Monday, December 16, 2024

A New York Holiday: An Unexpected Date and 'Home Alone 2' Adventure 1992

Home Alone 2 Lost In New York

This story is part of a chapter from my book. It recounts a sweet moment during a time when I wasn't getting along with Erik, who was more of a friend but sort of my boyfriend. In this story, I meet a random man in an arcade, lie to him about being stood up by a blind date and he steps in as my date for the night. I hope you enjoy this story as much as I enjoyed living and reliving the moment while writing it.

In December of 1992, I found myself in the heart of New York City, a place brimming with holiday magic and bustling energy. Amidst the bright lights of Times Square, I was on my own, in my own personal Winter Wonderland. While playing pinball at the Playland Arcade, an older gentleman kept coming over to watch me play and try to converse. I had no clients for the night and wasn’t interested in hanging out at bars or doing any sort of "work," so I told him I was there for a blind date who never showed.

I had seen this man around the village a few times. My crackhead friend Tim had even smooched at him once as we passed by him on the street. While he wasn’t the best-looking guy in the village, he was attractive and seemed nice. He asked what my date and I were supposed to do, and I told him we were meeting at McDonald's and then heading to the Loew’s movie theater to watch "Home Alone 2." I don’t know what possessed me to share a bit of the story about seeing the first movie with my mom during a time when we weren’t getting along well, but he listened.

Though not exactly, AI got pretty close to my date.

Since my date missed out on the company of a nice guy, he offered to take me to see the movie instead. Maybe this was a sign. Maybe it was my duty to make Tim's wrong my right for the night. I had no intention of being disrespectful to this man. Perhaps he was the one that Biscuit and Shane told me to look out for as an unexpected "Sugar Daddy." But here I was, picked up by a sort of random man in a video arcade that I’d seen around the city, and he was treating me as if we were on a proper date, not just dumped.

Let me just say for the record, there was no blind date—it was something I made up because I thought it sounded good. So this gentleman not only held my hand and led me to the movie theater, but he also bought us tickets to see "Home Alone 2: Lost in New York" at the Lowes theater, along with two tubs of popcorn, a huge Sprite for me, and a Diet Coke for himself. I was on an unexpected date with a man who took pity on me and stepped in as my fake date’s understudy to my actual, not-really, fake date.

Years ago, while watching the first "Home Alone" movie, I never would have imagined there would be a second or that it would be set in the city I now call home. Not with my mom or even TK, who I felt was embarrassed to be seen with me, but with a sweet man who treated me as a proper date. Despite my initial disinterest in his company, thinking he would try to pull some funny business, we ended up having a pleasant time together. It was unexpected, and I think the hand-holding on the way to the theater was a sweet touch. I’m not sure if it was to give me the full effect of an actual date or if he was just affectionate with anyone.

When the movie began, he settled comfortably in his seat, watching the screen intently. As the film progressed, I found myself leaning my head on his shoulder. Surprisingly, he didn’t pull away or seem uncomfortable. Instead, he seemed to welcome the gesture, snuggling just a little closer. It felt unexpectedly sweet and genuine, almost as if he enjoyed the simple act of closeness as much as I did. His warmth and patience made me feel safe and cared for, turning what could have been an awkward situation into a comforting and memorable experience.

"Home Alone 2: Lost in New York" follows the misadventures of Kevin McCallister as he finds himself stranded in New York City during Christmas. The film captures the spirit of the city beautifully, with iconic landmarks and festive decorations setting the perfect backdrop for Kevin's escapades. Watching the movie while being in the very city it was set in made the experience all the more magical for me. It felt as if I was wandering the same streets alongside Kevin, sharing in his wonder and excitement. The film itself was a delightful blend of comedy and heartwarming moments, with Kevin once again outsmarting the bumbling burglars, Harry and Marv. Macaulay Culkin's performance was as charming as ever, and the addition of Tim Curry and Rob Schneider added an extra layer of humor to the film.

As I watched, I couldn't help but think back to when I saw the first "Home Alone" movie in Pensacola with my mom shortly after its release. The memory of that special time, filled with laughter and joy, added an extra layer of nostalgia to my experience in New York. After the movie, the man took me to a place that served pancakes bigger than your head, around the corner from the Townhouse Bar. We enjoyed our pancakes, which we could barely finish, laughing and talking about where we were from. He was really interested in where I was from because my accent, at the time, had become a hybrid of Southern, mid-Atlantic, and a bit of New York thrown in. The whole experience was surreal, almost like living in a movie myself. Here I was with this strange man, showing me kindness just as Kevin and the bird lady found friendship within the city by chance. They were both exactly what each other needed at the time.

"Home Alone 2: Lost in New York" is a sequel that truly stands on its own, capturing the essence of the holiday season while delivering plenty of laughs and touching scenes. The movie beautifully showcases the magic of New York City during Christmas, from the grand tree at Rockefeller Center to the bustling stores. It highlights the importance of finding others to share the joy of the holiday season, even amidst chaos.

Though I never saw the man who stepped in as the alternate to my fake date again, I often think of his kindness and hope he found someone to appreciate him the way he deserved. To this day, I look back on that night with a smile. The combination of being in New York City, watching a movie set in the same place, and the festive atmosphere made it an unforgettable experience. For a few hours, though I was really just a kid, I felt like a kid again, filled with wonder and excitement.

"Home Alone 2: Lost in New York" remains one of my favorite Christmas movies, not just for its entertainment value, but for the cherished memory it created during my time in the city. It was a brief respite from the complexities of my life at the time, and the film, intertwined with that personal memory, has a special place in my heart.

Sunday, December 15, 2024

Letters to Santa: A Holiday Tradition and a Deep Personal Story

 


Writing letters to Santa was always a cornerstone of my Christmas season. Mama had a unique way of making Santa seem like he was my real grandfather. It was a bit ironic because I did have a grandfather—Mama's stepdad, whom we called PawPaw. Although PawPaw was distant with me, it seemed a mythical being was more family to me. But as a kid, I never knew any better.

