as a family but once we all said our hellos, I was in my mom's car on the way to her house.

Mama hadn't made any haste in getting my 11th-grade enrollment sorted out, despite me already missing over a month of school. I arrived in Pace on a Monday, and by the next Monday, with just the clothes I brought with me, a bunch of mock turtleneck shirts from the Gap, my friend Todd's blazer I wore when I met Tom a few nights before, Hugo Boss and Gap jeans and my black Nike Airs, I looked totally out of place, especially with my long hair that I pulled back from the sides into a tight ponytail, she dropped me off at Pace High School. Spending a week in mama's little cottage-style apartment, sleeping on her couch, wasn't at all a vacation or a good space to heal. By midweek, I was already bored. I looked forward to being the out-of-the-closet GBF to every girl in school and hoped to reconnect with some old tricks and friends, especially TK.

I was given a locker, but before I could get my class schedule, I had to meet a guidance counselor, one of the deans, the resource officer, and the principal, all at different times. In hindsight, I realize this was a scare tactic to make me leave. The dean, Miss Holland, basically told me to cut my hair, blend in, and butch it up. Ironically, she was more butch than most of the men on staff. The resource officer, Mike something, seemed more interested in a situation from the year before involving my best friend Charlie and a missing walkie-talkie than in helping me get back in the groove. I knew where the walkie was but snitches get stitches. The guidance counselor wasn't even my grade's counselor but knew me from previous years and was known for handling "problems" like pregnancies and drug addiction, often suggesting students quit Pace and get a GED over at Vo-Tech. It all seemed a set up but low key to what was to come.

Finally, I met with the principal, Frank Lay, who was known for his religious sermons disguised as motivational talks. While he spoke at me (not to me), I was more focused on the long nose hair that blended into his mustache. His talk was a recap of what I'd already heard but with less tact. He stuttered over the words "ho-ho-homo-homosexual behavior will not be tolerated," while I couldn't help but think about his own daughter who seemed like she may be batting for the same team in spite of her carrying around a huge designer purse.

By the end of the morning, I had my class schedule and realized I was back with some of the same teachers who tormented me during my previous years, including Coach Kent Smith. They also put me in Mrs. Parker's Chorus class, which I knew would be miserable since I hadn't been into choir since 5th grade. I was not an ensemble singer and I expected solos and maybe an orchestra to make this work. I spent most of the day bouncing around, showing up in random classes and avoiding Kent Smith's class by hiding in the restroom and also trying to clean up a bit of the fluid oozing from my neck so it didn't get on or show through my shirt.

I completely disregarded the administration's warnings about my behavior and what I couldn't talk about. When Matt Gaff tried to mock me in one of the few classes I did attend, insinuating I lied about my summer, I blurted out details of my adventures in Atlanta and NYC. I ended up being sent to cool down, in the office for attempting to stand up for myself but what the teacher pegged me with was the fact I was speaking of inappropriate and offensive subjects. It was my truth, I was not ashamed and I survived doing what I did. After getting stabbed by a random weirdo, a tongue lashing from low level high school coaches turned dean and principal seemed pointless to me. I didn't go to the office, I just walked out the door that was closest to the path leading to my mom's house and went home instead, stopping off at the corner store to buy a pack of cigarettes and a Mountain Dew then smoked all the way home. Over the course of the month, I attended school a total of three days, refusing to ride the bus I walked a mile and a half and clashed with everyone in the chorus class because they were either singing too loud, not at all or attempting to sing with fake vibrato. I also hated the music we were singing. I think Mrs. Parker was kind of happy that I didn't stick around because I was in total "diva" mode.

During the month, the only activity my family did to get me out of the house was attend the Pensacola Interstate Fair. After spending the previous months going to Six Flags Over Georgia, Six Flags Great Adventure, and Coney Island, a fair seemed like lowbrow entertainment but it was the first year the new carnival company, Reithoffer Shows, played the fair after the old carnival I grew up seeing at the fair lost their contract. My sister, brother-in-law, mom, dad and I had a blast but the moment we left the fair, we were all split up again and I was laying on my mom's couch, missing my life in New York. I wondered what the other hustlers, bartenders, tricks and my friends were up to and if anyone noticed I was gone.

Halloween made me realize it was time to leave. I missed the hustle and bustle of NYC, Broadway, my freedom, the money and the ability to easily score cocaine. My injury had healed enough to be mostly unnoticeable and my excitement about being back in Pace had faded so there was no sense in sticking around where I felt unwelcome. To the other kids in school, I was still the weird kid that no one took seriously, a freak. On Tuesday, November 3, 1992, the resource officer came to take me to school but I was not having it, he had no grounds to arrest me and his bully tactics were irrelevant. My bag was packed and I had already called a cab. With my return ticket in hand, I walked out of my mom's house and headed to the cab. I was prepared the night before and spent a half hour on the payphone in front of the Piggly Wiggly convincing American Airlines to reinstate my return ticket after using a sob story. With my mom's ATM card in hand, without her knowledge, I was on my way, back to New York City, rested, stronger and more determined to succeed on my own.

Saturday GLOWcase: The GLOWing Journey of Little Feather🪶🌵🌄🔥🌿🎶🐻🌲🏹

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Little Feather entering the ring

In the spirit of National Native American Heritage Month, I am dedicating this week's Saturday GLOWcase to the first "Indian Princess" of GLOW, Little Feather. Admittedly, each time a match was announced featuring any wrestler with "Little" in their name, I would cringe, knowing there would likely be a serious beatdown, as the smaller wrestlers were usually paired up with opponents twice their size. Despite the unfair size advantage, Little Feather always brought her A-game to the ring, showcasing her resilience and skill.