One of my earliest memories is sitting on Santa's lap at Springdale Mall when I was about 3 or 4 years old. I was so shy that I forgot everything I wanted to ask Santa for, except GoGo Boots. I think he misunderstood and I got cowboy boots instead. Years later, at 16, I found myself sitting on Santa’s lap again, this time at Macy’s in NYC. I was homeless then and told him I wanted a place of my own. I don’t think the Macy’s Santa understood completely, but he said he would do his best.

Not me but that was my style at 16, though different hair

Mama loved Christmas, and our house was always filled with Santa decorations. Watching Miracle on 34th Street gave Santa a definitive story in my mind, reinforcing the magical aura around him.
My letters to Santa started out like any other kid’s—filled with lists of toys and gifts I wished for. But over time, they evolved into more. They became a place where I poured out my thoughts and feelings, almost like a journal.

I remember one year, in third grade, our teacher Mrs. Kell gave us an assignment to write a letter to someone. I wrote to Santa. Mrs. Kell, who was supposed to be a family friend, wasn’t pleased. She told me Santa wasn’t real and made me write another letter to someone else. I chose PawPaw, but it was my grandmother who wrote back, not him.

Despite Mrs. Kell’s disbelief, the cookies we left out for Santa were always eaten, and the milk was always at a lower level in the morning. To me, that was proof enough that Santa was real.

One of the most personal letters I wrote to Santa was when I was about 9. In it, I came out to him, telling him I was gay and that I was being molested by a neighbor two doors down from me, the father of a girl in my same grade. I wondered if Santa hated me for being gay. Writing that letter was a vulnerable moment, but it felt safe to share it with Santa, as he would understand and possibly give me guidance to make the abuse end. I never got the guidance, but at the age of 12, it did end.



Even now, though I don't write letters to Santa, I still believe in the spirit of Santa and the magic that surrounds his character. The spirit of Christmas and the joy of those childhood memories fill me with warmth and wonder every holiday season.

Saturday, December 14, 2024

Saturday GLOWcase: Les Muir, A Dedicated Fan of GLOW from Chilliwack, Canada

Welcome to the Saturday GLOWcase! In addition to featuring the wrestlers, cast, and crew of GLOW, I will now also be highlighting the original fans of the show. Without the dedicated viewers, GLOW wouldn’t have thrived for the four amazing seasons that it did. Today, we’re celebrating one of those loyal fans who helped make GLOW the iconic show it is.

Les Muir, a devoted fan of GLOW (Gorgeous Ladies of Wrestling), hails from the charming town of Chilliwack, Canada. His introduction to GLOW came through an unconventional route compared to many fans of the 80s wrestling phenomenon. Les and I first crossed paths on the 2017 GLOW cruise, where we quickly bonded over our shared appreciation for the iconic wrestling show and became good friends.
Les With Hollywood
Growing up in a farmhouse in the 1980s, Les's television experience was quite different. With only a 40-foot antenna outside the house, he could only access 3 or 4 channels on a good day. Cable television remained a distant luxury until he turned 20. As a result, Les never actually watched full episodes of GLOW during its original run. Instead, his first encounter with the GLOW ladies came through various talk and game shows where they made appearances.

One day, while watching the Phil Donahue show, Les noticed the colorful and dynamic presence of the GLOW wrestlers. Though he couldn’t watch the matches themselves, the glimpses he got from these shows were enough to spark a lasting interest. Among all the GLOW wrestlers, Beastie stood out as his favorite, thanks to her wild and unique outfit that left a lasting impression.

Les (Center) with GLOW girls Beastie & Sunny to the right and Angel on his left

Despite the limitations of rural television reception, Les's enthusiasm for GLOW remained strong. His story is a testament to the far-reaching impact of GLOW, which captivated audiences even outside the usual broadcasting range. Les's journey from discovering GLOW on talk shows to celebrating its legacy on a themed cruise highlights the enduring allure of the Gorgeous Ladies of Wrestling.

Friday, December 13, 2024

Rankin & Bass Christmas Specials: A Holiday Tradition


As a kid growing up in the 80's, one of the highlights of my Christmas season was watching the Rankin & Bass Christmas specials. Once I was old enough to read, I would eagerly mark the TV Guide to indicate which shows we would be watching. My family was okay with this ritual because it was just once a year that I could see these magical movies.

The Complete Rankin & Bass Christmas Collection DVD

Rudolph the Red-Nosed Reindeer was my favorite. I related to Rudolph in ways I didn't fully understand at the time. His story of being bullied and feeling like an outcast resonated deeply with me. Rudolph's journey to find acceptance and his place in the world mirrored my own struggles. The charming voice of Burl Ives as Sam the Snowman brought a warmth to the story that made it even more special.

The Little Drummer Boy had a beautiful song, but I found the story a bit boring. Still, I watched it every year, simply because it was part of the tradition. The voice talents of Greer Garson as the narrator and José Ferrer as Ben Haramed brought the characters to life, even if the story didn't captivate me as much as the others.

Frosty the Snowman was a lot of fun, but it always made me cry when he melted. The joy and sorrow wrapped up in that story were a powerful combination for a child like me. Jackie Vernon’s voice as Frosty gave the character a lovable, jolly personality that made his temporary departure all the more heartbreaking.

Santa Claus Is Coming to Town was another favorite. The Santa in the film looked remarkably like a man who worked at the K&B Drugstore we frequented. He was always super nice, and I had a little crush on him, as far as little kid crushes go. Perhaps that's why I have a soft spot for gingers to this day. The film featured the voices of Mickey Rooney as Kris Kringle and Fred Astaire as the narrator, which added a layer of charm and nostalgia.