One memorable match was between Little Feather and Ninotchka. Little Feather seemed ready to fight, but Ninotchka, played by Lori Palmer, showed that her character was not as sadistic as everyone thought. Lori brought a lot of humanity to her "bad girl" persona, showing mercy upon Little Feather. This unexpected twist highlighted the complexity of both characters and added depth to the storyline. Little Feather played her character exceptionally well, and despite another "Indian Princess" coming along in seasons 3 and 4, Little Feather's spirit and legacy could not be recreated.

Little Feather's contributions to GLOW were significant, as she represented strength, resilience, and cultural pride. Her character was more than just a wrestler; she was a symbol of empowerment for many viewers. Celebrating her during National Native American Heritage Month is a fitting tribute to her legacy and the impact she made both in and out of the ring.

Just a few months before joining GLOW, she was a homeless teenager living on the streets of Las Vegas, escaping an abusive childhood. She reconnected with Debbie Debutante, with whom she had previously been on the same gymnastics team. During their encounter, Debbie mentioned she was part of a show that needed someone to portray a character called Little Egypt.

When she met with David and Matt, they proposed several ideas for her role. One suggestion was to be a tag team partner for Spanish Red, potentially named Little Red, which she would have enjoyed, particularly being new to professional wrestling. Having a partner would have been advantageous, especially since Spanish Red was such an iconic figure in the ring. Ultimately, they chose Little Feather for her, noting her resemblance to a Native American character as a logical fit given they already had a Hawaiian character.

She was one of the few wrestlers who performed without boots, resulting in a foot injury during practice before the last show of the first season. While executing a monkey toss with Spike, the Heavy Metal Sister, she overshot the landing, resulting in her body weight crushing her foot. Despite the pain, she borrowed boots from one of the Headhunters for the final match featuring Little Egypt and Little Fiji versus the Heavy Metal Sisters.

Following her time with GLOW, she moved to Los Angeles where she pursued stunt work and appeared in minor roles as an extra in various films and TV shows. Her favorite experience was appearing in the graveyard scene with Penguin in "Batman Returns." She also appeared in an indie film called "Sex Crimes" (not a XXX film!) where she participated in a bar fight scene with her younger sister, who stood nearly six feet tall and would have been perfect for GLOW had she been older.

At barely eighteen, she deeply appreciated the perks of living at the Riviera Hotel, especially after experiencing homelessness and starvation. The free buffet and bar tab were especially welcomed, even though she wasn't yet twenty-one. She fondly recalls those times, bringing friends to the hotel, ordering pizza to her room, and signing for drinks like a high roller.

One particularly cherished memory is how she began living at the hotel. She quickly bonded with Sally the Farmer's Daughter and Scarlett the Southern Belle, who invited her to stay in their room when she had just moved out of her apartment and had nowhere to go. Eventually, she was given a room with Palestina, turning their stay into an extended slumber party filled with pillow fights and endless fun. She recently shared that she loves alternative music and fondly recalled Hollywood taking her to her first heavy metal concert, AC/DC.

She expresses immense gratitude to the fans for their continued love and support for GLOW. The show brought together a group of young women chasing their dreams and building lifelong friendships. She's always moved by how GLOW has positively impacted many lives, providing role models and an escape. She is particularly touched by fans who weren't even born when GLOW aired but discovered it through YouTube. The appreciation from fans means the world to her, and she thanks them all for their unwavering support.

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Dancing in the Rain: The Magic of Singin' in the Rain

Singin' in the Rain poster

Remember when your mother used to tell you to come in out of the rain? She probably never realized how much joy Gene Kelly found by both dancing and singing in it. "Singin' in the Rain" is a feel-good classic that combines dance, song, and comedy to tell a delightful story that can make anyone smile, even the grumpiest folks.

The film features the dynamic trio of veterans Gene Kelly and Donald O'Connor alongside the fresh-faced 19-year-old Debbie Reynolds. Their chemistry is undeniable and creates a magical atmosphere throughout the movie. Kelly, who co-directed the film with Stanley Donen, was a true professional – even dancing with a 103-degree fever for the iconic rain scene! His passion and dedication shine through in every step and smile.

"Singin' in the Rain" was produced by Metro-Goldwyn-Mayer (MGM), one of Hollywood's most legendary studios, known for its lavish musicals. The movie's music, composed by Nacio Herb Brown and lyrics by Arthur Freed, features unforgettable tunes like "Good Morning" and "Make 'Em Laugh." The combination of catchy songs, amazing choreography, and hilarious moments makes this film a timeless classic.

For those who enjoyed "Singin' in the Rain," I recommend checking out other musicals like "An American in Paris," "West Side Story," "My Fair Lady," "The Sound of Music," and "Funny Face." These films also blend dance, music, and storytelling to create unforgettable cinematic experiences.

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Navigating the Healthcare Maze: My Current Doctor Visit

Today’s doctor visit was a testament to the complexity of healthcare, even when you’re grateful to have insurance. While it’s a blessing to have coverage, it would be even better if insurance could help cover travel expenses and lost wages too.

I’m currently dealing with a post-operative infection in my ear, despite the antibiotic ear drops prescribed by my doctor. This marks my eighth time undergoing the same procedure, but it's my first time with a T-tube insertion. I messaged the doctor and he mentioned that the infection might be resistant to the antibiotic, which could explain my ongoing symptoms after the procedure this past Thursday.