Over the years, these specials remained a cherished part of my holiday routine. Even as an adult, I continue to watch them whenever I get the chance. The characters and their stories have a timeless quality that brings back the magic of childhood every time I see them.

One interesting tidbit about the Rankin & Bass Christmas specials is that many of the original figures used in the stop-motion animations were found years later. These figures were incredibly detailed and usually scaled to about six to twelve inches in size. Finding out someone found these figures was like rediscovering a piece of my childhood, a tangible connection to those magical moments spent in front of the TV.

The magic of Rankin & Bass Christmas specials endures, continuing to bring joy and nostalgia to countless viewers year after year. They are more than just movies; they are a bridge to our past, a reminder of the wonder and innocence of childhood.

Thursday, December 12, 2024

The Magic of Tolkien's "Letters from Father Christmas"


Hey there! With the holiday season in full swing, I wanted to share one of my all-time favorite reads that perfectly captures the festive spirit: J.R.R. Tolkien's "Letters from Father Christmas." This collection of letters, written by Tolkien to his kids between 1920 and 1943, is pure holiday magic. It's filled with whimsical adventures, heartwarming messages, and beautiful illustrations that bring the North Pole to life.


I first discovered "Letters from Father Christmas" when I was 16, back in 1992, at the New York City library. I remember being completely enchanted by the magical world Tolkien created. The detailed letters and enchanting illustrations transported me to the North Pole, where Father Christmas, his clumsy yet lovable assistant the North Polar Bear, and other delightful characters had all sorts of adventures.


I was so engrossed in the book that I didn’t want to leave the library when it closed. Even though I had to leave the book behind, I returned several times just to finish it. I couldn't get a library card to check it out because I didn’t have an ID or proper residence, but that didn’t stop me from diving into the magic of Tolkien’s letters. Those visits were some of my favorite moments, and the story has stuck with me ever since.

Tolkien’s "Letters from Father Christmas" takes readers on a journey to a magical realm inhabited by Father Christmas, the clumsy North Polar Bear, and a host of other characters. Each letter is beautifully illustrated and meticulously crafted, filled with adventures and heartfelt updates from the North Pole. The North Polar Bear often causes chaos with his antics, adding a humorous touch that’s fun for kids and adults alike.


What makes this collection really special is the personal touch Tolkien brings to each letter. Written for his children, the letters are filled with love and warmth, reflecting the bond between a father and his kids. They provide a glimpse into Tolkien’s life and the joys and challenges of parenthood, making the letters even more endearing.


Tolkien’s artistic talents shine through in his intricate illustrations. The beautifully drawn pictures bring the stories to life, adding an extra layer of magic to the enchanting tales. From detailed maps of the North Pole to whimsical depictions of the characters, the artwork is a feast for the eyes and a testament to Tolkien’s multifaceted genius.


"Letters from Father Christmas" has a timeless appeal that resonates with readers of all ages. For fans of Tolkien’s other works, these letters offer a unique perspective on his storytelling prowess and creative imagination. They provide a delightful escape into a world where magic is real and the spirit of Christmas is alive and well.


This book is suitable for all ages, but it’s particularly magical for children and those young at heart. The whimsical stories and charming illustrations are perfect for bedtime reading during the holiday season, creating lasting memories for families.


"Letters from Father Christmas" is a must-read for anyone looking to recapture the magic of Christmas. Tolkien’s charming letters and delightful illustrations create a heartwarming and enchanting experience that’s sure to become a holiday tradition. Whether you’re a long-time fan of Tolkien or new to his works, this collection is a perfect addition to your festive reading list.

Every year, I love skimming through it during the holiday season, reliving the joy and magic that Tolkien so wonderfully captured. If you haven’t read it yet, treat yourself to this delightful piece of Christmas history. Happy holidays! 🎄📚✨

Wednesday, December 11, 2024

Heavenly Ham's ACTUAL Classic Ham Salad Recipe

The logo of the former Heavenly Ham

Years ago, I shared the actual Turkey Salad recipe from the now-defunct ham store chain, Heavenly Ham. Since then, I've received requests for other recipes from the chain. I have had to substitute a few ingredients as the originals were proprietary to Heavenly Ham and didn't transfer when Honey Baked bought them.

One of the easiest and most beloved recipes from Heavenly Ham was their Ham Salad. Contrary to popular belief, it only contained three ingredients, making it incredibly simple to recreate. Here’s a recipe that’s as close to the original Heavenly Ham's Ham Salad as you can get today.

A box lunch similar to what you'd get from Heavenly Ham back in the day.

Ingredients:

  • 1 lb Spiral Sliced Ham or any thicker cut (honey smoked is a must; brand doesn’t matter)

  • 1/2 cup Special Sauce (see below)

  • 2 stalks of green onion

Instructions:

  1. Place all ingredients into a food processor.

  2. Chop until mixed but not too fine.

  3. Enjoy on your favorite bread with a slice of Havarti cheese, a slather of mayo, and special sauce.


Heavenly Ham's Special Sauce was nothing more than equal parts of Heavenly Ham's That Mustard and Mayonnaise. That Mustard was one of the proprietary items that is no longer made so I had to clone my own version which comes as close as you will get.

Heavenly Ham's Special Sauce

Ingredients:

  • Equal parts of Mayonnaise and Heavenly Ham's That Mustard

Heavenly Ham That Mustard Clone:

  • 1/2 cup Spicy Brown Mustard

  • 2 tbsp Honey

  • 2 tbsp Mayonnaise

  • Dash of Red Ground Cayenne Pepper

Tuesday, December 10, 2024

A Very Special Christmas 1 & 2 Music Review Celebrating the Season

The holiday season has always been a magical time for me, filled with cherished traditions and fond memories. One of the most enduring and beloved parts of my festive routine has been listening to A Very Special Christmas 1 & 2. Released to benefit the Special Olympics, these albums feature a star-studded lineup of artists and have become beloved holiday staples since their release.