My frustration peaked when, instead of providing immediate advice to alleviate the pain, pressure, and leakage in my ear, the doctor promised to have someone reach out to schedule a lab culture. Two days later, no one had contacted me. I had to call the advice nurse myself and explain that my equilibrium was so off that walking in a straight line was nearly impossible. The pressure and pain were relentless, and neither Tylenol nor my 800mg Ibuprofen seemed to help.

Scheduling a follow-up appointment proved to be another hurdle. The nearest available slots were in Gwinnett and Kennesaw, both out of my reach transportation-wise. The location near my home is booked until December, which seems outrageous. Are we facing a doctor shortage, or are they just overbooked?

Ultimately, I accepted an early afternoon appointment in Sandy Springs. This means leaving work early, which is a challenge considering I've already exhausted my sick leave for the year. It's frustrating how getting older often means grappling with more health issues and the complications they bring.

Jerry Torre: The Marble Faun of Grey Gardens: A Journey through Life and Art Book Review

A few weeks ago, I posted an account of how I became aware of the film "Grey Gardens" and my recollection of how I realized I had met Jerry a few years after I met him. I recently had the pleasure of reconnected with Jerry Torre and acquired my very own autographed copy of his memoir, "The Marble Faun of Grey Gardens," a fascinating dive into his extraordinary life. Born and raised in Brooklyn, Torre's early years were anything but ordinary. Growing up, he had a difficult childhood filled with hardship and adversity. Despite these challenges, he managed to carve out a unique path for himself, leading to his unexpected journey to Grey Gardens.

Jerry's involvement with Grey Gardens began in the mid-1970s when he was just 16 years old. He stumbled upon the decaying mansion while working as a gardener in the Hamptons. There, he met the reclusive yet charismatic Edith Ewing Bouvier Beale ("Big Edie") and her daughter Edith Bouvier Beale ("Little Edie"), relatives of Jackie Kennedy Onassis. Jerry quickly became a trusted friend and confidant to the Beales, earning the nickname "The Marble Faun" for his youthful appearance and artistic interests. His stories from this period are both enchanting and heartbreaking, offering a rare glimpse into the lives of the Beales and the eerie beauty of Grey Gardens.

In "The Marble Faun of Grey Gardens," Torre paints a vivid picture of his time at the mansion, capturing the eccentric charm and poignant moments shared with the Beales. The memoir also delves into his life beyond Grey Gardens, exploring his journey in the art world and his personal growth. After leaving Grey Gardens, Jerry pursued a career in sculpture, working with renowned artists and eventually becoming an accomplished sculptor in his own right. His artistic talents and resilience are evident throughout the book, making it a captivating read.

"The Marble Faun of Grey Gardens" is an engaging and deeply moving memoir that highlights the power of friendship, resilience, and the pursuit of art. Jerry Torre's story is not only a testament to his unique life but also a tribute to the enduring legacy of Grey Gardens and the Beales. This book is a must-read for anyone interested in memoirs, art, or the fascinating history of Grey Gardens.

If you are interested in purchasing a personalized autographed copy of Jerry's book, contact him through his Facebook page and I'm sure he will be more than happy to oblige.

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Revitalizing Rylee Apothecary: New Soaps and Expanding into Candles

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KISSWORLD: A Rock 'n' Roll Journey Through Time"

The album "KISSWORLD" by KISS is an absolute treat for rock fans. It compiles some of the band's biggest hits and fan favorites, taking listeners on a nostalgic journey through their iconic career. From the electrifying "Rock and Roll All Nite" to the anthemic "Detroit Rock City," this album captures the essence of KISS's rock 'n' roll spirit. Each track brings back memories of wild stage performances, larger-than-life personas, and the raw energy that made KISS a household name.

One thing that stands out about "KISSWORLD" is its perfect mix of well-known classics and lesser-known gems. It doesn't just stick to the hits everyone knows; it dives deeper into the band's extensive catalog, offering a well-rounded listening experience. Songs like "God of Thunder" and "Shout It Out Loud" remind us why KISS is so beloved by rock enthusiasts. The album not only showcases their musical talent but also their ability to connect with fans on a personal level.

The members of KISS, including Gene Simmons, Paul Stanley, Ace Frehley, and Peter Criss, each bring their unique flair to the album. Their chemistry and dedication to their craft are evident in every song. The production quality is top-notch, thanks to the efforts of their record label, Universal Music Group, ensuring that both new and old fans can appreciate the timeless quality of these tracks.

"KISSWORLD" is a must-have for any KISS fan or rock music lover. It's a celebration of the band's incredible journey and lasting impact on the music industry. Whether you're rocking out to the classics or discovering some hidden gems for the first time, this album delivers a fantastic listening experience that will have you playing it on repeat.

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Childhood Sleepovers: Friday Nights At Aunt Joan's House

Back when my sister and I were too young to stay home alone, we were always dropped off at Aunt Joan's whenever my parents went out for the evening, usually to the Mobile Greyhound Park. I never understood their fascination with the dog track, but I always looked forward to spending the night at Aunt Joan's house. She knew how to make sleepovers special for me. As long as she had plenty of Coca-Cola and potato chips, I was set.

When we arrived, Aunt Joan and her daughters would usually be putting the finishing touches on dinner. It was often fried chicken or pork chops, accompanied by fried okra or fried squash, cornbread or biscuits, and fresh peas or beans from Joan's fields, all served with a big glass of sweet tea. My mom's cooking was hit or miss, aside from a few dishes she did well, so Aunt Joan's meals were always a treat. Her fabulous country cooking filled the void.

Aunt Joan was one of the most special people I've ever met, showing unconditional love for her kids, siblings, and their kids. Growing up, I often wished my mom could be more like Joan, especially when it came to cooking. We were a close-knit family back in the day, despite some unfortunate incidents involving unruly family members. I'll touch on those stories, including holiday brawls, in future posts.

After dinner, we kids would hang out on the patio, play in the fields, or jump on the trampoline. Being the smallest, I mostly got bounced around by everyone else. We had free rein of the 13-acre property, except for the swampy area known as "The Branch," which was off-limits due to snakes and other dangers. As night fell, we'd take turns in the two bathrooms. I can still remember the smell of Aunt Joan's soap, similar to Coast Pacific Force. Once clean, we’d head to the den, a large, cozy room with minimal light, a TV in the corner, a fireplace, a huge console stereo, and a Fun Machine Organ. We’d make pallets on the floor with blankets and pillows, play board games, and watch TV with an endless supply of chips and soda. Friday nights were all about watching "Dallas," to see JR’s next move and if Sue Ellen could stay sober for an episode.

At some point, Aunt Joan would bring out the pickles—her bread and butter pickles were the absolute best. She grew her own vegetables and preserved them, filling a small room with mason jars of pickles, blackberry jelly, and other goodies. I wasn't big on veggies back then, but at Aunt Joan's, everything was delicious. By 11 PM, I’d usually pass out watching TV, except for one memorable time when my cousin Lynda’s hamster, Herman, escaped. Waking up to my sister and cousins trying to catch Herman was quite the adventure.

The next morning, I'd wake up to the smell of bacon or sausage and eggs, signaling that mom and dad would be picking us up soon. Those mornings always passed too quickly. When my mom arrived, she never asked how our night was—probably because she didn’t want to hear how much more fun we had at Aunt Joan's compared to home. Our routine at home was similar, minus the den, soda, chips, great food, pickles, and the occasional hamster on the loose.

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Making the Right Choice: A Call for Empathy and Understanding in the Upcoming Election

I try not to share my political views often. As the upcoming election approaches, I find myself reflecting on the importance of making the right choice—not just for ourselves, but for the safety and well-being of LGBTQ+ individuals like me. Although I may be a high school dropout, I have always had keen observation skills. Growing up in an area heavily influenced by the mentality that could be seen during the J6 events, I witnessed firsthand how many of my classmates seemed to always get excited when it came to our teachers admitting they voted George Bush back in the 1980s. Many of these same individuals as adults voted for the last president as well as Matt Gaetz, as it is his district. I understand cult-like political behavior, not because I was born into it, but because I was thrust into it when my family moved to that part of Florida. As an outsider, I could see what motivated individuals who unknowingly vote against their own best interests.

I can still hear the sound of his voice 32 years later

Having been subjected to abuse from people who hide behind a biblical or political facade, it's important to recognize that many criminals, including preachers, congressmen, and senators (Lindsey Graham, I remember you), use religion and political views to solicit children or engage in other harmful activities. I make no secret of the fact that during my time as a homeless teenage runaway, I made money in ways that many people would cringe at just thinking about. Often, I found myself propositioned and haggling prices with individuals who, in their public professional lives, used their positions of power to manipulate and control, all while masking their true intentions. It's crucial that we don't let beliefs of bigotry passed down from previous generations and immediate surroundings cloud our judgment. We need to focus on what we can do for others rather than what one man can do for himself and those who scratch his back to enrich themselves.

Let's bring empathy and understanding back to our nation. We need to make choices that protect and uplift everyone, regardless of their background or identity. Use your vote, not to make a statement, but for the interest of a brighter future for us all. It's time to stop electing criminals and start electing leaders who genuinely care about the well-being of their constituents. Together, we can create a more inclusive and compassionate society. If anyone would like to write me in as their congressman, I would be more than willing to move to your district. ;-)

Saturday GLOWcase: Remembering Matilda The Unforgettable GLOW Villain

Deanna Booher as Matilda the Hun

Matilda's journey began with her friend Golden Kat (Charli Haynes) introducing her to the GLOW auditions. They were apartment-style wrestling buddies and did everything together. The idea of a television show combining comedy, music, and wrestling was a dream come true. Matt Cimber, the show's director, appreciated Deanna's creativity and excitement. She even contributed her "Raw Meat" song to the pilot.

Deanna's Book GLAMAZON Queen Kong

In Vegas, Deanna met all the original girls, including Tina Ferrari and Tammy Jones. Pepper, also known as Princess Jasmine, was their trainer. The pilot was a huge success at the NATPE television convention in New Orleans, securing funding for the first season. Auditions in LA brought in Fiji, leading to some debates over the show's image, but Matt knew the diverse cast was key to its success. The team trained and lived at the “classy” Riviera Hotel.

Matilda's wrestling persona, crafted by Matt, was born with a German accent, making her seem more evil. Her background as a professional dominatrix helped shape her fearsome yet humorous character. Inspired by Lynda Carter's Wonder Woman and Maureen O'Hara, Matilda blended fearsome and funny, priding herself on never actually harming anyone and being a skilled storyteller.

Despite the show's success, frustrations grew over injuries and management issues. After two seasons and the prospect of being sold to the Harlem Globetrotters, Matilda and others left GLOW for the newly formed POWW. Legal disputes with GLOW made it hard to succeed, but they had a great cast and some success. Deanna eventually returned to the fetish business, starting slam-o-grams, and pursued Hollywood auditions, appearing on shows like "Mama's Family" and "Married with Children."