I still remember the first time I heard A Very Special Christmas 1. It was a chilly evening in December, and I was at our neighbor's house just before Christmas. The moment the Pointer Sisters' "Santa Claus Is Coming to Town" came on, I was hooked. The album is a perfect blend of holiday classics and unique renditions by some of the most iconic artists of the time. Tracks like Whitney Houston's "Do You Hear What I Hear?" and Bruce Springsteen's "Merry Christmas Baby" quickly became favorites. The mix of upbeat songs and soulful ballads made it an instant classic in our home. The album's artwork, designed by Keith Haring, features a vibrant red background with a simple yet striking image of a mother holding her child, adding a visually festive touch to the musical collection.

Then came A Very Special Christmas 2, which only added to the holiday joy. I was thrilled to hear Tom Petty's "Christmas All Over Again" and Debbie Gibson's "Sleigh Ride." Each song seemed to capture the essence of the holiday spirit in a way that felt both nostalgic and fresh. Randy Travis' "Jingle Bell Rock" and Aretha Franklin's "O Christmas Tree" are standout tracks that have me singing along every time. This album continued the tradition of bringing together a diverse group of artists, making the Christmas season even more special. The artwork for this album, also by Keith Haring, features a festive green background with a simple, joyful image of three angels, perfectly capturing the spirit of the season.

These albums were not just about bringing joy through music; they were also created with a purpose. The proceeds from both A Very Special Christmas 1 & 2 were directed to benefit the Special Olympics, making the listening experience even more meaningful. Over the years, these albums have raised millions of dollars, supporting athletes with intellectual disabilities and promoting inclusion and empowerment through sports.

Over the years, these albums have been the soundtrack to countless holiday moments. From wrapping presents and baking cookies to cozy nights with a cup of hot cocoa, the music of A Very Special Christmas 1 & 2 has been there through it all. The joy and warmth these songs bring are unparalleled, and they never fail to evoke a sense of nostalgia and happiness. Whether it's the unique blend of artists or the timeless appeal of the songs, these albums hold a special place in my heart.

As we approach another holiday season, I'm excited to once again put on these albums and let the music fill my home with festive cheer. They remind me of the magic of the holidays and the simple joys that come with this time of year. If you haven't yet experienced the charm of A Very Special Christmas 1 & 2, I highly recommend giving them a listen. They're sure to become a beloved part of your holiday traditions, just as they have been for me.


Monday, December 9, 2024

A Day Trip to Orlando on Frontier Airlines Sunday, December 8, 2024: Random Thoughts and Musings

While I have mostly dedicated my blog to Christmas related entries for this month, today's entry is all about the day trip I did on Frontier Airlines from Atlanta to Orlando and back to Atlanta December 8, 2024.

A Frontier Airlines Airbus A320


Firstly, I Hate the Orlando airport. Moving throughout the concourses is inconvenient. Compared to Atlanta, which is much smoother and more efficient, Orlando feels chaotic. The TSA lines feel like they were designed by the same people who create the super long ride queues at Disney and Universal. A 17-minute wait took 45 minutes of wandering and weaving through a maze of ropes.

The reason for my little day trip, which started when I departed from Atlanta at 10am and returned by 5pm, was to do a little shopping in the airport. The Go Wild Pass is super convenient, though one needs to be mindful of what they are taking with them in their personal item to avoid any fees where it could be considered a "Carry On" upon return. My messenger bag was filled to the brink when I returned and barely fit into the metal bag sizer that Frontier uses.

If you're interested in actual shopping, the best shops are located outside of the security area, although I've been told that some of the shops in Concourse C are decent. Fortunately, Hudson/Avolta is conveniently located within the concourses, which I appreciated since I could use my employee discount.

Flying with Frontier Airlines: Since I have the Go Wild Pass, I can essentially fly as much as I want throughout the year for just the cost of taxes each way, with some blackout dates. Despite the horror stories I've heard about their service, I didn't encounter any issues. Then again, I've never really had service issues with any airline I've flown with, except for Eastern losing our luggage when I was a kid.

Watching The Phantom of the Opera in seat 24A

There was a gate agent in Atlanta who seemed disinterested in acknowledging passengers as individuals. For the flight from Atlanta, only three exit row seats were available, and I missed out on them as I was on a conference call for work. However, seat 24A, a window seat on the A320, was comfortable enough, and I had sufficient legroom to stretch out a bit. Considering I'm just shy of 5'8" these days, I can't imagine 6'4" Terry being as comfortable, but it seemed comparable to our AA flight from LAX to ATL a few years ago.

I loved the legroom in Exit Row 12A

On my flight back, twelve exit row seats were available, and I was first up for it. I don't mind the basics of exit rows—it's a trade-off for a bit more room. I had at least a foot and a half between my knees and the seat in front of me.

Frontier, like Spirit and other budget carriers, doesn't offer free beverages and snacks, but their menu does have some decent offerings, including good options for alcoholic beverages. I was all set with what I grabbed at the newsstands with my discount. Interestingly, Frontier is one of the only airlines I've seen that doesn't provide airsickness bags in the seat pocket in front of you. I'm not sure what I would have done if I or the people next to me got sick. I know it happens, but I guess one either deals with it somehow or runs to the lavatory in the front or one of the two in the rear and hopes no one is in it.

Despite these quirks, my experience with Frontier was positive. The flight crew was professional, and the boarding process was smooth. An airline experience is often as good as you make it. The most important thing is getting from point A to B safely, and Frontier delivered on that front.