Unfortunately, lifting men for slam-o-grams took a toll on her health, and Matilda had to let go of Hollywood and slam-o-grams. She focused on producing and directing, hiring other girls. I had the pleasure of meeting Deanna in 2016 and have to say that she was as funny in person as she was on TV and super sweet and very warm and generous. Matilda passed away on January 7, 2022, but her legacy as an unforgettable GLOW villain, and her impact on wrestling and entertainment remain cherished.

A heartfelt thank you goes out to Hollywood, Jeanne Basone, for her invaluable help with this tribute to Matilda Deanna Booher. Hollywood was not only one of Matilda's co-stars during their time together on GLOW, but she also remained a loyal and loving friend to Matilda until her passing. Hollywood's unwavering support and friendship are a testament to the strong bonds formed within the GLOW family. Much love and appreciation to you, Hollywood, for your kindness and dedication.

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Gone But Not Forgotten: Rocking the Norwegian Breakaway: "Rock of Ages"

If you thought that cruise ship shows were basically souped up versions of amusement park productions, think again. For many years, the high-energy, rock 'n' roll experience, the "Rock of Ages" production on the Norwegian Breakaway was where it was. The show transports you to the wild 80s with its classic rock hits, big hair, and even bigger personalities. From the moment the lights dimmed and the guitarist walks on stage to rock out a killer solo before the real music starts, you know you are in for a ride through one of the most fun and nostalgic musical journeys.

The first time I saw the Breakaway production, during my cruise from New York to the Bahamas in 2018, I was blown away by the talent of the cast but unfortunately, I had no idea what any of their names were. The sad part of the Norwegian productions was the fact they didn't distribute cast lists or post the names of the cast members in a conspicuous place. I found out on the cruise I took the following year there was a monitor near the box office that showed the names, headshots and bios of the main performers. The 2018 cast brought so much energy to the stage, making you feel like you were right there in the heart of the 80s rock scene. The lead performers nailed their roles, belting out anthems like "Don't Stop Believin'" and "Here I Go Again" with such passion. It was impossible not to sing along and get caught up in the excitement. The choreography was tight, and the costumes perfectly captured the era's flamboyant style.

The following year, I took photos of the box office monitor featuring the cast so I could look them up and try and follow their rising stardom. Sherrie, played by Emily Griffiths was AMAZING and Drew, played by her real like boyfriend at the time, Tommy McGowan had perfect chemistry with Miss Griffiths. The standout for me though was our Lonny Barnett played by Shaun Espedido, he was hilarious, his vocals sat exactly where they needed to be, sounding natural and effortless with the iconic musical numbers he presented, his acting was spot on and he was also super cute for those of us who crushed on the rockers of the 1980s. Speaking of hot rockers, Joshua Woodie as Stacee Jaxx left everyone wanting more. Each time I saw the show during the 2019 cruise, at the point in the show where his character splashes his "vodka" in the audience, I was in the lucky seat where most of it ended up. The rest of the cast was solid and made me wish the show featured the full score as it was presented on Broadway and National Tour rather than the abbreviated 90 minute version. Speaking of the Broadway production, Norwegian didn't scrimp when it came to recreating the show, the set and costuming were almost exactly as it was in New York.

Emily Griffiths as Sherrie

The story is a delightful mix of love, dreams, and rock 'n' roll, set against the backdrop of LA's Sunset Strip. The humor is spot on, with plenty of laugh-out-loud moments that keep the show light and entertaining. The production design is top-notch, with impressive sets and lighting that add to the overall immersive experience. It's clear that no detail was overlooked, and the result is a show that's both visually and musically spectacular. Unfortunately, this fantastic production closed to make way for "Six," another highly acclaimed musical.

If you enjoyed the "Rock of Ages" movie or are a fan of 80s rock music, you will love this production. It's an exhilarating show that captures the spirit of the era and leaves you wanting more. The cast recording is a great way to relive the experience and keep the rock 'n' roll vibes going long after the curtain falls. So grab your friends, your best rock gear, and get ready to rock out on the Norwegian Breakaway!

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"Stephen King's 'Fairy Tale' - A thrilling fantasy novel about a teenager who discovers a magical world and battles dark forces."

Stephen King's Fairy Tale

"Fairy Tale" by Stephen King is a captivating blend of fantasy and horror, though in a light sense, that takes readers on an unexpected journey. The story follows Charlie Reade, a high school senior who inherits a magical portal from his reclusive neighbor, Howard Bowditch. As Charlie navigates this new world filled with dark forces and epic battles, he grapples with themes of courage, friendship, and the power of good versus evil. King's masterful storytelling and rich character development make this novel a thrilling and heartfelt adventure that will keep readers on the edge of their seats.

King's ability to create vivid, immersive worlds shines in "Fairy Tale." The magical realm Charlie discovers is filled with intricate details and compelling characters that draw readers in from the start. The narrative is both enchanting and chilling, with moments of levity and warmth balanced by the darker, more sinister elements that King is known for. Charlie's journey is not just a physical one but also an emotional and psychological exploration of his own strengths and vulnerabilities.

One of the standout aspects of "Fairy Tale" is how King seamlessly blends elements of classic fairy tales with his signature horror style. The story feels both familiar and entirely new, as King pays homage to the timeless themes of good versus evil, bravery, and sacrifice while infusing the narrative with his unique voice. The result is a book that feels both timeless and contemporary, offering readers a fresh take on the fantasy genre.

Overall, "Fairy Tale" is a must-read for fans of Stephen King and anyone who loves a good fantasy adventure. It's a story that lingers long after the final page, leaving readers pondering the nature of heroism, the power of storytelling, and the magic that exists in the world around us. If you're looking for a book that will transport you to another world and keep you hooked from beginning to end, "Fairy Tale" is definitely worth picking up.

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The Fascinating World of 1970: A Retro Journey 6 Years Before I Was Born

I wasn't born yet in 1970, but it was the year my sister Becki was born, and I have always been fascinated by the past. Growing up, I developed a love for all things retro and found myself drawn to the history and culture of eras gone by. 1970, seems to be a remarkable year filled with significant events, unique trends, and unforgettable moments. Let's take a trip down memory lane and explore what life was like in 1970, a half a decade before I was born.

The cost of living in 1970 was quite different from today. The median yearly income for all families was $9,867, and the minimum wage was $1.60 per hour. The median cost of a new home was $23,400, and a postage stamp was just $0.06. Gasoline cost $0.36 per gallon, and everyday items like VO5 shampoo (15 oz.) were $0.99, Kleenex (200 ct.) was $0.25, and margarine (1 pound) was $0.39. Pork chops (1 pound) cost $0.79, a movie ticket was $1.55, and an ounce of gold was valued at $37.44.

The year was filled with significant news events. In February, the five-month trial of the Chicago Seven ended with all seven acquitted of criminal conspiracy, though five were found guilty of crossing state lines to incite a riot. In March, New York postal workers went on an eight-day strike, resulting in collective bargaining rights and increased wages. April saw the explosion of an oxygen tank on Apollo 13, leading to a miraculous return to Earth for the crew led by Jim Lovell. Americans celebrated the first Earth Day in April, founded by Wisconsin Senator Gaylord Nelson. President Richard Nixon authorized U.S. troops to cross the border into Cambodia. In July, British soldiers enforced a curfew in Northern Ireland following clashes with the IRA. September witnessed Palestinian militants hijacking planes, triggering the Black September conflict. Finally, in November, Pope Paul VI survived an assassination attempt during his visit to the Philippines.

In 1970, Richard Nixon was the President of the United States, with Spiro Agnew serving as Vice President. The U.S. population was approximately 205.1 million, while the world population was around 3.7 billion.

The Isle of Wight Festival, Europe's answer to Woodstock, took place for the final time until 2002, featuring performances by Jimi Hendrix and other legendary artists. Tragically, Hendrix died of an accidental drug overdose shortly after the festival, followed by Janis Joplin's death the next month. Both were just 27 years old. The Doors' lead singer Jim Morrison faced legal troubles and was sentenced to six months in jail for indecent exposure and profanity during a Miami concert, but he died the following year before serving his sentence.

In sports, umpires went on strike for the first time in Major League Baseball history, and Patricia Palinkas became the first woman to play in a professional football game. The New York Times pioneered its op-ed page, and Simon & Garfunkel released their final studio album, "Bridge Over Troubled Water," before breaking up.

The 1970-1971 TV season featured popular shows like "Marcus Welby, M.D.," "The Flip Wilson Show," "Here's Lucy," "Ironside," "Gunsmoke," "ABC Movie of the Week," "Hawaii Five-O," "Medical Center," "Bonanza," and "The FBI." Notable series premieres included "All My Children," "McCloud," "The Flip Wilson Show," "The Mary Tyler Moore Show," "Dan August," "Make Room for Granddaddy," "The Odd Couple," and "The Partridge Family."

In 1970, several beloved TV shows came to an end. On March 13, "The Ghost & Mrs. Muir" concluded on ABC, having initially premiered in 1968 on NBC. "Land of the Giants," which also premiered in 1968, aired its final episode on ABC on March 22. "The Flying Nun," a show that began in 1967, wrapped up on April 3 on ABC. The long-running "Petticoat Junction," which debuted in 1963, ended its run on CBS on April 4. "Dragnet 1967," which started in 1967, concluded on NBC on April 16. The adventure series "Daniel Boone," which began in 1964, ended on NBC on May 7. The spy comedy "Get Smart," originally airing on NBC in 1965 before moving to CBS, had its final episode on May 15. Lastly, the magical sitcom "I Dream of Jeannie," which also premiered on NBC in 1965, concluded on May 26.

Some of the popular movies of 1970 included "Airport," "Catch-22," "M*A*S*H," "Ryan's Daughter," "Love Story," and "Tora! Tora! Tora!" The Oscar winners for movies released in 1970 included "Patton" for Best Picture, George C. Scott for Best Actor in "Patton" (though he refused the award), Glenda Jackson for Best Actress in "Women in Love," John Mills for Best Supporting Actor in "Ryan's Daughter," Helen Hayes for Best Supporting Actress in "Airport," and Franklin J. Schaffner for Best Director in "Patton."

The Baltimore Orioles won the World Series, while the Baltimore Colts were the Super Bowl V champions (determined in January 1971). The New York Knicks were the NBA champions, and the Boston Bruins won the Stanley Cup. Other notable sports achievements included Nebraska Cornhuskers winning the NCAA Football Championship, Billy Casper winning The Masters Tournament, and Jim Plunkett receiving the Heisman Trophy.

Some of the top Billboard hits of 1970 included 

"Bridge Over Troubled Water" by Simon & Garfunkel
"(They Long to Be) Close to You" by The Carpenters
"American Woman/No Sugar Tonight" by The Guess Who
"Raindrops Keep Fallin' on My Head" by B.J. Thomas
"War" by Edwin Starr
"Ain't No Mountain High Enough" by Diana Ross
"I'll Be There" by The Jackson 5
"Get Ready" by Rare Earth
"Let It Be" by The Beatles.