Back to Hudson: I love working for them, but I get a little envious when I travel and see stores outside my districts. Ft. Lauderdale carries wraps we don't have in ATL, and Orlando has some bombass chicken salad sandwiches that really hit the spot.

Considering my flights today were between ATL and Florida, I expected some turbulence, but aside from a couple of bumps on the way down, there was none. It's strange, given that all the flights I've done in, out, and over Florida in the past have been rough.

Every time I go to Florida, it feels like home—the sun is always inviting. But as someone who escaped Florida 28 years ago, I'm only interested in quick visits, never to take residence again, unless the political scene changes to be more people-friendly. The scenery is always great, whether you're crossing over lakes or land that resembles a grid with the way the roads are paved.

If I ever were to move back to Florida, it would have to be around Orlando or somewhere south of Orlando. Terry and I could transfer without any issues from our jobs. For the next four years, though, that's not going to happen. Perhaps transferring somewhere in Europe or Asia is more likely.

Nuclear Power Plants: Something I noticed this trip that I hadn't before were a few nuclear power plants. Remember when they told us nuclear would be cleaner and cheaper to produce? If so, are those receiving power from those sources paying less?

A320 Musings: I used to be a B757 fan, but I love the squeaky sounds before takeoff on Airbus aircraft. The brown noise of the engines is the same sound that I fall asleep to almost every night. Not sure why, but it's relaxing to me.

The landing in Atlanta was abrupt—the first time I ever felt all the wheels touch down at almost the exact same time. Better than a tail strike, I suppose.

We also landed on a runway, rode it down to T, turned around, taxied up to D, and cut through D and E to taxi back to T. The logistics of airlines that don't have dedicated gates is a little baffling.

All in all I had a great time just flying. Over the years, I thought about creating my own onboard courier or hand-carry courier service but it's one of those things that I just never got around to. Perhaps with my access to Frontier, I just might make that jump on my days off. ;-)

Sunday, December 8, 2024

Nostalgic Joy: My Lifelong Love for Catalogs at Christmas

The Christmas season was always a special time in my house, despite my parents' relationship being a bit of a struggle, to say the least. Mama and Daddy always made sure to make it special for my sister and me. While there was plenty going on on TV as well as the radio, I would sometimes spend hours next to the Christmas tree, at the kitchen table, or in my room flipping through catalogs, making lists for my upcoming letter to Santa. Back when we lived in our little yellow rented house on Easter Lane in Mobile, Alabama, my parents began to collect catalogs from stores like JC Penny, Spiegel, Montgomery Ward, as well as the holy grail of catalogs, Sears—most notably, the Sears Wish Book.

The catalogs never seemed to be thrown away even after they were outdated, and they followed us from the yellow house to the house we moved into two doors down a few years later, and also when we moved to Pace, Florida. Each year, new additions would arrive, inspiring more Christmas wishes for me. I tried to preserve the catalogs as best I could, never marking in them unlike most children who circled what they wanted. Instead, I made lists, noting the store, catalog number, page number, a description, and the reason I wanted the item. Although I knew I wasn't going to get everything I asked for—sometimes not a single thing on my list—it was still a fun and exciting activity that filled me with holiday spirit.

After I left home, my love for catalogs remained strong. While many of the catalogs from stores of the past are no longer printed due to the businesses going under, focusing on brick and mortar sales or simply transitioning to online sales, I still occasionally receive catalogs. Companies like Ginny's, a part of the modern-day Swiss Colony and Montgomery Ward, still send out catalogs, and there's also the massive book from a company that seems to tickle everyone's funny bone, Fingerhut. I also enjoy looking at the old catalogs on pages like Wishbook Web, where I can relive those nostalgic memories and daydreams.

Even as an adult, I find joy in flipping through these catalogs, reminiscing about the simpler times when I'd dream of Christmas gifts by the light of the Christmas tree. The tradition of catalog browsing may have evolved, but the magic it brings remains the same. Whether it's making lists or just admiring the variety of products, catalogs have always been a source of excitement and holiday spirit for me. How about you? What were your favorite catalogs?