Popular books of the year included 

"Love Story" by Erich Sega
"The French Lieutenant's Woman" by John Fowles
"The Godfather" by Mario Puzo
"Are You There God? It's Me, Margaret." by Judy Blume
"Jonathan Livingston Seagull" by Richard Bach
 "The Bluest Eye" by Toni Morrison
"Ringworld" by Larry Niven
"Fantastic Mr. Fox" by Roald Dahl
"Bury My Heart at Wounded Knee: An Indian History of the American West" by Dee Brown.

Popular toys in 1970 included the Mystery Date game, G.I. Joe, Tonka trucks, Karate Robots, Hoppity Hop, Walkie-talkies, Aurora cars, and Betsy Wetsy dolls. 

Popular cars of the year included the Chevrolet Camaro, Ford Mustang, Mercury Cougar Eliminator, Dodge Charger, Plymouth Barracuda, Pontiac Grand Prix, Chevrolet Corvette, Ford Torino, and Pontiac GTO.

The year 1970 saw the birth of many notable personalities. Skeet Ulrich was born on January 20th, followed by Minnie Driver on January 31st. March brought the births of Julie Bowen on the 3rd, Rachel Weisz on the 7th, and Mariah Carey on the 27th. Queen Latifah arrived on March 18th, and Vince Vaughn on March 28th. May celebrated the births of Will Arnett on the 4th and Tina Fey on the 18th. June welcomed Leah Remini on the 15th and Nick Offerman on the 26th. In August, Anthony Anderson was born on the 15th and Melissa McCarthy on the 26th. October saw the birth of Matt Damon on the 8th, and December welcomed Jennifer Connelly on the 12th.

The year 1970 also saw the passing of several notable figures. Bertrand Russell died on February 2nd, followed by Alfred Newman on February 17th. March brought the deaths of William Hopper on the 6th and Erle Stanley Gardner on the 11th. On April 28th, Ed Begley passed away, and on May 14th, Billie Burke died. June saw the loss of E.M. Forster on the 7th and Abraham Maslow on the 8th. Preston Foster passed away on July 14th. In September, the world lost Vince Lombardi on the 3rd, Jimi Hendrix on the 18th, and Erich Maria Remarque on the 25th. Janis Joplin died on October 4th. Charles de Gaulle passed away on November 9th, followed by Rube Goldberg on December 7th and Sonny Liston on December 30th.

On the Newsstand
Robert Redford lassoes his way to stardom following his turn in Butch Cassidy and the Sundance Kid. Life, Feb. 6, 1970 
The Ohio National Guard opens fire on student anti-war protesters at Kent State University, killing four. Life, May 15, 1970 
"Masters of Sex" William Masters and Virginia Johnson continue their groundbreaking sexuality studies with the publication of Human Sexual Inadequacy. Time, May 25, 1970 
Fans are quick to blame Yoko Ono for the Beatles' split. Hit Parader, August 1970

Jonathan Frank's "Sleeping in the Arms of Love" Album Review

Jonathan Frank, Sleeping in the Arms of Love

Jonathan Frank's "Sleeping in the Arms of Love," released in 2000, is a captivating blend of pop and cabaret, perfect for cozy evenings. The album features Frank's smooth vocals accompanied by a 23-piece orchestra, creating a rich and lush soundscape. With contributions from some of Los Angeles and New York's finest songwriters, such as Francesca Blumenthal and Amanda McBroom, the album effortlessly bridges the gap between familiar classics and fresh new compositions.

What stands out about this album is its ability to transport you to a different time and place. Frank's voice has a warm, comforting quality that makes you feel like you're wrapped in a cozy blanket. The orchestration is top-notch, adding depth and emotion to each song. Whether it's a lively tune or a slow ballad, Frank's delivery is consistently engaging and heartfelt from start to finish.

Overall, "Sleeping in the Arms of Love" is an underrated hidden gem that deserves more recognition. It's the perfect listen for anyone who enjoys a mix of pop and cabaret. This album will undoubtedly leave listeners with a smile on their face and wanting more. If you're looking for something delightful and new to add to your playlist, Jonathan Frank's "Sleeping in the Arms of Love" is definitely worth a listen.

Given the fact that this album is now out of print and unavailable from anywhere but third party sellers, Jonathan has given me permission to share a digital edition of his album on my blog. I hope you enjoy this great album as much as I do.

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Much love to Jonathan. Every time I hear your voice, I can't help but smile. Very grateful for your friendship.

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Defunct Heavenly Ham Tuna Salad Recipe, as close as you can get

In the past, I've shared recipes from the old ham store where I used to work, Heavenly Ham. Since recipes use common ingredients and aren't protected by copyright, and because Heavenly Ham didn't have proprietary formulas, it's all fair game. Heavenly Ham closed its doors years ago, and though Honey Baked Ham acquired the properties, they didn't continue using the original recipes for some of the amazing fixings Heavenly Ham offered. I worked there long enough to learn every aspect of the business, including all the ingredients, to the point where I could walk in and prep salads and the sandwich station by muscle memory.

Since sharing the Heavenly Ham recipes for both Turkey Salad and Ham Salad, or at least as close as you can get with items easily acquired from most grocery stores, I have received requests for the Potato Salad, Pasta Salad, Chicken Salad, and Tuna Salad recipes offered by Heavenly Ham. This one is all about tuna. While I didn't care much for Heavenly Ham's Tuna Salad because I prefer chopped pickles or relish and hard-boiled eggs in my tuna, it was a breeze to make due to the few ingredients. We made ours in large batches that wouldn't freeze well, and I wouldn't recommend storing it in the refrigerator for more than five days.