Saturday, December 7, 2024

Saturday GLOWcase: The Unforgettable Tiffany Mellon of GLOW

This week's Saturday GLOWcase is all about the Park Avenue Knockout from season three and four of the Gorgeous Ladies of Wrestling, Tiffany Mellon.
Shortly after I began watching GLOW, it was already towards the end of season 2. The TV station in my area, WPMI Channel 15, decided to drop the show after the season 2 finale, which ended with the infamously edited match where Tina lost her crown to Ninotchka.
My family were the kind of people who bought the TV Guide on a weekly basis. My mom, dad, sister, and I would scan the pages looking for programs we wanted to watch, and I would always look a week beforehand. I didn’t care much for what aired Monday through Friday because that was usually when my parents controlled the TV, but Saturday and Sunday mornings were all mine. That’s when I focused on finding my new favorite show, the Gorgeous Ladies of Wrestling.
I searched through every TV guide twice for an entire summer. Then my parents stopped buying the TV Guide and relied on the free TV listings that came in the newspaper, which made it a little harder to scan. One evening, I opened up the free TV listing and couldn’t believe my eyes: “44 WJTC - GLOW.” A different station, but still an independent and very much local channel. Could this be the same GLOW? I didn't know, but that weekend, I was ready to see if Tina would win back that crown from the Russian.
The opening of the 3rd season seemed a little different than season 2, but I didn’t really pay much attention until a glittery-haired blonde lady at a typewriter introduced herself as “Tiffany Mellon” with all the GLOW gossip. She was beautiful and had a crazy high-pitched laugh. Did I like her? I wasn’t sure…until the very first match of that season featuring herself and another newcomer, Godiva.
Tiffany Mellon, portrayed by actress and former exotic dancer Sandra Margot, quickly became one of the standout characters in GLOW. Her glamorous persona, combined with her bubbly and sometimes mischievous demeanor, made her a fan favorite. Tiffany was known for her elaborate gold outfit, dazzling jewelry, gold glittered hair and makeup and, of course, her signature laugh that could be heard across the arena.
In the ring, Tiffany Mellon was no pushover. She demonstrated impressive wrestling skills and was involved in some of the most memorable matches in GLOW history. Whether she was taking a beating from the likes of Godiva, as seen in her debut match, or receiving piledrivers from Beastie and Major Tanya, Tiffany always made an impact. When she had the upper hand, she delivered her own brand of justice with precision. Her matches were thrilling and filled with entertaining storylines that kept fans on the edge of their seats. If you were a fan of the bad girls, you couldn’t help but feel her pain. And if you were a fan of the good girls, you were always rooting for her to pull through, especially during those seemingly devastating moves like piledrivers. Tiffany's character development throughout the seasons kept fans hooked and eager to see what she would do next.
Sandra Margot’s acting skills went beyond her portrayal of the spoiled rich girl persona, Tiffany Mellon. She also took on the dual role of “Sarah,” one half of the hickster tag team “Sarah and Mabel.” Sarah was the one in green. This versatility showcased her talent and ability to bring diverse characters to life, further endearing her to GLOW's dedicated fan base once they discovered who was behind the mask.
Sandra’s performances, both as Tiffany and Sarah, contributed significantly to the charm and appeal of GLOW. She brought a unique energy and charisma to the ring, provided natural comic relief, and wasn't afraid to introduce a bit of silliness to the forefront, making her a standout performer among the roster of the Gorgeous Ladies of Wrestling.
After her time on GLOW, Sandra Margot transitioned to the adult film industry, where she became Tyffany Million and performed with some of the top names, including Ron Jeremy. Her career shift was notable and she continued to make a name for herself in a completely different arena where she performed in over 100 X-rated films before rolling into another career shift, as a private investigator and bounty hunter and found herself starring in her own family friendly reality television show called "Wife, Mom, Bounty Hunter." Sandra was not just a bounty hunter, she was a bounty hunter with a heart. Sandra, or shall I say Tyffany Million, is planning to return to the adult entertainment industry and has been active with OnlyFans as well as Loyal Fans
Tiffany Mellon and the other Gorgeous Ladies of Wrestling left an indelible mark on the world of professional wrestling. They paved the way for future generations of female wrestlers, breaking barriers and proving that women could be both fierce competitors and captivating entertainers. Tiffany’s unique character and memorable moments continue to be celebrated by fans old and new. Sandra’s current life is as colorful as her time in GLOW and beyond. She’s been planning a return to entertainment on her own terms. To help with her comeback, Sandra has organized a GoFundMe campaign to assist with augmentation of her breasts as one has ruptured and is in need of reconstruction. If you would like to donate to Sandra’s GoFundMe, please click here or on the following link.



Friday, December 6, 2024

A Movie Night to Cherish: 'Home Alone' and Motherly Love

Home Alone

Growing up, going to the movies was a rare treat for me. My parents preferred the comfort of home, where TV shows were free and movies often aired without the need for a ticket purchase. At the time "Home Alone" was released, my mom worked during the day at Hackbarth Delivery Service, and she had her evenings free. My dad, on the other hand, worked with Team, Inc. and spent his evenings at Murphy's Lounge on the Pensacola side of Escambia River. Their relationship was strained, their marriage on the brink, and their disagreements frequent.

During this tumultuous period, I was dealing with my own struggles. I found myself in the midst of a complicated friendship, wanting for it to be more. My friend, who I'd known since a bullying incident in the 6th grade, only wanted to keep things casual and secret due to fears of being "out" in our conservative area. I also suspected that he might have been embarrassed for people to know we were boyfriends, let alone friends. This added to my emotional turmoil, leaving me feeling isolated and misunderstood. My mom, in a misguided effort to help, had me attending Alateen meetings and counseling sessions, but all I wanted was to be left alone or to be comforted by my best friend.


In the midst of our constant bickering, my mom decided to treat me to a night at the movies. She went to the bank and withdrew money for our tickets and whatever snacks we wanted at the concession stand. We drove to Cordova Mall, parked near the cinema and bought tickets for "Home Alone," the new Christmas movie everyone was raving about. Despite our troubles, that night, something magical happened.

"Home Alone" was a breath of fresh air. It was entirely different from the other Christmas classic we loved, "A Miracle on 34th Street," but it brought us joy and laughter. Kevin McCallister's antics, as he defended his home from bumbling burglars, struck a chord with us. We laughed together, forgot our worries for a couple of hours, and simply enjoyed the film. After the movie, we wandered around the mall, savoring the rare moment of peace between us. For the first time in a long while, we didn't argue. The next day, we returned to our usual disagreements, but something good had come from that movie night. We had found another Christmas movie to cherish, and it gave us a memory of shared laughter during a time of unhappiness.

"Home Alone" remains a beloved holiday classic for many. Its blend of comedy, heart, and the timeless theme of family makes it an enduring favorite. The film's portrayal of a young boy cleverly outwitting would-be thieves while learning the importance of family resonates with audiences year after year. For me, it will always remind me of that special night with my mom, a night when we found common ground and shared a much-needed laugh.

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Thursday, December 5, 2024

A Review of "A Christmas Carol" Original Manuscript Edition

A Christmas Carol Charles Dickens

Returning to work in a bookstore brought with it a slew of unexpected delights, and none more captivating than the moment I stumbled upon "A Christmas Carol: The Original Manuscript Edition." As someone who has always adored the timeless tale, its various film adaptations, and the book itself, this edition instantly caught my eye.

Flipping through its pages, I was enthralled by the unique format. On one page, you have the familiar printed text, and on the opposite page, the handwritten manuscript by Charles Dickens himself. This pairing offers a rare glimpse into the author's creative process, allowing readers to see Dickens' original scribbles and notes. It brings a tangible connection to the story and its creator, making this edition stand out as the one to own for any true fan.

What truly makes this version of "A Christmas Carol" exceptional is its historical significance. A Rare copy of the book was aboard the RMS Lusitania when it tragically sank in 1915, adding a layer of historical intrigue to the already rich narrative. This fact not only underscores the enduring legacy of Dickens' work but also adds a poignant reminder of the manuscript's journey through time.

Revisiting the story through this unique edition rekindled my love for "A Christmas Carol." It reminded me why this classic tale has resonated with readers for generations. Scrooge's transformation from a miserly old man to a figure of redemption and generosity is a narrative that never loses its charm. The manuscript edition enhances this experience by offering a deeper, more intimate understanding of the story.

If you're a fan of "A Christmas Carol" or simply appreciate literary history, this original manuscript edition is a must-have. It's more than just a book; it's a piece of history that brings you closer to Dickens and his timeless tale. Whether you're discovering the story for the first time or returning to it as an old friend, this edition offers something truly special.

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Wednesday, December 4, 2024

A Secret Date at 13: National Lampoon's Christmas Vacation at University Mall


One of my all-time favorite holiday movies is National Lampoon's Christmas Vacation. Every holiday season, I make sure to watch this 1989 classic. It perfectly blends the chaos of the holidays with family fun, and it never fails to make me laugh.

I have a really special memory associated with this movie. It was one of the first movies I went to on an actual date. I was 13, and he was 12. The funny part is, it was a daytime date with the son of one of my mom's co-workers. Our moms had no idea it was a date—they just thought it was two kids going to see a movie. My mom drove us to University Mall in Pensacola, dropped us off, and went shopping.

We watched National Lampoon's Christmas Vacation, and I remember laughing so much at all the crazy things happening to the Griswold family. After the movie, his mom picked us up in her little Yugo. We were sitting in the back seat, still giggling about the movie. I often wonder if his mom saw us sneak a kiss back there. It's one of those sweet, innocent memories that makes me smile every time I think about it.

A blue Yugo just like the one his mom drove

Whenever I watch the movie now, it takes me back to that fun and innocent time. The movie itself is just as hilarious as ever. Clark Griswold, played by Chevy Chase, trying to create the perfect Christmas, only to have everything go hilariously wrong—it's so relatable. We’ve all had those moments during the holidays when things don't go as planned, and that's what makes it so funny and endearing.

And while Christmas Vacation is my holiday go-to, I also love Vegas Vacation. It was filmed not long after I worked in Las Vegas, so it always reminds me of my time there and brings back great memories.

Thinking about all this just makes me appreciate the movie even more. It’s not just about the laughs, but the memories tied to it. So, if you haven’t seen it in a while, or if you’ve never seen it, National Lampoon's Christmas Vacation is definitely worth a watch. It’s sure to bring some holiday cheer and maybe even remind you of your own special memories.

Tuesday, December 3, 2024

A Nostalgic Christmas with Elvis

I still remember the time my dad took me to K-Mart in Milton, Florida. The holiday season of 1985 was just beginning, and the store was filled with the typical festive K-Mart decorations and the sound of Christmas music. As we walked through the aisles, I spotted a record with Elvis Presley on the cover. He told me he didn't really like Elvis, but a couple of my cousins were part of an old gospel group that Elvis loved, and he became good friends with them. Despite his reservations, he bought the record for me. I honestly knew nothing other than the names of the songs, but I loved the color and picture of Elvis on the cover.


When we got home, I eagerly put the record on my old hand-me-down Emerson Disco 80 record player. As the first notes of "Blue Christmas" filled the room, I was instantly captivated by Elvis's voice. It was soulful and full of emotion, something I hadn't expected. I listened to the entire album, which included classics like "White Christmas," "Here Comes Santa Claus," and "Silent Night." Each song transported me to a different world, filled with holiday cheer and nostalgia.

Elvis's Christmas Album, released in 1957, was a mix of secular and gospel songs. It featured six popular Christmas songs, two traditional carols, and four gospel tracks. The album was a hit, spending four weeks at No. 1 on the Billboard Top Pop Albums chart and becoming the best-selling Christmas album of all time in the United States. Elvis's rendition of "Blue Christmas" became a holiday classic, capturing the bittersweet feeling of spending Christmas without a loved one. Though Elvis only recorded a handful of holiday songs, they have been re-released and repackaged in many different ways over the years. My album was one of the various re-releases.

That record became a cherished part of my holiday tradition. Every year around the holidays, and once in a while throughout the year, I would play it just because. It reminded me of that special day at K-Mart and the joy of discovering a new/old favorite artist. Even though my dad didn't like Elvis, he gave me a gift that brought me so much happiness. It's a memory I'll always treasure.

Monday, December 2, 2024

The Childhood Christmas Play That Sparked My Passion for Acting


One of my most vivid childhood memories is participating in a Christmas play at our local church, the Pleasant View Baptist Church in Mobile, AL. This performance took place when I was in kindergarten, and it stands out for several reasons, not least of which was my role and the experience that came with it.

I was chosen to play the grandson of a man who read a Christmas story to the congregation. This might sound like a simple part, but for a five-year-old, it was quite a responsibility. My primary task was to sit on his lap for a significant portion of the performance, and while that might seem easy, it presented its own unique challenges.

Firstly, his breath was not exactly what a child would enjoy—a blend of menthol, peppermint, cigarettes, and whiskey, probably to take the edge off his own nerves—something that I distinctly remember to this day. Maintaining a starry-eyed, attentive expression while dealing with this was no small feat for my young self. Additionally, I had to stay awake and engaged throughout the entire reading, which lasted about 35 minutes. For a kindergartner, this felt like an eternity.