Here’s the recipe:
2 cans of tuna in water, drained
1 tablespoon of dried chopped scallions
1 teaspoon of lemon-dill seasoning
1/2 teaspoon of white pepper
1/2 cup of mayo (add more if it’s too dry for you, but wait until everything is blended to make that call)

Stir, refrigerate, and enjoy up to five days. Don't forget a slice of Havarti cheese, which was the cheese we used in the late 1990s. If you don't have or can't find lemon-dill seasoning, you can use dried dill and lemon pepper seasoning, but forgo the white pepper since lemon pepper already contains pepper. I've heard that some of the franchised locations used different recipes, but this was the one we used at the Buckhead location and taught franchise owners. If you're interested in the other Heavenly Ham salad recipes, I only have one more to share—Pasta Salad—since I don't remember how to make the official chicken salad. I blocked that memory out because it contained grapes, and I don't like chicken salad with grapes. The potato salad wasn't made in the store; it was actually Reser's Deviled Egg Potato Salad scooped from a carton and repacked into plastic containers.

Years of Navigating Medical Challenges: A Year of Issues in Review

I've tried to keep most of my posts positive, but since this blog is about things I love and elements of my life, it can't always be cheerful. So, here I am, sitting at Kaiser Permanente, waiting for Terry as he gets the first of two lumbar facet nerve block diagnostics. Hopefully, this will lead to lumbar ablation and some relief from his years of pain.

Last year, I injured my back at work. Even though I like my job, Georgia's workers' comp laws aren't the best. I've endured pain while receiving treatment and working my normal schedule. I had similar procedures done and they offered a lot of relief, but I feel like I'm due for another round of ablation as the pain is starting to creep back.

This past year has been a medical nightmare for both Terry and me. If it wasn’t our backs, it was something else. I've struggled with weight loss for years. Over 20 years ago, I was diagnosed with hypothyroidism and low testosterone, but I lost my insurance when I was laid off. Working in restaurants and hotels meant no insurance, so I couldn't get treatment. Med-Afford clinic in Fayetteville has been a lifesaver, helping me with blood pressure, ear infections, and sleep issues. Terry’s been lucky with continuous insurance coverage.

For my back issues, workers' comp covers the costs, but everything else falls under my regular insurance. My work plan is decent, with lots of preventative care covered and a low deductible. But, as I sit here, I'm thinking about the past few months. Respiratory issues from the chlorine plume at the BioLab fire in Rockdale led to pharyngitis and a middle ear infection. This Thursday, I’m having my 7th myringotomy.

My ears have always been a struggle for me. I’ve dealt with ear infections as far back as I can remember. An old doctor my parents took me to for the typical "swimmer’s ear" sort of infection told my mom to put alcohol in my ears when they bothered me. So that's what she did, not realizing that not all ear infections are the same. Most of my issues were middle ear infections, and as noble as my mom’s efforts were with the alcohol drops, it couldn’t treat an infection on the other side of my eardrum.

My first-grade picture shows bags under my eyes because I spent most nights with my head on my mom's heating pad, trying to alleviate the pain and pressure from my left ear. Despite the colds, flu, and ear infections that followed, I had perfect attendance throughout my elementary school years. My mom eventually took me to a doctor who recommended a myringotomy in his office but warned that he wasn’t an ENT, so there was a chance I could go deaf. He suggested a specialist for a second opinion.

This was one of the rare times our family had insurance through my dad’s job. When my mom discussed it with my dad, he thought the doctor didn’t seem confident, but both of them were hesitant to seek a second opinion, fearing the original doctor would get mad. This was a thing for my parents—they firmly believed seeking a second opinion could be upsetting if the doctor found out. They didn't realize how crucial a second opinion could be.

Despite their reluctance, my middle ear infections would eventually resolve themselves, although they were particularly tough when I was working as an actor or singer. Not getting proper treatment earlier damaged the nerves and bones in my left ear, leaving me with only 5% hearing in that ear. Luckily, my right ear functions well, and I can rely on it. If only my parents had understood the importance of second opinions back then.

Eventually, I got a myringotomy, which helped for years, but I lost most of my hearing in my left ear due to untreated infections. Luckily, my right ear is mostly fine though I have had a few middle ear infections in it also. Recently, I got my testosterone levels tested again and I finally saw the specialist and I am now on testosterone therapy, currently on 2 pumps of gel a day and within a week or so I noticed a difference in energy as well as other things higher levels of testosterone bring 🍆💦💦💦 if you catch my drift.

Despite good insurance, co-pays and co-insurance add up, especially with taking time off for doctor's visits. Taking time off work for both my own doctor visits and Terry's has really eaten into my paychecks, thanks to using up all my sick time throughout the year. I'm determined, after this week, to be that person who shows up to work no matter what's going on. But trying to line up doctor visits on my only weekday off, Monday, is a real challenge.

One of the coolest things in modern medicine is the ability to do virtual and e-visits. Up until a few months ago, I had never done one, but I've had three over the past month: one with a specialist, another at 3:00 AM, and the third at 4:30 AM just before heading into work. I saw my parents struggle with their health when they were my age, and I vowed never to get that way. Here I am now, but luckily, access to medical resources has become a bit easier, depending on your insurance situation.

I really appreciate having Kaiser for insurance, especially with a few full-scale facilities near my house. They function like a factory assembly line: see the doctor, get labs done, and pick up meds at the pharmacy on the way out the door—no need to go anywhere else. I just wish they could cover time lost at work. I vowed never to let my health get as bad as my parents' did, and I'm grateful for easier access to medical resources.

So, that's what's been going on and those are my thoughts for the day. Sorry, nothing too exciting to report today though in a couple of hours, I'll share something a little more lighter.