Despite these hurdles, though I was not exactly into "church," the play was a significant part of my early Christmas experiences. It embodied the spirit of community and the festive season, bringing together families and friends to celebrate the holiday in a meaningful way. The traditional decorations, the familiar faces of the congregation, and the excitement of being part of a performance all contributed to a memorable occasion.

Since I didn’t really have a grandfather in my life, I thought of the man as being my real grandfather during those moments and beyond. I would seek him out before church services just so I could sit with him. I can't remember his name, but he was a good sport and went along with it to the point that I think some of the church members truly believed we were family. This experience sparked my interest in wanting to be an actor, and perhaps even a singing actor. The support and encouragement from the congregation and my mama helped build my confidence and appreciation for the traditions that make the holiday season special.

Later in life, when I began performing in singing and acting, I would always think back to this experience and thank my "fake grandfather" for going the distance with his role. Looking back, I realize that this early experience was not just about the performance itself, but also about the confidence it instilled in me. The support and encouragement from the congregation and my mama helped build my confidence on stage, many years later. Every time I stepped into the spotlight, I carried with me the lessons learned and the sense of belonging fostered during that memorable Christmas play.

Sunday, December 1, 2024

Defunct Heavenly Ham's Legendary Turkey Salad Recipe

Back in 1997, I had the pleasure of working for Heavenly Ham, which was the chief competitor to Honey Baked Ham at the time. When I left the company, I had the recipes for their Tuna Salad, Pasta Salad, Ham Salad, Chicken Salad, and Turkey Salad burned in my memory. The turkey salad was ALWAYS my favorite throughout my time working for Heavenly Ham. Now that they are no longer in business and have been bought out by Honey Baked Ham, many of their products are no longer produced. While Honey Baked Ham does offer a turkey salad, it is not THE turkey salad. It's a shame because the turkey salad at Heavenly Ham was unbelievably good and far better in my opinion. Although many people don't care for its appearance or assume its ingredients sound unappetizing, don't let the mayo content scare you off. Once mixed, its calorie count is no different than spreading a little on bread. Given the fact that turkey is a low-calorie and low-fat food, it balances out nicely.

Turkey Salad Recipe

Ingredients:

  • 16 oz package of Smoked Turkey Breast (lunch meat slices)

  • 1 9oz jar Major Grey Chutney (located in the ketchup aisle; like the photos above)

  • 1 1/2 cups of Mayo (NOT Miracle Whip or Mayo Dressing)

  • 2 to 3 Scallion Stalks

  • 1/2 tbsp Black Pepper

Instructions:

  1. Empty the jar of chutney and scallions into a food processor or Cuisinart and puree. Use a spatula to pour the mixture into a mixing bowl. Don't worry about rinsing the processor between steps; it all gets mixed together anyway.

  2. Chop the turkey in the food processor (almost to a ground texture) and pour it into the mixing bowl.

  3. Add the mayo and black pepper, mix well, and refrigerate until ready to serve.

This turkey salad is especially tasty on sandwiches made with croissants, lettuce, Havarti cheese slices, and tomato. It also makes a great alternative protein in salads or served with crackers.

Saturday, November 30, 2024

Saturday GLOWcase: The Unforgettable Journey of Tina Ferrari

I first discovered GLOW towards the end of season two and quickly became a fan of several characters, including Hollywood, Vine, and Tina Ferrari. When the show moved to a different station for season three, almost the entire cast changed, and Tina was no longer part of it. This was disappointing, but I enjoyed the matches I had on VHS tapes and thought Tina was one of the most amazing ladies of GLOW.

Lisa Moretti, known to us as Tina Ferrari, graduated from USC in 1984 and had cheered for the L.A. Express in the United States Football League. Between jobs, her friend Nadine convinced her to join a boxing gym in Watts, where Mando Guerrero was training young actresses in wrestling. Despite the grueling training, they were invited back and eventually headed to Las Vegas to shoot a pilot for GLOW. Lisa was super nervous for her first wrestling match and felt completely unprepared, but watching the pilot episode, you'd never know. GLOW's mix of quirky characters, fun costumes, and comedy sketches allowed everyone to get creative. Lisa as Tina fit right in alongside Nadine, who became Ashley Cartier.


Matt Cimber named their tag team "T&A" (Tina & Ashley) as a cheeky nod to their most obvious assets. David McLane and most of the original cast stayed at the Riviera Hotel for nine months to finish two seasons of GLOW. Tina roomed with Ashley and reconnected with their friend Annette from cheerleading, who became GLOW’s Jungle Woman. Even without professional training, the ladies of GLOW made their characters memorable, crafting their own rap lyrics and designing their costumes. Tina credits the other performers for making her look good and acknowledges David McLane's continuous support for women's wrestling.

Me, Ashley Cartier, Pedro & Tina Ferrari

In 2017, I had the incredible opportunity to cruise with Tina Ferrari and her partner Ashley Cartier on the Norwegian Dawn, where I learned that after wrestling, Lisa transitioned to running a small pet services business. She found fulfillment in caring for her four-legged clients, providing a safe and loving environment. We had an amazing time in Mexico, Honduras, and Belize, and Tina was every bit the superstar I had hoped she would be. While in Cozumel, she and I raced on waterslides and played in a human-sized hamster wheel, where I inadvertently knocked her over, and she accidentally kicked me in the chest, leaving me with a huge bruise for a few days. It was AWESOME.

Tina and I in Costa Maya

One of the most amazing facts I learned about Lisa that week was that she had been taking singing lessons and became active in regional theatre. She was preparing to take on the role of Velma in a production of Chicago and treated a few of us to an impromptu performance of a full-on belted version of "All That Jazz." If I didn't already love Tina Ferrari during her wrestling days, hearing her sing a random show tune like that was enough to make me a fan all over again.

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